I have a boyfrind and we ahve been going out for 6 months. I think that it is time for a break. I tried it about a month ago. And he talked me out of it. I really love him. At least what I think love is. I don't want to break up with him. I just want a stop for a week or so. I dont want to hurt him though. But we fight alot and I hate it. I just think that it would be good to have a break? Just to get stuff out? You know. My best friend wants me to dump him and so do some other people. But alot of people want us to stay together, So any advice? It would help??
2006-11-30 14:59:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
6 mths and fighting alot already.Not a good start at all.I can see how you need a break.If you are being honest and truly all you want is a break to clear your head and figure out where the relationship is going and where you want it to go, then.....
You need to get him to understand that you care about him but all the fighting is getting to you and if it continues it will turn to a break up.But at the same time be honest and let him know that is the reason for the break so he can think of it also and inform himself that if he cares even loves you at this point he will have to change some of his ways and learn how to talk and compermise.
If anyway you feel that you may explore you options for better and proper respect then get this relationship over right away dont have him on a back burner as it will hurt him even more in the long run.You dont want to hurt him but are you going to save his feelings over your own?I would hope not.You need to be strong and independant.considering you mentioned the love thing you sound like yous are young enough and are capable of getting over this if it is an actual break up.it might hurt at first and feel lonly for him and you may feel guilty but again it is your life also and what you want out of it and want to make of it matters the most.
2006-11-30 15:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stay with him but do what me and my boy friend does talk after school about how your day was and what was good and bad then you guys should get off the phone and not talk tell the next time you see him or the next day after school.that will stop all the fighting and you guys will begin to be more open torn each other.
2006-11-30 23:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by pinkpinkgirl12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds somewhat similar to my situation, but I know it's love. If you have doubts you're not in love. I'm sure y'all care about each other a lot, so you should be able to talk to him about this. Maybe say that you're not a guarantee & things need to change if you're going to stay. Tell him what you need, & if he isn't willing to give it to you, leave. Work for compromise. Good luck!
2006-11-30 23:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break just explain to him how you feel, don't put a time limit on the break just see how it goes.
2006-11-30 23:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** girl i know how you feel.....in fact i'm in the same boat as you.....me and my boyfriend is going through the same thing.....the best thing to do is do what your heart feels i know it doesn't help you much but it's the only thing to do.....well you can listen to what your friends say.....you just have to talk to him tell him how you feel and if he talks you out of it and things keep going bad just end it.....i'm trying to do it.....it's easier said then done.....good luck i hope you work things out
2006-11-30 23:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by ladee giggles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't listen to other people. (myself included) but breaks aren't bad things. seeing other people ? up to you
2006-11-30 23:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break and don't listen to him listen to what your heart says. do it for you. if you love him and he you it will all work out. trust your intuition.
2006-11-30 23:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by mich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel
Good Luck
2006-11-30 23:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♡I Love Christmas!♡ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart you will know what to do
2006-11-30 23:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by im at onegirlnumba@hotmail.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb
2006-11-30 23:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋