This guy and I have had this thing for a while now, and he used to like me (it's basically proven.. i mean big, major signs) but we're both shy when it comes to this, and we haven't talked for so long... i don't know whats going on. I really love and care for him, but i've noticed that whenever he sees me, he gets kind of tense... and kind of freezes up. My friend says he gets really nervous when she says my name. He'll stare and listen to me closely, but when i try to initiate eye contact, he'll turn his head away from me immediately. . . once in a while, he'll keep eye contact for a while, and theres look in his eye that makes me melt... it really feels like he still cares, but it's mostly body language. I know it's hard to tell since we haven't talked for so long, but do you think he still has feelings for me?
2006-11-26 03:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best advice is to take your time, you have all the time in the world Hun this isn't a race to see who can get what boy and how fast is it? spend time with him dont force the issue be patient and he will get the message. It will happen naturally, he is perhaps scared to death of you, i know when i was a young man i was so respectful of some girls that they dumped me because they thought i didn't want to bed them. to be honest they frightened me or i always thought of them as not that kind of girl. he may think the same. Take things slow and chat to him about other things to take the pressure off once he gets more confident being around you it will happen if it is going to. I am sure you are a very attractive well presented and well manored young woman, this is what he may be afraid of. "his angel isn't like other girls" so to speak. or on the other hand if you are outgoing brash and pushy you may scare the sh*t outta the poor guy. If you want this thing to happen be patient and talk to him as a friend.
2006-11-26 04:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Cff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to ask him in indirect way, do one thing play the prank and talk to some other guy for 2-3 days and notice his reaction , he will be be very much uneasy and he will try to face u if thats happens u know the answer right baby,and let us see what happens , remember he is shy so he may be hurt dont try to keep this drama for long time
2006-11-26 12:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by ravi s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love and care for him he must have alot of money!!!! You say that but the minute he shows you affection you will say Ha ha ha! Sucker I got you now!!! And then you will ignore everything he does. I've seen it too much! Of course if he is rich; You wouldn't pass up the money! No woman ever does!
2006-11-26 12:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to tell is to ask him. It's obvious he is shy and maybe he just doesn't know how to express his feelings.
2006-11-26 11:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are tactics of guys to impress girls. Beware of them
2006-11-26 12:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by saleem.charudhary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋