Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

at school, really scares me, and he stares. He asked me if I had a boyfriend, and asked me for a kiss. Big no no, seeing as I have a man already. My friend said that he just wanted to see what it would be like, but I dunno. What do u think? (Guys, please answer)

2006-11-27 10:47:26 · 5 answers · asked by Jen A 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so me and my ex friend got in a big fight,and now shes' trying to steal my man!!! i want to bash her head in with 2 anvills, and then light her on fire! she told me that he wont want me after 1 night with her, and she is really getting to me!

she knows he the only guy i have ever been with who didnt yell at me or hit me, and he is sooooo sweet, and i dont want to loose him s-specialy to HER! what do i do??

2006-11-27 10:47:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have always been overweight im not huge but am not thin. i have never been bullied but because of my weight have found it hard to make friends though i do put on a false front as being the big loud and proud girl and now i am at college have made loads of new friends. thankfully. but boys never want to be my friends. i do have guy mates but the majority of them are gay. i get on with them so wel. boys never seem to want to be more than friends with me.. how do i get a boyfriend? i have started losing weight but i feel bad because i wish i didnt have to lose weight to feel confident enough to get a boyf. what should i do?

2006-11-27 10:46:58 · 9 answers · asked by rachael g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We knew each other at the end of college & had a brief flirtation. He meets a girl, gets married. 10 years later, I get an email that says he's coming to town-wants to have dinner-find out he is divorced. (We live about 2 hours apart by car.) Dinner for two nights-fun-flirtatious-hugs, but no kiss goodnight. Two weeks later, in another town with mutual friend from college for his birthday-flirting again from him-no kiss good-bye. Invite him to town to do movie-stays at my house-his own room-no kiss good-bye. He meets & dates another girl-Lots of time passes-flash forward six months or so-haven't had email from him in a month or so,call him-he says 'hey... I'm single again!' I ask about the break-up-show a little sympathy. 2 weeks later, I write-ask if he wants to go visit mutual friend-he agrees. meet him in his town, ride with him & his kids, spend night in friend's house-Why would he do that if he is not interested in me? I ride home w/ him-his folks around-no kiss goodbye!

2006-11-27 10:46:39 · 14 answers · asked by blue-eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the hottest girl who is driving crazy nowadays.After promising da we would go out yesterday and couldn't make it,I didn't call her and in the night I received her msge saying da she appologizes again so she was working and she confused her timetable before to give me this rendez-vous.
I didn't reply till now and I don't know what to do,she told me da she will be available on Wednesday but i am afraid da she will think da I am not interest on her anymore.
What can I do??? Just help me as I will help u one day

2006-11-27 10:46:29 · 13 answers · asked by JOHN P 1 in Singles & Dating

I need great names that are new for my avatar something dark but good at the sometime like tell me if you like Dark Ninja or Fire Ninja or Kakashi Lover or even Gaara Lover so would do you think Oh waite should I do something more Dark. What say you!!! And I don't care for attention and I am not self-centered but I am going to change it!!!

2006-11-27 10:45:55 · 10 answers · asked by Wolf Apple 3 in Singles & Dating

its easy for everyone to say take a chance and blahblah
but think about if you love someone so much
and telling them could take them away from you
what do you do
you dont want to lose the chance of losing them forever....

2006-11-27 10:45:46 · 4 answers · asked by babykaay.love 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 10:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by DIFI1993 3 in Family

I like this guy at my school and i think that he kinda likes me... He flirts w/ me in my math class in all the other classes i have with him... is there a way that i can tell if he likes me? and do you have any advice.. i am shy so i would not like having to ask him but anything alse

2006-11-27 10:45:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

trying to ask a guy out!!

2006-11-27 10:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by j 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend (LP) has going out with my other best friend(SS) for about a week. SS and I were best friends before they started going out and we talk on IM or the phone like every night. Him and LP hardly talk at all. And now I can't stop thinking about him, i don't know if I like him more than a friend, and LP might get maf at me if i tell her. What does this mean, what should i do, and why is this happening. PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-11-27 10:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Friends

ok i no this is kinda weird to say but i dont see how guys could like guys and girls could like girls its just wrong! so tell me wat you think 'bout it.

2006-11-27 10:43:51 · 6 answers · asked by .:baby*gurl*aliyah:. 1 in Singles & Dating

I NEED help.....the guy i like hangs out with the "cool" girls.....and well i'm kinda embarresed to ask him out. He knows i like him, and we don't really talk that much (if we ever talk it's about what time it is, or when does class end.....that sort of thing.) so now i really don't know what to do. (nervous to ask him out so any other suggestions?)

2006-11-27 10:43:46 · 5 answers · asked by CinderellaGurl12 3 in Singles & Dating

Anyone any thoughts on what I could get for my new boyfriends birthday [...and Christmas for that matter] - his birthday is next month, we'd have only been together a month, what would be appropriate??

2006-11-27 10:43:34 · 11 answers · asked by Bella-bella 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 10:42:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well today i got asked out and i like him but i dont no what to say!

2006-11-27 10:42:20 · 23 answers · asked by Sk8erlvrprep 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my BF for about 7 months. We have zero in common & i find it tricky to hold a normal conversation with him. Things are good but borring. We have the same morals and i think thats mainly what makes us care for each other. We say we love each other but i think its more like he loves me and i like having him because i believe him. He is trustworthy.
Recently I met someone new & they have everything in common with me and we can talk forever. He is more of the type of guy i see myself with forever. He knew about my BF but he stated that he knew i would eventually break up with my man for him. He was constantly hinting that he didnt want to share me and that he wanted to be with me. I can see us married. We work great together in every way. He is a little on the wild side though.Unfortunatley i waited too long. The new man basically says i wrecked my chance we had for a relationship. i can fix it but who do i choose? Stay with the stable one or take a longshot?

2006-11-27 10:42:15 · 6 answers · asked by Evilish13 4 in Singles & Dating

i have friend named karisma who is like my best friend when ever it just me and her and when ever brittany comes along she wants to go and talk behing my back and tell them my secrets what i said about her and stuff so what should i do is she a real friend or a fonney

2006-11-27 10:41:43 · 4 answers · asked by lover 2 in Friends

Ok, I know you all must of heard this at least a million times, but I really have no idea what to get my bf for Christmas. Alright, here's a little bit about him: He's 38, a commercial pilot, Russian, really hot :), and we've been together for about 9 months. I really don't know what to get him. He has a very nice and fairly new watch, already has a MP3 player, all the music he likes is in Russian and it's not that easy to find Russian CD's here, he already has a leather jacket and getting him clothes just seems...weird. Has a great pair of sunglasses already, I would get him a bag of some sort because he's always traveling, but that's what I got him for his b-day. Also, dinner and a night out would be great, but he won't be here Christmas day (or eve), "then why not do it before he leaves or when he gets back?" you might say and I'm already planning on something like that but I want something I can wrap up and give to him. Help!

2006-11-27 10:41:32 · 2 answers · asked by Yours Truly 2 in Singles & Dating

Where can you find decent and loving men?

2006-11-27 10:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by suzy82660 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband smoke alot..about 20 in one day..i asked him to quit that and he promised me he do..and he did..i was so happy.he always told me he did that because he love me so much..but now after few months i discovered he countinue to smok and he tryed to hide it..now i cant forgive him..why did he do that with me.?i feel stupid..because it was a deal between us and he strongly promised he would forget the cigarette

2006-11-27 10:40:50 · 21 answers · asked by binam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a problem with this boy that I can't quite deal with sometimes. I do everything for him as I did for my own children. He continually treats me like crap....lying, lying, lying and acts like he is in charge. He treats his dad awful!!!! Talks back, yells, slams doors lies.....I just don't get him, how do I deal with this boy without going crazy? His dad doesn't know what to do except turn a blind eye, the boy has ADD, ADHD and uses it at every turn. He has been treated "special" his whole life, everyone tippytoes around him (from his moms side of the family) and gives him anything and everything he wants. I make him earn what he wants and he hates me because of it. I don't let him get away with his crap but when his dad is around I'm not allowed to say or do anything. Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love my husband and don't want this kid to destroy our relationship, any advise on how to handle this situation.

2006-11-27 10:40:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had been talking to this guy for 5 months now. About 2 weeks ago he & I had sex for the 1st time. Now I'm at the point where I want a relationship from him. When I asked him if he and I could become exclusive he said "I just got out of a relationship."

Then when I told him I could no longer talk to him or be friends he said "why? don't be like that. What do you want from me" When I told him I wanted a relationship that is when he said he just got out of a relationship. So I told him goodbye and he said "don't say bye. I could die tonight and those would be your last words to me. Don't be mean to those you care about bc tomorrow isn't promised." I told him bye once again and that was that.

I cannot be just friends with him because I want more. I would be teasing myself.

What can I do? It's been 1 day and already I miss him so much...he made me so happy. A part of me wants to run back 2 him to see if we continue to be friends maybe something will work out.

2006-11-27 10:40:30 · 12 answers · asked by cartier_2g 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been married for four years and i have had three miscarriges i am in my late 40s and my husband wants to go find a girl who can have a baby he said he doesnt want to leave me and is sure he can find a girl who will be willing to have a kid with him so should i stay or leave????????????

2006-11-27 10:40:29 · 17 answers · asked by tristy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy but he likes my exbestfriend and shelikes him but shes not sure she wants to go out with him i also have ways to get inside and get him to like be you know i snow his best friend kind of thing! so should i go for it or not?

2006-11-27 10:40:24 · 5 answers · asked by sunshine_jayne 2 in Singles & Dating

Why does it seem like the jock guys alway's get the really pretty girls, even if the guy is a total jackass to her?

2006-11-27 10:39:31 · 16 answers · asked by Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 10:39:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So heres the storey, theres is this guy named Matt we talk online all the time and at school sometimes it super akward. He finally got the courage to tell me that he likes me.(online) Sometimes we exchange hello's and all.. but i dont understand why he's so quiet at school..He talks to me so much on aim. I could see myself dating him.. but i dont want to if its always gonna be this weird. what do you think.

2006-11-27 10:38:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a dark black male age about 35or 36 and he might be married.

2006-11-27 10:38:38 · 6 answers · asked by Carma P 1 in Friends

ok, i really like this guy mitch, and i dont know how to show him that im interested. what are some flirty moves? help me??

2006-11-27 10:38:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating