this guy and I were best friends, and over the summer he'd come over every day. well we kinda got to like each other and we'd hug and stuff, and it eventually led to one small peck. and one small peck turned to a longer peck, turned into open mouth, which lead to some tonge, which lead to all tongue and for like 5 minutes at a time. well for the school year he had to move to texas, then he comes back for the summer. he also said that he might come back for christmas too.I found out he has a girl friend, and is most likely to kiss her too. So my questions are: How do I react when I see him again during chistmas & summer and do I keep liking him like I did even though I no that he'll just go back to texas and get another girl friend. I really liked him, and still kinda do, and I think he feels the same way, but i don't no if i can deal with being his 'best friend'(and best friend is all its going to be) just for the summer.help
2006-11-30 14:52:35 · 10 answers · asked by alien 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if he really liked you and intended to have a serious relationship with you, he would not get a girlfriend when he was away from you. If you want to just be friends-with-benefits, then I guess you could continue to enjoy the time he's there, but it could lead to loneliness on your part while he's gone.
2006-11-30 14:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by argylemoose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay..he's got a girlfriend, but he's kissing you? That makes him a dirtbag in my book. I understand that one thing leads to another, but c'mon..at some point he needed to realize that he already had someone else and that stringing you along was not something a best friend should do.
2006-11-30 22:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That type of things usually ends bad... besides from a man standpoint it is very convinient, but not for a girl.
Don't do it, I'm sure you can find someone 'local' to you that gives you a better time.
Now, if you are really open mind and you keep feelings apart and all that things... then enjoy it.
2006-11-30 22:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Osk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well see how he feels about his girlfriend and see how he feels about you...Perhaps he has no intentions of romance with you or maybe he is serious about his girlfriend...Try not to get too hurt because it sounds like this guy is not looking for the one yet. He hasn't seemed to figure out what he wants or who he wants.
2006-11-30 22:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by stella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Summer love. That's all it was. Move on, unless you want to have some more summer love next summer. I recommend finding a new summer love every summer.
2006-11-30 22:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by texmusic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him, give him a big warm hug, lips brush his cheek but no formal kiss.
2006-11-30 22:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say forget him. "Best friends" who are guys only last as long as their attraction to you. Trust me, I know.
2006-11-30 22:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ana Erikson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends and if he trys to kiss u back away
2006-11-30 22:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by brett c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep it the way it was before you started kissing and see if you can keep it normal...
2006-11-30 22:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Paige G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and see if you guys can work something long distance.
2006-11-30 22:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋