You see this guy was the guy of my dreams i loved him. But one really bad day. I wanted to be alone so i didnt want him there. The way i told hi, i didnt realize but it was mean. I didnt mean to! I was so upset. A few months later, since i was free, a lot of guys wanted to date me, but i'd just feel more worse. I never admitted that i like him again, so i told him i like a differ guy. he got jealous. but it wasnt true.
A year past and i realized that i did really love him, i wanted him back but im so scared and embarressed, not only that but he's dating again! i cant do that! WHAT SHOULD I DO???
2006-11-30 14:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by LuvaLuver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen I have had this problem and heres a way to handle it. Call him up and tell him everything, honesty is the best policy and it will prove to him that you really do love him. I know thats hard to do but just do it. You can't wait for him sometimes and you just have to take it into your own hands.
2006-11-30 14:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find him and tell him the truth. Tell him that when things went wrong in the begenning, you were scared, you felt like you were falling for him and it scared you to death but now you realize, he is too important to loose. Tell him you miss him and you dont want to spend another day without him as a part of your life.
--Love is a strong word and that scares off a lot of people, so i would leave it out for a while, but if you dont tell him how you feel, then you will never know what will happen--Good or Bad---and if he dosn't come back right away, he may still come back.... He may want to gie you a taste of you own medicine, but you have to try
2006-11-30 23:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by superficialblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dud i can understand u
all u can do is if u gonna make a party or go anywhere examl\ple sleepover party if u both will ne there i can just drink some of beer or different alchoholic drink and iam sure u can do everything without scare etc. :-)
hehehe it was joke all the things that u can do is make urself always near him always try to make him see u and i hope he will be in love again but if he doesnt love u anymore and there is no feelings dont do it u will be upset and ur autority will not be goog
bye
2006-11-30 23:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i loved a guy once too but I was the one on the hurting end. You need to let him know how you feel what do you have to loose. Its been three months since I had the same thing happen to me. Like I said I was the one who got hurt as you hurt your partner. I would give anything for him to realize what he lost. Let him know now, If its to late you must move on. Good Luck!
2006-11-30 23:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by pookiepoo11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think you should is if he already has a girlfriend then get over him find some one else special that you might love for the rest of your life time you may never know if you just stick to one guy
2006-11-30 23:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by jayjaywalkler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay- "guy of my dreams" that statement alone is enough to make me barf! GIRL! just stop it. Their is no such thing!
You make our own reality and you already have been here and done that!
Grow up, seriously. You broke up for a very valid reason.
Why go backwards because the future is too scary?
Shake it off and move on! "Dreams" are just that! Not reality.
2006-11-30 23:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is actually rather common. You don't know how much you loved him till he's gone. He's probably moved on. Just start talking to him again and try to start a friendship. Then see where it goes.
2006-11-30 22:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ana Erikson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋