This is the hottest girl who is driving crazy nowadays.After promising da we would go out yesterday and couldn't make it,I didn't call her and in the night I received her msge saying da she appologizes again so she was working and she confused her timetable before to give me this rendez-vous.
I didn't reply till now and I don't know what to do,she told me da she will be available on Wednesday but i am afraid da she will think da I am not interest on her anymore.
What can I do??? Just help me as I will help u one day
2006-11-27 10:46:29 · 13 answers · asked by JOHN P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all. a lil confusing. just say ur available if u are. if not just say ur not. its simple.
2006-11-27 10:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright, just to clarify, you couldn't make it to the date, and she apologized for messing up her times. You didn't reply until today and now she wants to go on another date, but you don't know what to do so she won't think you've lost interest?
If thats the case, then call her and let her set up a date, but u pick the time. Then, play the whole conversation cool, like you're not super angry but not super excited. That way she knows you're still interested, but you're not acting like you're so into her that she could control you or boss you around.
2006-11-27 18:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Malth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's available on Wednesday then just wait til then and take it from there. Take some time to get to know her and don't obsess over it.
Why would she think that you are not interested in her anymore? She's the one who couldn't make the date not you. Just see her when she's available and take it slow.
For now, put on your favorite movie and relax. This is no big deal... sometimes anticipation is half of the fun.
2006-11-27 18:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a BS excuse. Why did she have to wait until midnight to message you. Perhaps if she was at work until that time that might be a valid reason. I would tell her you are busy on Wednesday, but you would like to go out some other time. Wait a little while and see how sincerely sorry she was/is.
2006-11-27 18:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't believe her reasons and think she was only make up excuses, then you don't have any reason to bother. If you think she was telling the truth, and is really sorry for it... then you acted like an ***.
If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have sent you a message apologizing and trying to explain her mistake. She's human, mistakes happen....but instead of replying... and giving her the benefit of the doubt, you're sitting there pouting. What is that going to accomplish?
2006-11-27 18:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was to hard to follow with all the "da". Learn how to speak proper English and give it another try.
2006-11-27 18:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with her.... I mean u r still interested arent u...wats the reason u wouldnt go out with her. Just call her right now and tell her ud love to go out with her on wed! GOOD LUCK
2006-11-27 18:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she think that? just because you didn't answer her immediately? don't worry about it. if you wanna go out just ask her again. if she keeps putting you off maybe she's the one who's really trying to give you a hint. if not you're fine..
2006-11-27 18:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by JJK789 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her!!! the worst thing that can happen is that she doesn't want to go out ...and then u'll find another girl who will....think of other important thing in life...and then making a call will become such a stupid thing u'll do it naturally
2006-11-27 18:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Pi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, if she is still trying to arrange a time to go out, she is still interested
2006-11-27 18:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋