Ok, I have had a huge crush on this guy for about a year and a half. I know he likes my friend, but she doesn't like him so I know he will get over her sooner or later. What should I do from here? Should I try and talk to him more and eventually tell him I like him? And how do you tell a guy you like him? If I give little hints will he catch on?
2006-11-30 14:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by BttrflyBeauty91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, the most important thing you should ask yourself is, "Do YOU want to tell him right now?" If the answer is still "I don't know" it's not the right time. Just trust what you feel, and trust your words. I hope my advice helps, and this will all work out eventually.
-hitzusen
2006-11-30 14:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by hitzusen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont want your heart to get broken since you have liked this guy for so long. Sometimes no matter what you do, they wont like you the way you like them. I want you to keep that in the back of your mind. There is nothing wrong with you and you are a wonderful person just the way you are and never feel like you have to change yourself to make them like you. Now that you have this in mind you should talk to him more. But also watch his reactions to how you talk to him. Does he seem like he is into what you are talking about or kind of gives the ok whatever feeling and by off of the body language. Actions speak louder then words. If he likes you he will keep talking to you and you can talk to each other for periods of time with no pauses deep eye conact and stuff like that. Becareful for when you tell someone that you like them because it might make things awkward between you guys. Just go with the flow and see what happens =) good luck
2006-11-30 15:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but Men are dumb. You can probally throw subtle hints for the rest of your life and he may never realize it. Just tell him. I know it will be hard and embarrassing and Oh no, what if he says something back you dont want to hear....Well, at least you had the courage to go for what you want and Love is a timing thing and there will be another guy at anoher time, but Go For IT!!!!! Good Luck
2006-11-30 14:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by superficialblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start off as being buddies then start conversations with him at lunch or afterschool or somtin and then you should tell him that you like him after about 3 months he might feel the same way because he had spent more time with you nad he had known you better.
2006-11-30 14:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by IcanHelpyou:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend. Get to know this guy as a friend and you might find that he might not be what you want. On the other hand he might come around and turn his attention to you.
2006-11-30 14:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by hotmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hints don't work for guys. Guys are very simple and need it straight forward. I would just go strait up to him and tell him. You'll know easily from his reaction whether it will work or not.
2006-11-30 15:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bide your time and don't try to rush anything. Give him time to get over her, while always putting your best foot forward around him. Be subtle..Guys like to do the chasing more often than not.
2006-11-30 14:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jeri C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a little time to forget her and then go for it. You only live once and you don't want to sit around wondering what if.
2006-11-30 14:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by seaangell304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but if he likes your mate then i dont think you are gonna have much chance at the mo, wait untill he is over her and then play about a bit give him a bif of attention but not too much -
2006-11-30 14:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid...what is the worst that can happen? He could say he's not interested and you can move on and know that you are a strong person!
2006-11-30 14:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by otowndmbfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋