I have been with my BF for about 7 months. We have zero in common & i find it tricky to hold a normal conversation with him. Things are good but borring. We have the same morals and i think thats mainly what makes us care for each other. We say we love each other but i think its more like he loves me and i like having him because i believe him. He is trustworthy.
Recently I met someone new & they have everything in common with me and we can talk forever. He is more of the type of guy i see myself with forever. He knew about my BF but he stated that he knew i would eventually break up with my man for him. He was constantly hinting that he didnt want to share me and that he wanted to be with me. I can see us married. We work great together in every way. He is a little on the wild side though.Unfortunatley i waited too long. The new man basically says i wrecked my chance we had for a relationship. i can fix it but who do i choose? Stay with the stable one or take a longshot?
2006-11-27 10:42:15 · 6 answers · asked by Evilish13 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear, Which man do I CHOOSE ? ------- I have been looking over your story, common sense stand's out the most !-- and it wont be what you think I may say -- It will be more on and about you - not your TWO choice's ! You seem to just want to settle - like your choice's are so limited , Well, let's take a look about your story and see what we come up with ? 1. WORD"S that pop out at me are - ZERO - TRICKY-BORING - BUT - MAKE US - - - Let's stick to the boyfriend of 7 month's frist o.k -- Doesn't sound very Healthy to me - Negitive is a good word that comes to mind - It's just a matter of time - one of you will have to break the cycle - and go their on way - because not being honest - will soon have it's breaking point and that's not a good thing - Do you agree ?? Now I would have come up with seeing someone together so you could try to work this out - I have changed my thought's -- Since you have already -- brought in a 3 rd' party ? Seem's you've already made a choice to move on - NOT saying that is a healthy choice by any mean's -- Now for the so called WILD one --Is a horse of a different color -- Here are the word's that stand out to me --- THEY - HE KNEW - HE DIDN"T WANT TO SHARE YOU -WILD SIDE-- YOU WRECKED YOUR CHANCE - FIX IT - LONG SHOT - What are you thinking ?? He seem 's to already start in on manulating YOU !! ?? Think about it -- These are just some of my thought's -- If you feel that you HAVE to MAKE a CHOICE - Maybe your not ready for a relationship as of now ,, Which is O.K. - give yourself a break-- slow your pace down a touch -- If your not going to be honest with your frist boyfriend -- I'm sorry to say you won't be honest with any new relationship -- at least being honest - you could save a good relationship ! Even if it mean's later down the road - At least you'll know you shared the truth - in a honest and loving way - Don't PLEASE hurt other's more than it has to !! No good can come out of that ??!! Please keep in touch - I might need your insight one day -- Believe me I am not perfect -- Relax and take your time o.k. Bless you ...... My name is Pattijo
2006-11-27 11:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're questioning yourself, then you shouldn't be with either one. I say take a step back, take a break, get to know what you want a little better. Take a little YOU time. Believe me, I wish I had when I was younger. Life's too short to stay with someone you're not sure about. When you find the right person, you will just know. Good luck!
2006-11-27 10:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 17:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd have to say neither. for ur bf no use being with him if u have nothing in common and no interests together. and as for the new guy. he sounds a lil like a player.
2006-11-27 10:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call upoun the name of the Lord you devilish child and The God of Abraham shall direct your path ,
2006-11-27 10:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Terry S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree with 2 dogs..the 2nd guy sounds like a jackass.
2006-11-27 10:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋