Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

i fancy this guy at school but i dont no if he even know me what do i do?

2006-11-26 03:51:59 · 14 answers · asked by schloe7 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 03:51:35 · 10 answers · asked by rockstar 1 in Friends

Ok, first please don't tell me that the ring doesn't matter and only love matters. I got that.
He makes plenty of money and before we got engaged he told me how big and pretty my ring would be...so, I got excited for that ring!!!
Well, I got mine...its nice and everything...white gold band (that needs to be dippped every couple of months so it doesn't turn yellow)
And little tiny tiny diamonds all the way around the band..so itty bitty that dirt gets stuck around the diamonds and it looks black.
The center stone is less than a carot.
Its not impressive to say the least.I wanted something different and I understand that he tried but the ring is cheap and he cheaped out on me and that is exactly how I feel. He cheaped out on me. He has spent more money on himself this month than he spent on that ring.
I know that when I tell him I want something bigger and shinier its really going to hurt his feelings. How can I break it nicely? Thanks for your time! (my family couldn't believe it)

2006-11-26 03:48:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 03:48:23 · 11 answers · asked by slvrangel1984 2 in Singles & Dating

I share a pathetic small room with my younger sister. It is really small until one can only walk the perimeters of the room. In addition, i have to endure her super irritaing cough ever night. Of course, i can't sleep properly at all. If i ask my parents about my problems, i will be very selfish in the sense that i want to have the room to myself. But i desperately need my own peacefulness and privacy to concentrate on studies and own relaxation. I feel very vexed and irritated right now! Help please???

2006-11-26 03:47:51 · 11 answers · asked by Daffodil 3 in Family

It is as if I was born yesterday - I did not grow up in the UK, I arrived here already married. I am now divorced and have no idea how to go about dating UK-style. I have no single mates to help me out so I need your help. Where can I find single mothers in their 30's? Please don't say the gym - no one talks to anyone there. Please don't say the office - there are only 4 of us. Please don't say Internet Dating - it sucks.

2006-11-26 03:47:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...say into your ear that your sexy, if he has a girlfriend? What's he trying to achieve? And what would he want the answer to be? Would 'thank you' be ok?

2006-11-26 03:46:26 · 5 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 03:46:20 · 9 answers · asked by Tamanna Z 1 in Singles & Dating

Give up and dump her a s s? Or what? I can only be taken advatage of so many times

2006-11-26 03:45:56 · 14 answers · asked by onelonevoice 5 in Singles & Dating

Can you suggest what should I do.I am 27 n not married.I used to be depressed alot.But now its fine.

2006-11-26 03:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Does anyone know how I can get my mother to talk to me again.

P.S. It has to be over the phone or else she'll pull out the shotgun again.

2006-11-26 03:44:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dont think it has to take two nice wages to live these days..Where is the breed of men i am searching for.None of you have hardly given me any hope..All you come back with is how pathetic a woman like me is.. All you have done is motivated me to take a pill to sedate myself..How pathetic have some of your answers been..I did not think i was a loser..

2006-11-26 03:44:15 · 11 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this one guy at my school.I've liked him ever since last year and I haven't givien up on him just yet.I want to know if he likes me or not.My friend asked him if he liked me, he said no.But..everyday, he shows signs that he likes me.He stares at me, turns red when I'm around him, he talks about me, and I'm just so confused!My friend is one of his best friends and he's pretty sure he likes me. Can someone please help me!!!

2006-11-26 03:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by Andi<3 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my bf went out for only a month.But we were together for a while 5 years ago.We finally patched back when he broke up with his ex in August.We are crazily in love,at least at this moment.He and his ex went out for like 4 years.It's bothering me because 2 yrs ago I met him again and I wanted to be with him.He rejected coz he had this gf.So I gave up coz I didnt wanna steal him from his gf at that time.His ex doesnt like me coz she thinks I tried to steal him.Now she knows that we are together but she still doesnt like me.My bf said she hasnt got over him.We are living in different countries now.Last Friday my bf got really sick and he went to see the doctor.Last night we talked and I found that his ex drove him there and lent him money and,more importantly,she came over to his place.I started to have this headache and heartache...he explained that she accompanied him to buy groceries and sent him home and wanted to make sure hes alright.So she stayed for just a while...

2006-11-26 03:42:43 · 1 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Singles & Dating

I found that I really love that guy. It is not like. I believe the feeling on myself. Should I tell him? Or just keep quiet? I really got crazy on him! But I am still studying, this is not the suitable time for loving. But I feel that I had fell in love with him. I really LOVE him. What shall I do?

2006-11-26 03:42:16 · 4 answers · asked by Juddy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a nice girl here in florida....she lives in arizona and I live here in florida. She had bought a plane ticket to come see me on december 6. Well I had been looking for another car the whole time. After no luck i went to buy a car on ebay....i wired 2500 bucks to the seller...I didnt get the car. I was defrauded out of 2500 bucks! My long distance girlfriend sympathizes with me and we both talked on phone for weeks and everything was great ....she even calls to give me phone sex. I mean she was really crazy about me. Then today she calls me and says she has got the flu. Then she says dont be mad..but im not coming to florida to see you. Then she says in a nice way--my situation needs to improve before comes to see me. I was cool and said ok and acted happy about it. Then i said "well take care of yourself." Then she says can we talk later? I said whatever. I think she lost respect for me after I got suckered out of 2500 bucks. What do u guys think? Why is this happening to me?

2006-11-26 03:38:43 · 11 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married a day and a half from today and i am having some major second thoughts. The man i am engaged to is from a wealthy family and my family is upper middle class.His family is paying for the wedding lets just say it in the thousands range and i feel like i cant call it off.I feel like i am not myself at all in this realtionship. I felt like if i went along with the stuff he liked and pretended to like it i was making him happy but now i feel misreable. I feel like i am going insane i cant stand how anal he is about some things he is but i feel obligated to keep him happy.I was talking to someone at work(no i did not cheat)casually and it hit me that i am about to marry someone that i have nothing in common with?I dont know what to do is this cold feet or something more?

2006-11-26 03:37:55 · 30 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

No really, If a friend tells you something really juicy that everyone would want to know, can you keep it to yourself

2006-11-26 03:37:30 · 22 answers · asked by b4utell 3 in Friends

2006-11-26 03:36:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..how would you want to live it?

2006-11-26 03:36:45 · 15 answers · asked by catcher 3 in Marriage & Divorce

........ should I join one? What are the upsides/downsides?

2006-11-26 03:36:25 · 13 answers · asked by malaga 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 03:35:31 · 14 answers · asked by adam g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im only 13 and MY mom hates my aunt!! sure my mom has always been the sucesfull one in life you know the homerauma 10,000 sq foot house the 14 acor woods the pace arrow RV, and well then theres my aunt with triplets lives in the middle of texaa in her rv park like thing with so many animals she cant take care of them all! her house is just well a giant mess full of mcdonalds toys! my aunt is really jelous. plus on top of that she is just plain embaressing! she is very loud and she only thinks of herself she is dirty and fat and she lets her triplets run wild! last weekend next to our lot there was a house having an open house next to it and they were planting grass and she parked right on thr grass ON THERE YARD and she wrecked up the grass! they called the police and my mom was so embaressed that she almost started crying!!! i really love my cousins and i want to go see them today! how can i persuade my mom to come to let me see them!!!

2006-11-26 03:34:57 · 5 answers · asked by Meonater 1 in Family

2006-11-26 03:34:36 · 9 answers · asked by b4utell 3 in Friends

I've been told on a couple of occasions I have none... by chicks. Define what it is to have balls... from a chicks prospective. Better yet even, what defines "no balls" to u in a guy. This should be entertaining...

2006-11-26 03:33:38 · 25 answers · asked by blah_blah 2 in Singles & Dating

Let's say that you was living with someone for about 5 years. And you messed up and cheated on that person, no excuse for doing it, but you did it and your bf/bf moved out because of it. Now you feel really bad about it, you realize that you wished that you had never ever done it and wanted that person that you lived with back into your life. You would do anything to try to get them back and never cheat on them again. You realize that you really do love this person a lot even though you were stupid enough to cheat on them. How long would you keeping trying to get them back before you just give up trying? What all would you do to try to get them to come back to you? And no I am not the one that cheated. Just wondering how the cheater would handle this, knowing that they hurt someone that loved them and you want to make things right again between you and them again IF they will even take you back. As you have no clue if they will or not.

2006-11-26 03:31:29 · 18 answers · asked by SapphireB 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 03:29:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating a nice man in a city 20 km away. He's divorced 2x he says. 3 kids. we see eachother only on Sunday nites. For 3 months now. he drives here. We havent made it to 3rd base, he backed off from it 2x already. it took 3 months to get his number. Every time ive tried to call voicemail came up right away.
I would like to know what to do physically to get involved into his life. He says he just moved in with a friend. and now his internet is gone too. I am seeing him tonight. tonight i want to tell him im having these thoughts. or im gone. How should i approach this without seeming too clingy. there is no proof--- but "the only thing that makes sense- is that none of it makes sense to me"
tell me what to do and what important things to ask- so tonight i can make a decision.... because im in love...the veil is over my own eyes. I need advice and help fast... Please and thankyou

2006-11-26 03:29:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so heres my problem, I live in a house with my dad and sister, and currently my boyfriend. Well, my dad has smoked for over 30 years, and the house is always smelling like smoke. My boyfriend starts telling me how he can't believe that my dad smokes in the house and doesnt "care" about me and my sisters health. He said we are prolly going to die when we're 35. I tell him I've tried to tell my dad about his smoking but its his house. You can't tell someone whos been smoking for over 30 years to quit their habits 123. I dont know what to do my boyfriend is always making comments now, and I'm really tired of everything. he thinks I don't care I DO. What am I suppose to do?

2006-11-26 03:29:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i always wanted to have more friends but i was to shy and then i lost them and now i want to have new freiends in my clas or outside but i noticed that they can be only interesed in be helped not to help.it is a nasty situation.and how can i become more confident?i wish i could say always what i think.

2006-11-26 03:28:27 · 7 answers · asked by butterfly_me 2 in Friends