ok, i have been chatting up with this guy, yeah we flirt and exchanged sexy pics.whatever. i am also in a 5yr relationship, would this be considered cheating? it's not like i can ever meet this guy. i am in FL he is NY. whatis ur opinion?
2006-11-29 07:59:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How does your man feel about people talking with the opposite sex online? If he thinks it cheating then all bets are off and you definitely ARE. Another way way I answer these types of questions for myself is to ask myself. "How would I feel if my husband (boyfriend) did this to me?" So how would you feel if you knew your man was online flirting and exchanging "sexy pics" with an attractive young woman? Would you feel like you had been disrespected? For me, I would. Talking a bit here and there would be fine with me if my husband did that. Exchanging pictures and overt flirting would make me think he was looking for something beyond our relationship. What if his next flirting partner is in the same state, or relocates closer? If you HONESTLY think it would be fine with you if he was doing the same thing, then I'd say that's an indicator of whether it's a form of cheating. In my opinion it is.
2006-11-29 08:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this...Why am I doing this?
OK, now think about it a little your flirting sending sexy pictures and whatever.. I have been in a relationship 6 years 3 married and if my wife was doing that I would kick her *** out! If you really need to be doing this with another guy, think about your relationship! It is a big slap in your partners face. You might as well go to the neighbor guy dressed all sexy and flirt with him and see how long it takes him to jump on you! Sorry if I am being rude but that's a really dumb question! Think of this guy you are chatting with as the neighbor guy or one of your partners friends...not OK...NY or not it's your actions or intentions. Maybe your missing something with your partner that you are getting from this other guy. Just my opinion though..Good Luck..
2006-11-29 08:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by trey6z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to answer a question with a question but... Would you have a problem or would the man in your life have a problem if he found out what you were doing, saying or keeping from him? That answer should answer your question. I love to flirt. I would not do it in front of my wife, but then again if someone told her or she asked me I would tell her because there isn't anything there. Some might say I'm somehow 'cheating', but that's between my wife and I just as your situation is within your relationship.
2006-11-29 08:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what I think. How would you feel if you found out that your long term boyfriend was online chatting with another girl and exchanging pics?
I mean seriouslly. Way I look at it. When you are in a relationship, you do do anythign that would hurt you if done to you.
2006-11-29 08:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 12:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's bascily cheating, your on the line and the sharing pics isnt really cool ask your self if your bf was having phone sex wiht a girl form
CA would you be upset wiht him it's not like he's going to meet her if some girtl was sending him sexxy pics i think your just getting up the courage to know that you can find some one else when you break up wiht your guy
2006-11-29 08:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by <B> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you ask....Some would say yes especially if the conversations are more in detail than hey how are you etc. And you are using it as a venue to talk out your grievences instead of going over that stuff with your mate
2006-11-29 08:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's cheating. Just think...if you found your boyfriend exchanging sexy pics with some other chick online and talking to her often, would that be okay? Don't think so!!!!!!!!
2006-11-29 08:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as my "pimp" (whatever) brothers would tell me...."if its in a different city/state/area code..its not cheating" but unlike them...I feel different. If he was doing that behind my back..yeah, I'd be pretty pissed. You should think twice about the consequences if he feels like you're cheating.
2006-11-29 08:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sweets its considered cheating first off have you told thge guy that your talking to about your bf. If you haven't then you are hiding something and then yes if you are hiding then you are cheating.
2006-11-29 08:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋