Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

Dating LD since moved to NY in Sep. He said he would marry me once he got a decent job, but I fear he has changed towards me during our separation. Going back to Tokyo to visit him next week. He says coming to the airport costs too much money and time, so he thinks he won't come. I begged him to see me the day I arrive. He was very worried and nervous that that would lead to him staying with me in the hotel, something he clearly does not want to do. His tone of voice, worry and attempt to avoid this situation indicated this. Yet when I forced the question, he says he still wants to go out with me, that it is not the case that he cant break up with me out of kindness, and he would not rather be friends. Had to push for him to have lunch with me, he says he wants to limit expenditure, he is saving up for something expensive and highclass. He will tell me what it is when he sees me, but I must not tell anyone about it. Whats going on and what should I do? Been intimate in past with him.

2006-11-26 04:10:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have a 3 year long love / hate relationship with someone before you marry and you get engaged and you have second thoughts for 6 months before the wedding and still have them when you will marry a day and half from the wedding day is it cold feet?

2006-11-26 04:09:38 · 12 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the situation. Two weeks ago today I broke up with my boyfriend of six months. It was actually a mutual breakup though, since he had no objections. He and I had been fighting a lot during the last several weeks of the relationship. Before that, we were getting along pretty well, and were in love. He treated me very well before all the really bad fighting started. Two days after the breakup I sent him an email asking for forgiveness since I ended the relationship so abruptly and while his parents were still in town. (I met them a few days prior) He never replied to that email, though. Yesterday I really had the urge to talk to him, so I called him up and left a voicemail saying hi and that I'd like to still be friends if he wants to as well. So far he hasn't called me back. I'm having a really hard time letting go and moving on. I guess I still have some feelings for him. I think I'd feel so much if he'd contact me so we could talk. Anyone else going thru this?

2006-11-26 04:08:30 · 5 answers · asked by Mysti1000 1 in Singles & Dating

Listen me and my bf where thinking if there is a web site we can go to and put his pic and my pic and then see what our child will look like or mix our faces togather... PLEASE answer if you kno a website . Thank you

2006-11-26 04:07:58 · 1 answers · asked by ~*iTaLiAnMaMi*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf and I have been going on for 5 months, don't know what 2 get her!

2006-11-26 04:07:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with a friend 2 weeks because she has so much drama going on in her life and all she does is talk down on people, but never to me. She was nice. I've asked her not to say things like that to me, but she continuously did it anyway. So I told her that I could not be friends with someone who is so judgemental. Now, she called, living a message , today inviting my 1 year old son and I to her kids birthday party next weekend. She said its because her daughter misses my son. I used to babysit for those kids every other day and they loved playing with my son. What should I do? Should I just go for the kids? The party is taken place at chucky cheese and there will be people there that she hangs around with that are just like her. Drama, Gossipers.

2006-11-26 04:07:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-26 04:07:29 · 20 answers · asked by cellardoor 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 04:06:11 · 11 answers · asked by kassie f 1 in Singles & Dating

i said no at first and he was like think about it and i said would think about it.... but this is making me uncomfortable... what can i say to let him know i am not ready for that just yet?

2006-11-26 04:04:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A boy spends his 23 years to become capable to feed himself and his parents afterthat he is married to a girl and her responsibility he also bears and then children,growing up of childrens,taking care of wife,looking after aged parents,etc.Another 40-45 years gone and finally one day he also gone from the world just serving others.

2006-11-26 04:04:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is there a wrong way...



Revolution rocks!.....;0)

2006-11-26 04:03:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres a girl i know and we are really good friends. recently ive been having feelings for her and i really like her but im not sure if she likes me back. what can i get her for christmas that will subtly tell her that i like her??

2006-11-26 04:03:55 · 10 answers · asked by mr happy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 04:03:45 · 16 answers · asked by gharman2001 1 in Singles & Dating

one of my friends blocked me on msn, and i dont know why, he was the last person that i thought that would block me and am very upset about it. i know that he blocked me because i have another old msn add and i thought i would add him to that and when i checked he was online, I want to ask him why he did that but am scared that that might push him away more further and he will just ignore it and that will upset me more, also i dont want him to know that i care too much incase that will put him off ,how can i ask him why he did it?

2006-11-26 04:03:07 · 5 answers · asked by Suriyah 2 in Singles & Dating

me to dinner after he previously asked me out and we made plans to go to dinner. When he picked me up he told me he had already ate, then offered to take me for some Wendy's, after driving around for 3 hours he offered Denny's... mind you I heard his freakin stomach growling. Anyhow, I took some advice and called and asked him if he would like to meet me and some friends at the bar... he asked where, I told him, then he made an excuse. He called me when I was leaving to go out saying he might me us there at the bar... but guess what he never showed up. To say the least, this guy is not like a 8 or 9 on a scale of 1-10... I am not a sleezy bag... I am educated... self employed ha ha not kidding. LOL so I think it is obvious I was not looking for a suga daddy... so why this guy cannot take me out? He is not assuming I just want him to spend money on me by taking me to dinner right?
I am not believing myself sitting here trying to figure this out with a hangover. Silly me

2006-11-26 04:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by Kay_Ladee 2 in Singles & Dating

Please help settle an argument my girlfriends and I have been having. We need a male perspective on this one.

Some of us say that a guy wouldn't want to start a relationship with a woman he slept with on the first date, and some of us say that if the guy is really into the woman that it doesn't matter. What do you think?

2006-11-26 04:01:27 · 8 answers · asked by sadinLA 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 04:01:25 · 2 answers · asked by <3 1 in Friends

We were out last night with her cousin and some of her friends. Shed had a few drinks and after a while me and my girlfriend were gonna head off someplace else. She was talking to her cousin and telling her that me and her were going but when she said it to her cousin she called me by her ex boyfriends name. I was gutted and she realised her mistake straight away. She was very sorry about it. She went out with him for 3 yrs and only broke up with him 2 months ago. Does it mean anything or is it a harmless slip???

2006-11-26 04:00:05 · 18 answers · asked by macmurphy45 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 03:59:27 · 21 answers · asked by kkahn9dodge 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 03:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by curious_divorcee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I always feel like there's something wrong with me because I can only have sex with people I love. How can I change that, if at all? I don't know if I want to, but I feel like I'm in the minority. If my husband said he loved me but was having sex with others, I'd be heartbroken.

2006-11-26 03:58:08 · 5 answers · asked by charleston chew 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a part on my body that is 4.75 inches long and 1 and a half inches wide when happy.my daughters mom called me small and my ex whom ive been with for three years told me i was small and her daughter father was huge. this made me feel horrible. i feel like i will never find happines cuz of this in a relationship. can women tgive me there opinion and please be honest!

2006-11-26 03:57:51 · 9 answers · asked by JAY P 1 in Singles & Dating

which do you like more green or red apples.??

2006-11-26 03:56:04 · 10 answers · asked by SARAH 1 in Friends

i am seeing a lady .... she says things and does other things..she makes me laugh and she makes me happy... but at times she has me muddled and confused i know what i need to do i guess i just need to hear it thanks for listening

2006-11-26 03:55:18 · 5 answers · asked by sudzy1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 03:55:07 · 8 answers · asked by SARAH 1 in Friends

This guy and I have had this thing for a while now, and he used to like me (it's basically proven.. i mean big, major signs) but we're both shy when it comes to this, and we haven't talked for so long... i don't know whats going on. I really love and care for him, but i've noticed that whenever he sees me, he gets kind of tense... and kind of freezes up. My friend says he gets really nervous when she says my name. He'll stare and listen to me closely, but when i try to initiate eye contact, he'll turn his head away from me immediately. . . once in a while, he'll keep eye contact for a while, and theres look in his eye that makes me melt... it really feels like he still cares, but it's mostly body language. I know it's hard to tell since we haven't talked for so long, but do you think he still has feelings for me?

2006-11-26 03:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 03:54:27 · 15 answers · asked by Mick 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-26 03:54:04 · 10 answers · asked by SARAH 1 in Friends

were almost 1 year and 4 months with my boyfriend then i went out of our country to do some important stuff we just broke up 1 month ago cuz the feeling is gone and lack of communication im out of he's sight in almost 7 months...i told my self i would never look back again...but there were times that i really miss him...i really do miss him so much..what am i supposed to do??should i take him back??bacouse this december im going back home to my hometown,should i move on?? i still love him and no one can replace him..he feels the same way too..!!

2006-11-26 03:53:24 · 6 answers · asked by boojoo 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister and her boyfriend have been dating for over a year and she claims they are happy together. Yet whenever she talks to me or anyone else in my family all we hear is the negatives about him. I think my family would like him more if we heard the positives but I have yet to hear one. Anywho sometime in this year relationship sister was thinking about leaving him. She was all prepared to leave and everything. She had even found a better guy. Her boyfriend got wind of this and proposed to her. With her small brain she said Yes and now there are engaged. She lives with me and used to live with her boyfriend and his parents. He practically lives with me too. He is always over and spends the night. I pay 350(my half the rent) a month to get away from my parents telling me to do this and that. But then I have him in there telling me to do this and that. It is my apt and he dont pay for ****. She is 23, He is 29 and I am 19. I love my sister and sadly am kicking out. She has no job.....

2006-11-26 03:53:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating