me too...we just met at the internets, and we are really half world apart having different nationalities...help me please. Shall I continue with him or start forgetting about him? I have no idea if he has a plan to make formal divorce with his ex....my feelings of meeting him one day depends on this.
2006-11-30 14:56:07 · 9 answers · asked by Nami 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wont divorce his ex. If he does though, I doubt it would be for you and the two of you wont get together. You should never form a relationship with a married person. No matter what they are going through with their spouse. They are married and you are commiting adultry with them. He could also be lying about the seperation.
2006-11-30 14:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to end this. He's a half a world away, still married. What are you hanging on to? I doubt he'll move to where you are nor you to him. Find a guy in your own city not on the Internet. When you meet someone on here you have no idea who they really are and if their telling the truth about anything they say.
2006-11-30 15:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
On the internet, huh, he probably isn't anything like he says. He's probably still married and she doesn't know anything about you. He's not worried about getting caught because you live half way around the world. Why would you even go there? Desperation is calling.
2006-11-30 15:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the divorce to be finalized, sometimes people get caught up in the whole mess to stop and think about what they really want. They are so busy trying to win custody of children, house, summer home and child support they lose sight that they are both losing.
Plus you don't want to be the rebound.
2006-11-30 15:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am married and have been separated for 7 years,my hubby says he doesn't want a divorce because he never wants to marry again, i feel the same.
2006-11-30 15:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are letting yourself in for a very big heartache. If a man leaves his wife for you later he might leave you for someone else. Also you don't know what bullshit he is feeding his wife.
2006-11-30 15:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by hotmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't met him yet.
He is happily married with no plans on leaving his family.
Move on!
2006-11-30 15:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wasting your time with this cheat he will probably go back to his wife and family. do u really know if he is separated ???????
2006-11-30 15:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasyland, honey,,,,, get real.
2006-11-30 15:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋