My b/f's best friend hit me and I was ready to hit the s.o.b. when my b/f made me stop. I am so pissed. I wanted to hit the jerkback but my b/f says he would have hurt me. I wanted to finish what that sob started but my b/f wouldn't let me. He says i'm firery, am I?
He beat up the guy, but I soooooooo wanted to. Why did he have to ruin my fun? I have a black eye but would rather have two and know I fought back
I know he cared but it made me more mad cuz he held me back. If he wasn't there, I'd have been fine.
Am I firery?? He says I am.
Was he right not to let me fight back??
2006-11-26 03:18:09 · 20 answers · asked by trish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His friend hit me cuz he was pissed that he lost a race to a girl in a pink porsche.
Was my b/f right?? I am 5'1 and 95lbs but can handle myself.
2006-11-26 03:23:51 · update #1
You should have kicked his &ss.
2006-11-26 03:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say both of your intentions were noble. If you were my daughter, I'd hope you waxed the floor with that jack@ss, but I've got to give your boyfriend props for wanting to protect you and also taking care of business and beating up that idiot. You were both right.
Focus on the fact that under the circumstances, your boyfriend beat up his best friend for you. It's good to know where his loyalties lie. It is however a little disconcerting to think about the character of his choice in friends. You can judge a lot by the next month or so - will your bf still hang around this piece of filth knowing who he really is? If so, I'd cut bait.
Good luck!
2006-11-26 11:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by stargazerjimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I would have pick up the closest thing to me and beat the he** out of the guy, and would not have gave a sh** of what my b/f would have thought we would have both been kicking his a** together because now that u were not able to do anything about it, it not the same relief than u doing it ur self. but, it good that ur b/f kick his a**. so at least feel some relief but I do get where u coming from. and He** no u not firery u just protecting what urs.
2006-11-26 11:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by msgris2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he was right not to let you fight back. I know you wanted to deal with this yourself, I would have felt the same way. But you would have gotten hurt and your boyfriend as a man has to look out for his girl. Yes you are fiery! But what is wrong with that? It's probably one of the things he loves about you! Maybe you can think of another way to get even with this guy, put the thought process into motion. Getting even doesn't have to be physical.
2006-11-26 11:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he was definately right not to let you fight and I am glad that he was man enough to step up and take control of that situation. You really could have gotten hurt in all of this. I know that you are pissed and wanted to get some frustration out also, but this was not your fight. Just appreciate the fact that you have a bf that cares enough about you to defend you.
2006-11-26 11:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by Laila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have at least let you get in the first few punches and be your back up in case things got out of hand.
What would have made more of a lasting impression on the guy who hit you was to call the cops and file a battery report on him with pictures of your black eye on file. He would have done some jail time maybe, at least thou the report would be on file for the next victim of the guys abuse. Does he hit his girl friend?
2006-11-26 11:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
ACTUALLY! i wouldve done the same thing you would have done. but i guess what we want to do sometimes is not always at our best interest..and your boyfriend saw that. He must care about u a lot to have beat his own bestfriend up and u know what you should just calm down and let it go. He was right for his hs instinct in not letting you get hurt. but you were also right to think that it was your battle to fight. So you're both right! EVERYTHING WORKED OUT OKAY SO JUST DROP IT...MOVE ONE. there are much more other things to be mad at than that.
2006-11-26 11:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Ri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, anger gets us into a lot of trouble sometimes especially when it takes over our body and seriously makes us do crazy things. Like in your case, ya you could have kicked the guys butt but what if you got really hurt, really worth it? It's like killing someone and spending your whole life in jail for it, I personally think life is much more living and letting go of anger then sitting in pain for life or a few weeks. Good Luck!
2006-11-26 11:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by A.K.A NK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a normal response to wanna fight back. FIGHT OR FLIGHT, You chose to fight. The result i am sure would not have ended in your favor. So no I dont think that makes you firey. You had a normal response it wasn t as if he accidently bumped you and you wanted to pop him. Yes, your boyfriend was right to stop you. We don think very logically when we are upset. You already have one black eye. What if the second assault would have gotten you broken ribs or facail reconstructive sugery? TWO points for your man for putting back in his place.
2006-11-26 11:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by Topstar01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this guy was stronger than you it was right for you to stop then & there. I dont think your fiery you just a little angry and could have handled yourself a leeetle better. It was nice of him to stop you which shows he cares about you & duzent want you to get hurt. You arent fiery
well GL!
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2006-11-26 11:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by KatastropheGirl™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is right in not to rebuke because when you are in feiry / loose temper ou can do the worst now a day wil come when he will realize his mistake & will be sorry for this.
2006-11-26 11:23:24 · answer #11 · answered by rajesh p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋