Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

2006-11-27 10:14:48 · 46 answers · asked by fabulous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What can I do

2006-11-27 10:14:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay...this guy had been asking me out for some time..and i started likin him so i said yes,but ..my best friend and him hate eachother!Today she broke up with him for me....without talking to me first..and now he hates me and shes got this other guy wanting to be my boyfriend and his grandmother lives right beside me and he goes over there every weekend..and yea hes hot..but..i already had a boyfriend..Shes trying to control me and i told her to get a life and leave mine alone..but she doesnt get it.....shes been my best friend since 4th grade....help????

2006-11-27 10:14:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was in with a group of friends whom i grew up with in my local neighbour hood.most of us went to school together so we knew how to handle each other and knew quite a bit about each other. but now we are older we have gone our seperate ways in other words we hve grown up, though we do get together now and then. well any there is one guy who wasn't the brightest of the lot, he has a habit of makeing up stories, or exagerating too much. for example if he went into a store and there was a small argumnet he would come back and tell us there was a massive fight in the store and how he helped restore calm and all that, we just used to laugh it off. but just recently i have noticed the same guy is going to be our new neighbour. i dread to think how much hell he is going to cause me, like stopping for a chat and to hear his fairytales.i just don't know wot to do. as explaining to him not to tell big stories is not going to get through him.what should i do??

2006-11-27 10:13:52 · 16 answers · asked by the_reporter 2 in Friends

towards me when they find out I have a small penis? Is that all woman care about? I am really desperate for real human affection from a nice woman...

2006-11-27 10:13:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I hear from so many girls that that when they break up with their bf and want to be friends and say they want it to work they are stringing them along. How do i know when to stop tryin for my ex that i dated for 3 years we been broken up 2 months. What i hear most girls are the same

2006-11-27 10:13:14 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

iv liked this guy ever since our lips touched but hes my brothers friend and hes 2 years older than me im 16 hes 18

2006-11-27 10:13:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've noticed that more and more men are cheating constantly. When does it stop. Is one just not enough? Why do you have to have more, especially black men? Why even after you're caught, you lie or continue to do it? I just don't understand and it's so hard to want to get involved with a new relationship these days. I'm just thinking guys cannot remain faithful.

2006-11-27 10:13:07 · 13 answers · asked by CrazyLady 1 in Singles & Dating

Just asking because recently i found out that my husband actually lied to me about the amount of money he spent at a fast food restaurant. I think he might be hanging around with an old friend (male) and i don't approve of it because in the past he had been a bad influence.

2006-11-27 10:12:40 · 23 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here goes.... I have been in this relaionship for almost 4 years and i am lost, lonely and confused. I have a child with my beau and everything was perfect in the begining but in the last 6 months it has fallen apart. We hardle talk and when i talk he hardly listens to me and vice versa. We are complete opposits. Any on my birthday i went out with a few friends to the bar and when my guy friend picked my up he (BF) didn't even care. i have talked to people and asked their opinions and it seems to be the same thing. I am at a point where I don't know if i still love my BF or if i am making it worst by hang out to see if it works out. I know at one point i had to love him but now,i can't even stand him touching me or kissing me. What am I doing wrong?

2006-11-27 10:12:31 · 1 answers · asked by Wilting 2 in Singles & Dating

HMK... my best friend, kayla, is moving only three cities away, but my problem is that she gives me all of my confidence and craziness. and shes moving. im crushed and totally lost. if she moves, all of the things i have worked os hard to do will go down the drain. the only reason everybody thinks im sooooooooo cute and cool is because she has them convinced. but im afraid if she moves then they wont be convinced anymore. and she can chose to move or not. shes the only one in her family moving. her brother lives with her dad and stepmom. she lives with her mom and stepdad. her stepdad gets drunk and grounds her for no reason. NOT KIDDING!!! BEEN THERE!!! so that is why she is moving. all by herself she chose to move to her dads. her brother is moving to her moms. but when she moves, she wont go to my school! please help. i dont know what to do!!!

2006-11-27 10:12:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you tell someone who doesn't have a job & gets into trouble w/ the law to leave your house? My father doesn't pressure my half-brother about it to much. My dad would rather do bills or balance his checkbook than confront my half-bro.

2006-11-27 10:12:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am totally desparate. I am a single mom raising 5 children in huntsville alabama. My children and i are in need of a vehicle. I have been packing myself and my children in a 91 honda accord which is a safety hazard seeing that it only seats 5 and were putting 6 including car seats in the vehicle. Well it broke down last week and can't afford to reapir. I thought about public assistance but its just not enough. I don't have any real support from the fathers and the system here is not designed to help. :>(

I am probably going out on alimb but if any one knows of someone who would be willing to donate a vehicle (running) to us please let me know asap. Believe me if i had the money to repair the vehicle that i have or buy another one i would. We are really in need of a blessing. If you read this email and can do nothing..... please pray for us.

Ps. I tried Ways to work located here and they gave me 89 tercel 6 people 4 buckets seats. ?????

Thanks Godbless

2006-11-27 10:12:19 · 2 answers · asked by daphne_fletcher 2 in Family

So how many women here will let your man rub you and stuff in bed then at some point say something to the effect of " Now dont get any ideas" or, "you aint getting nothing", how about "what do you think your trying to do" um basically saying no nookie and never give any explanation. Well my wife does that all the time and its driving me INSANE.

I dont need all the details about what I can do for her , look at my past questions if you want to know more.

Basicaly I just want to know how many HAPPY wives say things like that to their husbands who they are atracted to and love dearly on a quite frequent basis. ---- Thanks

2006-11-27 10:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

say he loves his children but excuses himself by going to buy them cereal at 7 am and also buys his beer. With 1 beer and he can't quite coordinate and says at end of day he is tired because he work a lot, which he did nothing at all just back and forth from the job site going to the nearest store to take a leak and jugs down a beer, list can go on and on... wife left him because of his drinking, his father has helped him so much till finally told him to leave the house because he has no respect for them. etc.etc.

2006-11-27 10:11:01 · 7 answers · asked by WORRIEDDORITOS 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i were in a fight/argument and at one point he said that he feels like im asking him to change certain things about him and i said that I loved him and wasn't just telling him that certain things upset me and trying to get him to lessen the frequency of them.
Anyways this is the first time either of us said that they loved the other. He didn't respond pos. or neg. about me saying it and we were on the phone so no i have no reaction..
is it likely that its because we were arguing and he didnt want to change subject or wasnt ready to say it.. or is that a bad sign? Would a man normally say something if he didnt feel the same way?
He's very hard to open up and talk about his feelings.
we're in our early 20s and been together about 5 months (i know not long at all) in case it matters

2006-11-27 10:10:21 · 12 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

My best friend used to dress really pretty/preppy. My sisters friend hing around her (or: the saw eachother a lot, because my sister and I would invite our friends over---therefor: they saw eachother a lot). Anyway, my sister's friend is sort of Gothic, and likes Gothic stuff. Now, my once "preppy" friend thinks Skulls are cute, black is awesome, and safety-pins are better than real jewelry. I REALLY miss my old best-friend, and I want her back. We used to agree on a lot of things, but now I don't agree with her almost at all. She's my best friend, and she always will be; but I don't like the new her AT ALL. What can I do to get her back?????

2006-11-27 10:10:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok so my new hubby used to have a ex-fiance. She ran into him at the gas station then emailed him that same day. I happend to check the email that day and saw it. It read..." looks like congrats are in order, thanks for waving at me today" Now if she saw the ring why try to email him?

2006-11-27 10:10:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a girl I work with has my attention.I flirt hard and have asked her out a few times and she's always busy with her kids.We have deep personal conversations and she always lights up when she sees me. Ive told her if she doesnt want the extra attention to just tell me and she says its ok. I cant seem to break her shell and I cant get any encouragement or discouragement. I like her alot, how long should I persue? The Flirting is very suggestive and I wouldnt become a stalker as one answerer suggested. please leave your approx age so I know what kind of advice I'm getting.this has been going on 3 weeks to a month.

2006-11-27 10:09:40 · 15 answers · asked by sufferingnomad 5 in Singles & Dating

i've been friends with this guy for a really long time now. we are sooooo incredibly close. its gr8. of course the slight downside is that i like him a lot (but its rare that u ever hear about a situation where one doesn't like the other so stay with me on this). the really BIG downside is that once my best friend met him, she fell madly in love with him and has been trying to get him away from me for almost 2 months. yes, she knows that i like him too. the only upside in this situation is that i feel confident knowing that its been 2 months and he still hasn't asked her out. if she really managed to get him to like her, he would've asked her out by now, right? but anyhow, my real issue isn't even the guy itself. its the fact that my "friend" doesn't seem to care in the slightest about the way i feel for this guy and is just going out there trying to get what she wants. she never would've met him in the first place if it hadn't been for me!! is that really fair???

2006-11-27 10:09:21 · 8 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Friends

2006-11-27 10:09:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think im in love...gaw...this isn't happining.
I can't stop thinking about him.
is this possible...:/

2006-11-27 10:07:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 10:07:30 · 4 answers · asked by AvO21 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 10:07:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband has worked his a...s off lately to get us out of finacial difficuly and we are both tiered and moody.
I would like some inspiring ideas to show my appreciation?

Not being the obvious one of sex and that doesn't involve loads of money.

2006-11-27 10:06:39 · 11 answers · asked by sammyantha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For me, it's easier. I'm a pretty confident fella in OTHER areas. Once I'm face to face I can say what's on my mind. But, that initial ASK part for me seems hard. lol I don't get the right signals. Or, I get the signals but they're rejection. Often the opposite sex plays games and I'm not into playing games or just lazy. lol

2006-11-27 10:06:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my Boyfriends 8 Month Anniversary is this Saturday and I was wondering what would be some Good Love Songs to give him? Please Help me Thank You!!!

2006-11-27 10:05:57 · 12 answers · asked by Mandy Lynn Candy 2 in Singles & Dating

GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP

2006-11-27 10:05:44 · 6 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

so what do i do?

2006-11-27 10:05:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help My husband and I just had twins (4days old) on our way home from the hospital he got a call on his cell phone which I never even touch he has his and I have mine,anyways he told the person I am driving let me call you back or you call me back,the caller then asked where he was and he sounded upset saying don't worry about where I am,I asked who in the world was that?he said it was one of his male friends I then told him I knew it was a womans voice so after we got the babies in the house and got settled he said it was his ex wife which I knew already I asked why he felt the need to lie to me and he said because he didnt want me to get upset since I just had not one but two babies.My question is my Husbands never lied to me before now so why would he try to hide the fact that it was his ex on the phone?I am trying not to think the worst but i think my husband is about to get divorce papers.

2006-11-27 10:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by CaliMa 3 in Marriage & Divorce