it seems like they're the one's going out and not him and me. i know this jealousy seems really wrong. i simply can't help but feel like there's something going on between them. they've only met each other twice and it seems like she knows more about him than i do. is it my fault that im not talking to him enough and asking him questions? im just afraid of being the annoying girlfriend.
2006-11-30 14:55:39 · 17 answers · asked by angela l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
believe me, i definitely i confronted both of them and they both denied it. unfortunately, my boyfriend got mad because he was afraid i was the "jealous type." then we worked things out after i explained to him that im not usually jealous type and that i just felt insecure because something similar to this situation happened to me before. he told me that he liked me and not my friend. so i just forgot about it for a while and thought that he just talked to her because he wants to get on her good side since she's a close friend of mine. i told him that he mentions her a lot, and he asked me how is that so because he occasionally brings her up. its true, so i think im the one at fault. IT STILL ANNOYS ME WHEN HE DOES IT THOUGH
2006-11-30 15:50:42 · update #1
oh yeah, i think i know they met twice because i doubt they'd do anything behind my back. my boyfriend spends a lot of time with me and i know she has someone else in mind. i just dont understand because i mean.... what could they possibly talk about?? i trust my boyfriend, but it's just suspicious sometimes.
2006-11-30 16:00:49 · update #2
hi,
well it could just be that they happen to get along. but still its not a bad thing your have your guard up. try not to be jealous though, cause that wont get you anywhere. if its really bugging you a lot then talk to him about it. there's nothing wrong with asking questions. after-all to be in a relationship is just another way of getting to know another person. also, if i were you i would talk to your friend about what's going on, for all you know she doesnt even realize what she is doing.
2006-11-30 15:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by ballerbabe920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's actually trying to get inside information on you. It happens in my friends circle alot of time. Ask him to come to you if there is a problem with your relationship or if he wants to ask you something, rather than going to your best friend.
Everyone is being a downer about how he might be cheating on you. Ever considered he just wants to be friends with your friends? Maybe he finds your friends interesting as just that, a friend! Then that's great. Just let him know you are jealous, but only because you feel left out. Can the three of you guys do things together? And then have alone time for the two of you?
2006-12-01 00:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Evoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think because she may be jealous of you and wants to take him away. so either you can sit back and watch what is going on or you can talk to him and let him know how you feel. sometimes this is the way that women are. they can be very jealous and start problems. since she is acting this way i would step back from her. your main concern should be him. why is he taling to her? is your relationship tight? can you talk to him again to have him concentrate more on you?
you are in a loving relationship with him so there is where you should concentrate first. not her. find out what is going on with him and rectify that if you can. if not then you should know that you can not really trust her.
2006-11-30 23:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by PhatBeatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your jealousy is well served. They are more than likely cheating on you...sorry.
What I would do is catch them in the act. Give tickets to a show to your boyfriend and your "best" friend and tell them that you can't go for whatever reason. Then, purchuse a ticket a couple of rows back behind them and enjoy the show.
2006-11-30 23:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by jasonsmithmusic 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Angela,
My advice to you would be to keep a close eye on those two never leave your "friend" around your man alone first of all that's a no no, and you should talk to the friend that you said that knows more about your boo than you, you should check your friend, but in a nice way and ask what's going on with him and her.
2006-11-30 23:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Love hurts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are strange. It could be that she's competing with you, it could be that she must have anything you have, could be that they have an attraction and don't know how to tell you. It is disrespectful for your friend to act this way, are you sure she's a true friend. The answer is in your question, grasshopper 'I'm afraid'. You have to confront your fears or they will devastate you.
2006-11-30 23:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt that they only met eachother twice. Sounds like something is going on between them.... Hopefully your birthday is coming up and they are planning a surprise party, if not then watch out.
2006-11-30 22:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that before and trust me be careful!! Sooner or later things will get hot and heavy if they keep spending so much time together. If i was you i would tell her to back off!!!
2006-11-30 22:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that unfortunately he has probably lost interest in you and has found someone he likes better. If he is paying more attention to her it is a sign of a downward spiral in your relationship with him. You should get to the bottom of it and if he isnt very interested in you, stop wasting your time and find someone who will treat you like your the bomb ;)
2006-11-30 22:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by stella 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i use to have that same proble but i do not any more becuase i told him how felt and if he liked her then they can go out .and then you should just be more open with him.and hope he will do the same.you should also tell your friend how you feel if she is a good friend she will understand
2006-11-30 23:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by pinkpinkgirl12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋