Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

Im really confused. there is this guy i like and we have been going out. my dad is acting like a real dumbo he tells everyone his kids are good but thats never true cause no one is perfect. he believes that a boyfriend is a shame and eventually you will get pregnant but that is not the case at all he wants me to probably start dating when im 25 which is very very far away he thinks i will get pregnant thats his biggest fear and then he goes around spying on me and my brother and if he ever sees me with this guy he will freak i wanted to break up with this guy only for now until he calms down and stops acting up. what should i do?

2006-11-26 03:26:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i lik this boy and he is friends with mostly of mine but one and i'm not friends with him either. then suddenly my bestfriend is friends withhim what do i do and we are still not friend does he lik me or not.

2006-11-26 03:26:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i want it to be special, but i dont know what. my bf is kinda punkish. plz dont say a gift card or a cd. guyz what would you want your gf to give you for christmas? keep in mind that i am only 14

2006-11-26 03:24:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alot of my friends have been saying that they're getting an ELF for christmas?!? One of my friends last year said she got one, but what does that mean? Can you REALLY get one for christmas?

2006-11-26 03:24:28 · 4 answers · asked by spaz buddy 2 in Friends

Dating LD since moved to NY in Sep. He said he would marry me once he got a decent job, but I fear he has changed towards me during our separation. Going back to Tokyo to visit him next week. He says coming to the airport costs too much money and time, so he thinks he won't come. I begged him to see me the day I arrive. He was very worried and nervous that that would lead to him staying with me in the hotel, something he clearly does not want to do. His tone of voice, worry and attempt to avoid this situation indicated this. Yet when I forced the question, he says he still wants to go out with me, that it is not the case that he cant break up with me out of kindness, and he would not rather be friends. Had to push for him to have lunch with me, he says he wants to limit expenditure, he is saving up for something expensive and highclass. He will tell me what it is when he sees me, but I must not tell anyone about it. Whats going on and what should I do? Been intimate in past with him.

2006-11-26 03:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Over the last week Jessica has been staying with us during the Thanksgiving holidays. We have grown so close during this time by sharing the same room together at night to sleep in (nursery). She is so good with children and she has even helped me change my baby's diapers and feed him when I was being a hostess for our other guests. She is my age, very pretty, and we have so much in common. I'll have to admit a few weeks ago when my husband went to her house instead of taking me and baby to the zoo I was kind of upset at her. However, I had been on my period and my husband had not had relations with a woman in a few days so I got over it and I'm glad I did. I found out she wasn't an escort but was a woman given to my husband by her father in her virginity. My husband was keeping us in separate houses so we wouldn't get the same menstrual cycle. With all this in common, wouldn't it be a good idea to have our babies at the same time. We could nurse them and raise them together.

2006-11-26 03:23:45 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we will have been dating 3 monthes around christmas i think hes getting me a ring we are in love and i dont know what to get him .he likes video games cds etc., i thought about a cd but he has just about every cd i could think of including new ones. my mom doesnt agree on us dating but i really dont care she doesnt like him cause hes the bad boy type but thats what i like in a guy so she can get over it. also he likes jewlery like gold chains and earrings hes the thuggish type and i dont wanna buy him clothes cause i am afraid of him not liking it so what should i do help please!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-26 03:22:24 · 5 answers · asked by in luv 1 in Singles & Dating

I started dating this guy who seemed really sweet, after a few weeks he told me he considerd me his girlfriend, invited me to dinner with his family etc.I went away for the weekend and ever since then hes acting shady,he used to call everyday and now i havnt heard from him since wed- i left him a few messages and he never called back, im not going to call him again at this point because im so mad & my pride is hurt.I feel stupid because i really thought he was different & cared about me.Why would a guy do this?

2006-11-26 03:22:11 · 25 answers · asked by nyc88m 1 in Singles & Dating

what does this mean i ma confused.

2006-11-26 03:21:42 · 13 answers · asked by Meg♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Help pls! This is a continuation of a previous qn. but I'm out of my mind about this guy I've known in a club for four months. We're both single and in 30s-40s age group & out of. We flirted, he pursued me with calls and then asked me out 1 mth ago. We both had busy schedules but eventually met lst wk. Hit it off very well..laughed & big attraction. We kissed passionately and he wanted to go to a hotel as both of us share small apts. with other friends. I refused explaining I need more time. He joked..'what do you want a wedding?'. He drove me home and said 'we'll be in contact by phone'. He never called. I left a msg..he didn't reply. I was hurt. Ran into him a week later at a club and he asked me to dance..v friendly but didn't mention the no calling. He then left without saying goodbye. I don't understand it. If it was just for sex then why not go for a stranger and not a girl you have a lot of fun with? Why can't he wait a bit. Do I have a chance. Goin' crazy!

2006-11-26 03:19:49 · 10 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating quite happily for a while. We've lived together for the last 6 months and we get along great. We both discuss the future in terms of moving together/being together, but he has never used the word marriage. He's very shy w/ his emotions, but I'm not sure I want to bring it up to him and set myself up for rejection or the whole, "I hadn't really thought of it," and have him turn off from the subject. It's driving me crazy not knowing what his intentions are, since I know where mine are (I've never met a better guy in my life!) We're both in our mid 20s, but he's more settled than a lot of 20-something guys. Should I bring it up or wait around or ... ? Seeking advice.

2006-11-26 03:19:45 · 8 answers · asked by Lovinglife 1 in Singles & Dating

In my life, I've found that people have kicked me to the curb for all kinds of reasons. The men that I 'dated' or involved with, kicked me to the curb. Then they come back and say.... 1)I should have never let you go or 2) I should have told you how I felt... cuz I really love you 3) please come back 4) i wish i would have done.... So why is it after they get rid of us? They want us back.....and of course, you're already in a relationship ---

2006-11-26 03:19:29 · 6 answers · asked by wasabi68girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My b/f's best friend hit me and I was ready to hit the s.o.b. when my b/f made me stop. I am so pissed. I wanted to hit the jerkback but my b/f says he would have hurt me. I wanted to finish what that sob started but my b/f wouldn't let me. He says i'm firery, am I?

He beat up the guy, but I soooooooo wanted to. Why did he have to ruin my fun? I have a black eye but would rather have two and know I fought back
I know he cared but it made me more mad cuz he held me back. If he wasn't there, I'd have been fine.
Am I firery?? He says I am.

Was he right not to let me fight back??

2006-11-26 03:18:09 · 20 answers · asked by trish 1 in Singles & Dating

i like to go in the magizines and look at the embarrasing moments and then they are all like done once you are finished reading them

2006-11-26 03:17:38 · 5 answers · asked by KaThErInE XoX KiTt XoX KaTt 2 in Friends

I am in a good relationship with my girl friend? Lots of time when we are having sex I get a feeling that she want me to suck on her breasts ... but I am not sure ... so I was wondering is it a pleasre point for them and do they enjoy it ...

2006-11-26 03:17:10 · 3 answers · asked by hawkeye_san 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy sees a girl he knows holding someone's baby and rocking her or something does he get turned on and attracted to the girl?

2006-11-26 03:16:05 · 3 answers · asked by dimples18 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I am still freinds with my "so called best friend" (friends for 5 years) she has grown apart from me.. We use to hang out ALL THE TIME.. she dont care for my "soon to be my husband" (in sept 07') which has done nothing but made me very happy.. i had a baby 10mo ago.. and she never called me..she is always trying to find a way of getting out of things when I try to plan thigs to do with her. I dont get why your friends dont care about you once you are happy. Why are people like that?

2006-11-26 03:15:52 · 9 answers · asked by TIKI 2 in Friends

2006-11-26 03:15:37 · 19 answers · asked by cc8462r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 03:15:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-26 03:15:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was texting this girl I like, we've been talking for a while. I asked if she could talk and she said she was talking to her BF so maybe later. I texted, "You never told me you had a boyfriend? Why didn't you tell me? I'll just ttyl....". She then texted "I just did." . Anyways I felt pretty stupid so I texted, " I'll call at a better time.". She replied, " Okay". But to tell the truth I'm not sure i I could ever talk to her again. She already made me feel like an idiot and I acted like a jackass about it. Was I stupid in my anger? And should I ever try calling her again?

2006-11-26 03:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

personals ad. I usually get fairly normal people that are just not into me or I'm not into them but since yesterday I have gotten 2 jerks. One guy seemed normal and when I said I could call him late tonight (I work retail all weekend and am too tired and busy to talk when I get home from work in the evenings) and he sent me 7 emails saying please call now I want to hear your voice. This is weird and too anxious to me and then I got a guy respond a few minutes ago that had a username that made it sound like he was somewhat religious and had some morals but when I read his email he was using profanity and didn't sound very religious.
What is with these guys, did someone let the weirdos out? I get an occasional oddball but nothing like these jerks.

2006-11-26 03:14:11 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy and we really like eachother. My mom heard from my best friend, my younger brother (by one year), and my other friend that he's emo and goth. Yeah, he dresses emo ish but he doesnt cut himself he told me he would never do anything like that. Also, he hangs out with the goths/emos at our school. I personally like him whether or not he dresses like that as long as he doesnt go to far (he only wear band tees and has black hair(naturally) that he wears straight down over some of his face). I think he's really nice and funny and actually really cares about me. But after my mom heard some peoples' thoughts about how he's emo/goth (which hes not only a little...) , she doesn't like him anymore. What should i do? I'm starting to doubt because my mom's opinion matters alot you know?

2006-11-26 03:13:56 · 8 answers · asked by Steph 4 in Friends

I've been waiting to ask this girl out on a date because of our conflicting schedule. We've been talking for a couple months and seem to get along pretty well.

I have a Christmas party to go this Firday night for the compnay I work for. I was thinking about asking her to go with me, but I'm not sure if that would a weird setting for a first date. My parents will be there because my Mom works for the same company.

Should I just wait to take her to dinner and movie or should I ask her to the party?

2006-11-26 03:13:55 · 10 answers · asked by radchad25 2 in Singles & Dating

I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl two weeks ago. A week after she was born, my fiance told me that he is not in love with me. I left because I thought it was pointless to be in a one-sided relationship. He wants to work things out and stay together for the sake of our daughter, but I don't want to be with him if he's not in love with me anymore. While I would love for her to have her two parents together, what is the point of being together if we're not happy? It's going to affect our daughter in the long-run. Was leaving the right choice? Should we work things out?

2006-11-26 03:13:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 03:13:06 · 3 answers · asked by soulassin 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a rather rigid guy who never touches friends except to shake their hands to congratulate them. I never wrap my arm around their shoulder or try to wrestle with them, you know, in a friend sort of way. I would love to do that with some of my male friends because I think they think I'm boring and robot-like, but I'm afraid of trying the above due to the fear of them thinking I'm trying to hit on them. I notice gal pals are very comfortable holding hands and stuff, but as for guy pals... I have no clue whatsoever :(

2006-11-26 03:12:57 · 5 answers · asked by xander 5 in Friends

What reason's do you find NOT to date a guy, or take him seriously in the relationship department?

2006-11-26 03:12:01 · 12 answers · asked by blah_blah 2 in Singles & Dating

WELL IT IS THE VERY LAST DAY OF FALL BREAK + SCHOOL IS TOMAROW AND MY MOM DOES NOT CARE DOES SHE? THAT TODAY IS SOPPOSED TO BE THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE? WELL HERE I AM AT HER OFFICE BUILDING SHE BOUGHT JUST TO BORE ME!!!!! I WANT TO GO TO MY GRANDMA'S HOUSE TO SEE MY COUSINS BUT TOO BAD THAT MY MOM HATES HER SISTER!!! HOW CAN I PERSUADE MY MOM TO LET ME GO TO GRAMA;S?

2006-11-26 03:11:39 · 5 answers · asked by Meonater 1 in Friends

Me..Not being too smart .I feel as though i have no choice but to find a man who doesnt mind a woman like me..I cant make a good wage and i need a man to understand that..And i am not a gold digger,.I am not lazy..I consider looking after my man not lazy..

2006-11-26 03:11:26 · 13 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Singles & Dating