Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

If you found out from a reliable source that your husband and another married woman kissed and just made out 6 months ago and this happens to be a woman you are commonly friends with, would you confront her about anything? Lets say your hub and her still email about some general things since you happen to see some mails. Since you know that even now, would you tell this woman friend to stop emailing your man, would you tell her you know of their kiss and making out session, would you tell her not to come to your house and not invite her or her hubby to your parties? Would you say anything to her if you knew her fairly well among your married group of friends?

2006-11-29 08:01:47 · 25 answers · asked by richards_tr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think you could find someone?...would you do it?...or would you run for the hills...;0)


for fun...again...;0)

2006-11-29 08:01:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy and we started talking.. again.. see before he cheated on me... and he's trying to come back into my life.. swearing that he has changed for the good.. but idk.. maybe he has.. i just don't want to feel the same pain he put me through before i don't want to go down that road again.
I thought i was over him.. until i seen him again. and all these feelings came rushing back.. the good ones and we talked a bout all the times we'd shared..
i want to let him back into my life .. but should i??

2006-11-29 08:01:19 · 11 answers · asked by Ja.Leah.Shuh. 2 in Singles & Dating

he has a lot of school work, adn he wrestles and everything else and he ays that we have been fihgting alot because of me and that i want to take over hsi life and he says that im sorry i knwo you wnat it too but my life doens't revolve around you.. idk i thnk hge's being an asswhole and this has been going on foreverrr what should i do????

2006-11-29 08:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our 10th anniversary is tomorrow and I have heard it is the alunimum year. any suggestions,I want to show him how special he is to me.

2006-11-29 08:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have just come out of a 3 year relationship that started incredibly, like something out of a movie, strangers on a plane, love at first sight, meeting in romantic rustic wine bars and having the most wonderful conversations. Suddenly I'd found my dream woman, the perfect size, shape, smile, hair, gorgeous eyes, beautiful skin and the cutest butt you ever saw. And did I mention the incredible lovemaking? A match made in heaven you'd think and yes - she'd told me I was the "love of her life". Indeed we would have been married by now, no question, if it were not for a tiny little 10 year old problem that wasn't to be solved. Anyway - push finally came to shove...

So the question. Have you had the "love of your life" and lost it?

More importantly - what the hell happens next? Any advice?

2006-11-29 08:00:31 · 10 answers · asked by charlie 3 in Singles & Dating

she got very drunk and awoke next morning to find her ps2 and games had been stolen. she told the police who they were but was told because know one will own up to this she dosan,t have a case.is there anthing she can do or are the coppers right

2006-11-29 08:00:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i have been chatting up with this guy, yeah we flirt and exchanged sexy pics.whatever. i am also in a 5yr relationship, would this be considered cheating? it's not like i can ever meet this guy. i am in FL he is NY. whatis ur opinion?

2006-11-29 07:59:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 07:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, my cousin, is a guy who is only 5'0" tall? He is a great guy, makes good money, fun to be with, realiable, owns his own home, has a BMW and a Vette. What is it about height that makes a woman turn a good, honest man away?

2006-11-29 07:58:33 · 13 answers · asked by puggas 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 07:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by Lil' Momma 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 07:57:27 · 3 answers · asked by firefly 5 in Family

2006-11-29 07:57:10 · 2 answers · asked by kyrah aka babygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im thinking about buying my girlfriend a matching necklace earing and ring set would that be a good idea im 15 and shes 14 we are kind of serios and dont say that 14 and 15 yearolds cant be serious because they can.

2006-11-29 07:56:42 · 13 answers · asked by sdavid5523 3 in Singles & Dating

I had an argument with my fiance on friday night, on sunday he goes to mysisters house and says "dont tell your sister I told you thid but..." I think tha it is a violation of trust...of course my sister is going to tell me!

2006-11-29 07:55:46 · 12 answers · asked by Elizabeth E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going out with her for about amonth today and we havent done anything like romantic type besides walk with teatchother and talk to eatchother and go to the movies...
so i want to hold hands w/her whould i go for it one day or should i hold off until she goes for me??
plz help me guys

2006-11-29 07:55:40 · 11 answers · asked by scr3w3dupmunky 1 in Singles & Dating

If you said would sleep with a man one time for a million dollars would you sleep with him for ten dollars?

Do you agree that the fact you would do it determines what type of person you are and negotiating an amount is just the price you put on your character?

2006-11-29 07:55:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 07:55:01 · 22 answers · asked by a_lot_smarter_now 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was pregnant his mother would say things like she would kidnap the baby if I left him and that if we broke up they would keep it. Also that I had to let them do certain things with the baby. She was so pushy always talking about his ex's and how he would be with one of them if it wasn't for his other ex. Things like that. Now I just don't like her and I was real depressed during my pregnacny and now that he is here I don't feel comfortable letting him be alone with them and take him places but I dont want that. Am I crazy? How do I get over it? I am suppose to marry this man and if I don't want feel comfortable with his parents around what should I do? Please help me I am going nuts.

2006-11-29 07:55:00 · 5 answers · asked by l_lv6 1 in Family

Umm...I like your fire !!
I do not like it when you are rude and YOU know when you are being rude. You have high barriers around you, which you refuse to lower for fear of getting hurt. You dont trust people very much. All of this is fine....people have different personalities some open, some closed. You tend to lean to the side of closed. Its hard to read what is going on in your mind. That is an obstacle . This part explains your attitude. You are presentable and sociable when you choose to be....so your personality is usually nice. Yes you are turn-on is a lot more to do with the mind than it is do with the body. You dont sleep with some one just because they have good body or great legs. The mind needs to be stimulated for the body to follow. Even then its speculative. Our relationship has a lot of spark....and I suppose all that energy will be positive in a physical sense of union. But then I could be wrong, maybe we will fail to excite each physically. But mentally i like u.

2006-11-29 07:54:56 · 4 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

How do you handle a teenage girl who cuts herself with razors and knives to get her way? She is respectful to her parents on a small level, but she is rude to her mother and threatens to run away. She is 15yrs old and she threatens her parents by saying she will cut herself or kill herself if they don't give in to what she wants. She is on medicine and she has been to the hospital, but she says that she doesn't need to be committed, and plus her mother loves her and saw the facility and backed out of having her committed. The parents are at a loss, because they want control of their household again, but they fear that if they don't give in to her every demanding want, she will committ suicide.They are currently in family counseling at this time. How do parents regain control of their daughter, but in a way that she won't hurt herself.

2006-11-29 07:54:27 · 13 answers · asked by ry8617jo 1 in Family

Well i bought my mom a angel and she said she wanted one from the bookstore but i bought her one from wal-mart. What if she doesnt like it! Help. any suggestions

2006-11-29 07:54:07 · 4 answers · asked by Asheypooh 4 in Family

My fiance whom I have been with for 5 years has been incarcerated for the past 14 months. It looks like he's going to be sentenced to 10 years in federal prison. I fully intend to wait for him Im just wondering what kind of suggestions people will have to make it easier.

2006-11-29 07:53:56 · 3 answers · asked by tntstroup 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what happens if im like really shy...i mean i wear really punk/rock- ish cothes one day..and like closet-poet the next....but i don't say much to anyone unless i know them well ..how do i get over that? enought to ask someone to homecoming...like someone from another school..?

2006-11-29 07:53:34 · 4 answers · asked by southpaw1416 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 07:52:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I hate to admit it, but I really dislike my step daughter. I DREAD when she visits. I've known her since she was 2, she is 4 now. She use to be so sweet and well behaved. Now she is defiant and rude, and says some pretty hurtful things to me and my husband (her father) She is only with us 2wks every 2-3 months.
I know I'm the adult, and I should just deal, but I'm having problems doing so. My husband and I have a 6 month old daughter together and I'm a stay at home mom. So I'm the one that has to care for the step kid ALL day and night.
I am not mean to this child in any way shape or form. But she goes home and tells her mother that I'm mean. I may SEEM mean, b/c I discipline her. I rank her overall behavior for the day w/a green, yellow, or red card. (good, OK, and bad behavior)
I am at the point where I don't want her coming anymore, and my husband feels likewise.
I know she is just a kid, but as the adult, what can I do?

2006-11-29 07:51:52 · 10 answers · asked by Shay 2 in Family

She has never been a depressed child but I am aware of the cutting thing that some of the youth do. When I asked her about all the poke marks on her arm she said it was nothing. She said she was just poking herself with this sharp object. I told her not to do that anymore she could get an infection or something more serious. I told her that this was definitely NOT COOL! Should I be worried that she is going to start cutting herself or is it a phase? If it isn't a phase what should I do? I thought only depressed people did this, am I wrong? People of any age please help me understand this!!!

2006-11-29 07:50:59 · 13 answers · asked by Brandi H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best best friend had sex with her boyfriend and he left to go to the store and his friend came over to visit her bf, and she told him that he was gone. my friend than said that he was drunk and forced himself on her! my friend is afraid that she is pregnant but doesn't believe in abortions, and she hasn't told her bf, and she got raped two weeks ago! I believe my friend and I know the guy who raped her what should I do to help her??? NOTE: she doesn't want to call the cops nor tell her bf.......can someone please help me!

2006-11-29 07:50:04 · 39 answers · asked by MYPHARRELL 3 in Friends

I'm a 16 year old girl by the way thankyou in advance

2006-11-29 07:49:57 · 13 answers · asked by imcoolendof123 1 in Family

I was in love with my ex-bf years ago, we were very happy together, but were young. He got into trouble a had to go away for sometime, and we lost contact. I moved on an am currently in a realionship with my boyfriend for 5 years. My current bf knows about my previous relationship because he knew us back then (but we all were not friends). So i recently have been in touch with my Ex, he applogized for leavin me years ago etc, and we email each other often. He is in the Marines and stationed in Iraq but wants to meet up when he comes back to the states. I have always hope to get back with him but now its a lil complicated. I know my bf would hate me if he knew b/c he always was afraid i would leave him for my ex. What would you do?

2006-11-29 07:49:56 · 16 answers · asked by sweetchic117 2 in Singles & Dating