Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

I'm a 16 yr old guy...Quite short for a guy oni 5 ft 4 in....Almost overweight =( Theres this girl i reli reli like, and its hard to get her to like me....Furthermore, a lot of ppl say im quite a softy ( sumtimes they call me gay ).....What can I do??

2006-11-26 02:49:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21, never kissed a girl and my personal standards forbid me from going out with any girl in my town. What kind of standards, you ask? Well, I'm saving myself for marriage and I can only date a woman who has also kept herself pure. And since every woman in my city has lost theirs, the hope of ever finding someone is lost.
Good advice is needed.
Not that "Oh, you'll find somebody" crud. I'm not an idiot and dont need to be humored with such nonsense.

2006-11-26 02:49:02 · 3 answers · asked by snipertkc 3 in Singles & Dating

im 21 and my girlfriend is 19, we have been together for 3 years and we are really happy, we are engaged and are already planning buying a house and having children, i just want to know if im too young to think that its right to do all this, i love her and we both have good jobs and we aint dreamers so id just like to hear what older peoples opinions are of this.

2006-11-26 02:48:19 · 32 answers · asked by xxx_weeshexy_xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 02:46:53 · 15 answers · asked by thresher 7 in Family

I have 2 daughters and grandchildren and their partners who want to have Xmas dinner with me. It would be nice for someone else to cook dinner for me for a change but don't want to let the kids down. And I don't actually mind as long as they do the washing up! But when I suggested my man came here too, I was met with a wall of silence by the girls. One likes him, the other one won't have anything to do with him. They say its up to me who I invite but I don't want an atmosphere on Xmas Day round the dinner table. I know its a while off yet but I'm a busy woman and have to get things organised in time so I'm not doing the headless chicken thing. Do I have dinner with my man and let the kids cook their own dinner, do i invite him and have an hour of awkwardness till the drink mellows them? or do something else, like ignore Xmas and go onto Boxing Day?

2006-11-26 02:46:39 · 13 answers · asked by PATRICIA L 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know of a little girl whose mom is dead and the father adandoned her. She lives with cousins now but they really can't adopt her, eventhough they want to, because they have a very unstable home life. I was wanting to adopt the kid for them that way the little girl didn't have to go to a foster home or someplace worse. I know i'm in the military, but is this a possiblity for me to do and if so, how would i do it?

2006-11-26 02:45:19 · 3 answers · asked by John C 1 in Singles & Dating

The first week we met he called every other day and has now dissappeared for 8 days and counting. Is this relationship over before it started or is this normal for guys? He was going out of town for the holiday and did make it sound like I might not hear from him. However, I think this could be an indication there is a girl he went to see? Holiday or not it seems he would have contacted me once, even if he is seeing someone. Of course we haven't discussed exclusivity yet so he can see other women but could still pick up the phone and dial. I am wondering if he has just moved on at this point? I am not going to call him because he is an older man and does all the calling in the old fashioned way. I want to wait and see if he calls on his own but just want to figure out if it is already over so that I can just forget him.

2006-11-26 02:44:02 · 13 answers · asked by LDR02 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with her on and off for 2 years. We got off on a rough start because she wasnt over her ex. It was my first relationship and I must admit I was a bit immature. Im not a dumb guy and I do have a big intellectual edge over her. She is very superficial, (fake eyelashes, contacs, fake boobs) and she is only 20. I loved her to death and tried to give her everything she wanted. She has a wndering eye. We live an hour away from each other and with my older car, I walways try and see her. Throughout the relationship, I felt really unappreciated. She lives with mom and sister and all of them have guy problems. When we were trying to work things out, she started talking to some guy as "friends." It constantly bothered me because I did whatever i could to make her feel more secure. I act needy and desperate because I wonder why she does certain things to me. She says its one reason she left me cuz im crazy. Now everything i tried to avoid is happening. It literally "kills" me. Theyre dating

2006-11-26 02:43:55 · 19 answers · asked by Dwaine 1 in Singles & Dating

help!i got 2 guys that like me and 1 guy i like witch one should i go for!
1;ricky,looks ugly but care dous not like me for my body but never says i am pretty,and he is a bad kisser
2;danell;tall,in one of my classes,has lots of friends,can't say much more never dated
3;antheny;loves to get felly,has some friends,and loves to get in bed,i like him but has a girl friend
plez pick one just don't tell me something stupid pick a name plez
~<3jamie<3~

2006-11-26 02:43:43 · 6 answers · asked by jamie 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 02:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 02:40:51 · 22 answers · asked by jagmeet gill 1 in Friends

2006-11-26 02:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by hia bob 1 in Singles & Dating

He knows I like him but he doesn't think that I SERIOUSLY want to get to know him. He is in a grade above me and he is so CUTE! I always see him hugging other girls. They all like him. I know he has a tiny crush on me. How do I get him to take a second glance at me? We are in middle school so nothing inappropriate please. Thanks.

2006-11-26 02:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by Just an Actress 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 02:40:03 · 20 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Weddings

Like him and I are just "having fun" do I get him anything for Christmas or nothing? If so, what should I get him?

2006-11-26 02:38:50 · 10 answers · asked by evie_cooper 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 02:35:53 · 9 answers · asked by debbie2243 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thinking about being in a shop changing room and a fit girl comes in and come on to you? (im a girl)

2006-11-26 02:35:10 · 12 answers · asked by hothunnyme 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 02:33:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I,ve been married 14 years.about 5months ago I found out my wife met someone on the internet ,a younger guy who was divorced after just 2 months of marriage(the reason why keeps changing as per my wife)I know she is also at fault but I explained that a man that hits on a married woman knowing shes married is not worth it.she was up north with her parents and so is he but about an hour away.she has snuck out to go see and spend the weekend with him 2 times while she was up there.she recently came home and we put my son in school and after 5 days I came home from work to find her things gone she abbandond the house.while she was here we were intemet with each other and she told me she was going to let him go.but as it turns out she had other plans.I'm not perfect only jesus was but I tried doing all the things that a husband should do because I'm in love with her and faithful to her.I cant believe shes willing to leave a solid foundation for something thats to good to be true.

2006-11-26 02:32:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm talking bout that one present that was really great, either because it was given to you from a special person, with a lot of love, or cause it was exactly what you needed
and who did u get it from.
btw i'm not talking about anything sexual, just so we get it out of the way ;)
cheers

2006-11-26 02:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by lady xanax 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 02:30:46 · 7 answers · asked by Time 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm kinda seeing someone whos about 20 years older den me. he is not married before .. somehow my parents and some other family members are giving disapproval of our friendship ..

is there anything really wrong?

2006-11-26 02:30:44 · 15 answers · asked by CT TC 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this woman for about a year now. We talk to each other whenever we can. We can talk about anything to each other.
I always thought of this woman as a friend.

For a little while, we lost contact of each other for a few months because of certain work-related circumstances. When I talked to her again, I found out she got married. She apparently met this guy at work about 5 months ago, but started dating about 3 months ago. Now they're married. I feel shocked and I think a little heart broken.

I didn't realize this, but I had feelings for her for a while. It just didn't surface until I found out she got a significant other.

Now I can't get over my feelings for her. Especially, after she got married she told me that she has feelings for me, too. Now I have a lot of regret.

Please don't say, "Just get over it," "forget about her," or "ignore those feelings." I don't know how to get over a person. I need an idea on a good start.

P.S. I won't let her cheat on her husband.

2006-11-26 02:29:33 · 14 answers · asked by jaden2999 1 in Singles & Dating

My "best friend"A. turned out to be a back staber!At first everything was ok and we always had the best of time!We would talk for hours on the phone,had the same tastes,etc;i felt there was a strong connection between us!I knew she was the kind of person that gosips but i didn't know how much.Like any 2girlsfriends we would talk about all sorts of things and people-but i saw it all as a joke!Turns out that the joke was on me cuz i'm 1of the people she gosips about alot!And as if that weren't enough she's always spreding lies about me to people i know and people i don't!She is always exagerating the truth and turning it into a huge lie so that she appeares to be the inocent godess!Not to mention sometimes when she feels like it she treat me like hell!I tried to distance myself from but she is the one that insistes on being friends and she always saying "oh,ur my best friend!I love u" and then 5min laters when i'm not there she talks about me and lies!What do i do?Why does she do this?

2006-11-26 02:29:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For the honest ladies out there to answer.

2006-11-26 02:25:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have started working for a while and it seems people are so fake. Drama queens. seem like good friend with you but did all the things to hurt you behind your back. I am losing my faith in people and getting more and more withdrawn from social life....it isn't right, is it? what shall I do?

2006-11-26 02:25:19 · 17 answers · asked by xxx 1 in Friends

root vegetable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

2006-11-26 02:25:05 · 15 answers · asked by arthur3home 3 in Singles & Dating

i have bin humiliated in my new school now peeps think i'm stupid nd i need to get a reputation

2006-11-26 02:24:35 · 9 answers · asked by fuen 1 in Friends

2006-11-26 02:22:55 · 20 answers · asked by x-x-x Sxc Jack x-x-x 1 in Friends

Met a guy on new years he was starring at me 4, 40 mins b4 he came up 2 me.. not that i noticed but his friend told me when i was chatting, we kissed got on & arranged a date. He had just broken up from his girlfriend of 2 yrs. He couldnt take his eyes of me & was really nervous when we went on a date. at that time i was having a dilemma with my career..i did tell him but i dont thinkhe fully understood... i acted erraticly like an absolute nut i was feeling very insecure and on my own..things ended & that was that. I saw him out a few time he kept on starring at me & asking about me to my friends. Once i was chatting to another guy in this bar & he brought a girl infront of me & started to hug her & then to look over at me.He once grabbed my friend to say i was strange i texted him last week to say sorry 4 my strange behaviour & 'jokingly' should i still b locked up he txt'd back 'dont worry about it it doesnt matter. Glad u & ur friend can laugh at it.Take care' what does this mean

2006-11-26 02:21:15 · 2 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating