Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

Guys, do you tend to go for the girls younger or older than you? Girls, would you rather go out with a guy who is younger or older than you? Or the same age as you?...I'm just curious to see these answers:)

2006-11-29 08:29:27 · 13 answers · asked by trackandxcrunner 1 in Singles & Dating

I was stationed in Japan with my now ex-husband.
We met a nice married couple while there.

A year after being divorced I got in contact with the guy from that marriage again through my ex. We were getting along great and he was just as nice, we talked about his wife and my love life, their kids, my son etc.

Then out of nowhere he starts talking about how he always thought I was really attractive and that he wanted naked pix of me!

I am friends with them both again, by this time. So I distanced myself from him, only sending him a message every so often to see how the kids are. I am trying to decide if I should tell her that her husband is a loser! She is always bragging on her myspace page that she's got such a wonderful husband and this fairytale marriage so I dont want to break her heart. I am still friends with her.

He even met her through cheating on his first wife... so I'm sure she knows how he is....

What should I do?????

2006-11-29 08:29:00 · 12 answers · asked by Jessie D. 3 in Friends

My boyfriend uses trojan condoms but they break very easily, not once but often. I need a condom brand that is effective against STDs and that will NOT break during rough sex. I'm tired of trojan condoms breaking any other good condoms that will not break? Thanks in advance.

2006-11-29 08:28:54 · 15 answers · asked by !Like OmG! 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, and lately all he does is look at me *throws fist in air* he likes me SCORE, but i'm WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY to shy to make the move, should i wait for him?????????? What SHOULD I DOOOOOOOO?

(i am 15 and in highschool, not in middle school Gosh Dangit!!!)

2006-11-29 08:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by My dad ate my homework 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I wanted to announce my pregnancy at the next family get together, but I will only be 4 weeks then.

Should we wait in case I miscarry or just tell everyone anyways?

I have never been pregnant before and would feel awful if I miscarried and had to tell our families.

2006-11-29 08:27:39 · 19 answers · asked by PrettyWifey 2 in Family

2006-11-29 08:27:19 · 13 answers · asked by realmafiawoman 1 in Singles & Dating

washing your car?

2006-11-29 08:26:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a guy by the way!

But I know that most women hate chasing guys, but if you do chase a guy what is he doing to make you want to chase him?

2006-11-29 08:26:22 · 13 answers · asked by crazy 1 in Singles & Dating

A boyfriend/spouse who gets along very well with his ex-wife or one that does not get along with his ex-wife at all? How would you feel if she does not acknowledge your existence because you had an affair with her ex while they were still married? They have a child so he still has to communicate with her. However, she does not call your house when her son is there - she calls your boyfriend/husband at work only. My boyfriend keeps saying she is a great mother and she has handled the affair and the divorce very well. She always puts their son first. Would I feel better if they did not get along?

2006-11-29 08:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One of my friends went with a guy but htey broke up and now he is flirting wit me and i like him(did'nt know that we were friends)and i want to go wit him but don't want to be a bad friend(nit bestfriends but are friends)today in class we was feeling on me and ETC and i'm not going to lie i liked and let him do it cause i liked him before i knew that they went together and he asked me out yesterday but i told him no cause he went with my friend so what should i do i want him BAD he is SEXY
P.S i'm NOT going to ask her permission if i go with him it is going to be on the low

2006-11-29 08:24:58 · 9 answers · asked by ~MISS SEXINESS~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my partner for 6 years. We have a 2 yr old daughter and we are in the process of buying our first home. Weve been living together since I was pregnant. I would love to start trying for another baby but would prefer to be engaged or married first. Getting engaged has always been a sensitive issue with my partner. He is 23 and I have just turned 26. All our friends around us are getting engaged or married. Both his friends and mine. His best friend has now told us he plans to ask his girlfriend to get married next week in new york. I am happy for them but cant help feel envious. They got together when I was pregnant. My best friend is getting married this Christmas, she has been with her partner 2 years. Getting engaged is a really big thing for me. All our friends joke about my partner asking the big question every time a special occasion comes up. It is also getting embarrasing. For me. He is not too bothered but I am. He knows how I feel. Would you be upset?

2006-11-29 08:24:55 · 35 answers · asked by Teresa M 2 in Weddings

i'm married at the moment to my husband of 24.things were fine for the first two years but now we are falling apart, we don't talk, share, even care about how clean our house is.i can't take no more. all this has happened gradualy but now i have to make a choice ,since the only thing we do together is in bed and thats over in a few mins so now i want to tell him i don't love him anymore.i don't know how he will react as he is rather sensitve type of guy, so can people pls help me out and tell me how do i tell him .

2006-11-29 08:23:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Umm...I like your fire !!
I do not like it when you are rude and YOU know when you are being rude. You have high barriers around you, which you refuse to lower for fear of getting hurt. You dont trust people very much. All of this is fine....people have different personalities some open, some closed. You tend to lean to the side of closed. Its hard to read what is going on in your mind. That is an obstacle . This part explains your attitude. You are presentable and sociable when you choose to be....so your personality is usually nice. Yes you are turn-on is a lot more to do with the mind than it is do with the body. You dont sleep with some one just because they have good body or great legs. The mind needs to be stimulated for the body to follow. Even then its speculative. Our relationship has a lot of spark....and I suppose all that energy will be positive in a physical sense of union. But then I could be wrong, maybe we will fail to excite each physically. But mentally i like u.

2006-11-29 08:22:06 · 23 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what do I do if my father took my Door off my hindges? he took away my privacy! what if i need to get dressed or something???

PLEASE I NEED ADVICE TO OVERCOME IT!

2006-11-29 08:21:49 · 35 answers · asked by Jenn-Kerr 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

for christmas.
were teenagers but we have dated for a year.
help me
something nice.
price doesn't matter

2006-11-29 08:21:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I give him

2006-11-29 08:21:22 · 1 answers · asked by hispanicpower123 1 in Friends

One is named Kio and one is named Tony. Tony is kind of a pimp football playin' bully and Kio is kind of a laid back football playin' funny guy. Both are pretty dumb sometimes. BOTH ARE HOT!
Which would you say yes to if they asked you out

2006-11-29 08:18:49 · 42 answers · asked by carmancrazy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have gone to weight watchers with her. I have cooked the meals. Invited her to go for walks, work out and take dance classes with me. She has gained a little over 40 pounds in 4 years of marriage. The weight and lack of activity make her tired all the time. Our sex life hasn't really suffered that much yet. I worry about her health, she had cancer some years ago, but the big problem is I get up in the morning and go to bed at night trying to figure out how to get her to lose weight. I should also mention she is the kindest and best emotionally put together person I have ever met.

2006-11-29 08:18:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it so the guy will think their hott or becuase they like it, I see it all the time, I know these girls arent all gay, is it because their sluts?

2006-11-29 08:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by Lanie 3 in Singles & Dating

Can you help me write a x-mass card??
can you guys help me to write funny chirstmas card for my buddies???
THANKSS

2006-11-29 08:17:43 · 11 answers · asked by Jade P 1 in Friends

I am really into this guy and there is a possibility we may start going out. I'm not sure but this guy has kissed almost every girl he's went with. Theres 1 problem with me, I've got an overcrowded mouth meaning I have teeth growning behind my teeth and it makes me look and feel like a complete freak and what if he wants to kiss me?

2006-11-29 08:17:20 · 4 answers · asked by Lorza 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...i have these 2 friends and they like each other..im happy for them but they want me to help them figure out what they should say to eachother whenever thay talk to each other...i really dont kno wat to say to them so i need ideas FAST!

2006-11-29 08:17:07 · 7 answers · asked by CAKE 1 in Friends

My uncle just did this over the weekend and all I can think of is why......how could anyone do that? He had a wife and a son....I didn't know he was the depressed. Have any of you ever thought about doing it and then backed out? Why?

2006-11-29 08:16:55 · 8 answers · asked by MCB 2 in Family

I asked my neighbor, who is a year older than me, that i have known since 4th grade, to a winter formal. (ima soph in hs). He is unfortuantely going to be out of town, and said that he really wanted to go. Did he mean it? he also said that he called my cell first and left his number on it , and that i should definitely give him a call sometime because we really needed to hang out. Di he really mean that he wanted to hang out? hes going to be out of town this weekend, but do you think i should call him next Saturday and ask him if he wanted to hang out? Weve never formally hung out, just kinda been in the same place at the same time and taken advantage of that time to talk. How should i ask him to hang out, and what should we do? Watch a movie... etc?
and when we are hanging out, how can i show him that i want to become more than friends. He seems to be interested in me, just like i am, but how can i tell?

2006-11-29 08:16:54 · 2 answers · asked by i_heart_matt 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married young 21/23 when I graduated college and while he was still in the Military (both in NY). He had more time off, more friends, but didnt make a lot of money. He decided to get out and wanted us to move back home...to Louisiana. I was not thrilled with the idea since I am a total Yankee. We have been down here for almost 2 years and he has had 2 jobs that involves LOTS of traveling. He love it and makes good money..we have everything we want. But I am in a job I hate, have no friends and am usually the "Yankee" outcast far from home. I only moved down here to be with HIM but spend all my time alone with the dog since he travels 6 months out of the year. I always feel like I'm the one missing him and feel neglected. We've had several talks lately about me needing more attention and thoughtfullness from him, but he still doesnt seem to get it! I'm to the point of going back home. It already feels like we are divorced. I'd rather be with my family,not alone

2006-11-29 08:16:24 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so she cheated i caught her confessing to the guy on a voice recorder.i forgave her but she wasnt allowed to speak to him again.she got caught a month later still talking to him everyday.i checked her phone bill.now im gonna give her one more shot befor i give this guy's wife the recording along with phone records.so if she is serioius this time whaty do you think she should do to make me feel more comfortable with her.and feel like i can trust her again.what things do you think she should have to do.should she be allowed to go to her christmas paty where this guy is probaly gonna be.c'mon world good answers.

2006-11-29 08:16:21 · 34 answers · asked by MR. IM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 08:15:31 · 3 answers · asked by lady_roper2 2 in Singles & Dating

So you decide to stop seing each other, now you want him more than ever.How do you handle your feelingfor him?

2006-11-29 08:15:25 · 1 answers · asked by cutiedownlow 2 in Singles & Dating

I find it really easy to sleep with a light on but really difficult to sleep with a hard on - what should i do

2006-11-29 08:15:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Umm...I like your fire !!
I do not like it when you are rude and YOU know when you are being rude. You have high barriers around you, which you refuse to lower for fear of getting hurt. You dont trust people very much. All of this is fine....people have different personalities some open, some closed. You tend to lean to the side of closed. Its hard to read what is going on in your mind. That is an obstacle . This part explains your attitude. You are presentable and sociable when you choose to be....so your personality is usually nice. Yes you are turn-on is a lot more to do with the mind than it is do with the body. You dont sleep with some one just because they have good body or great legs. The mind needs to be stimulated for the body to follow. Even then its speculative. Our relationship has a lot of spark....and I suppose all that energy will be positive in a physical sense of union. But then I could be wrong, maybe we will fail to excite each physically. But mentally i like u.

2006-11-29 08:14:54 · 4 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Other - Family & Relationships