me to dinner after he previously asked me out and we made plans to go to dinner. When he picked me up he told me he had already ate, then offered to take me for some Wendy's, after driving around for 3 hours he offered Denny's... mind you I heard his freakin stomach growling. Anyhow, I took some advice and called and asked him if he would like to meet me and some friends at the bar... he asked where, I told him, then he made an excuse. He called me when I was leaving to go out saying he might me us there at the bar... but guess what he never showed up. To say the least, this guy is not like a 8 or 9 on a scale of 1-10... I am not a sleezy bag... I am educated... self employed ha ha not kidding. LOL so I think it is obvious I was not looking for a suga daddy... so why this guy cannot take me out? He is not assuming I just want him to spend money on me by taking me to dinner right?
I am not believing myself sitting here trying to figure this out with a hangover. Silly me
2006-11-26 04:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by Kay_Ladee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is so not worth going after.. he probably doesnt have any money with him to take you out... but still that is no excuse for not showing up to see you... a nice guy who really loves you will take you out and meet you anywhere *food or no food* and he will love you until the world ends... you will be treated like a queen put on the highest pedestal... next time you see the guy who didnt meet up with you... tell him next time he wants to meet up with you , you will have another guy on your arm... (like the guy i described above...
2006-11-26 04:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its actually preferable to have a sig other who is basically on the same financial level as yourself, if not higher. Otherwise, you will always be thinking he is using you or you will feel used. Strange how double standard this sounds but Im trying to be honest.
Thing is, he asked you out then tried to say he'd already eaten and offered Wendy's. Not too cool. Its one thing for someone to make less money, but he cannot even afford food. Sounds like a problem.
2006-11-26 12:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound like he's very interested in you and besides that, why waste your time on a guy who is just going to keep you hanging on just so he can ditch you time and time again? Get rid of him and find someone who is willing to be there with you when they say they will and who can keep their promises. Good Luck =)
2006-11-26 12:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He opinion of you is really twisted and feels he can get away with a lot of junk that he might not try on anyone else.
he is not worth it, OK?
2006-11-26 12:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
barbeques seems to fix everything. this way he really doesnt have to throw down money, so ask him if he wants to come to a bar-b-q, that way you finally get to chill with him, and if he does have $ issues, this wont hold him back, i hope everything works out for ya!!!
2006-11-26 12:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by collegechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he assumed that something else would happen. But don't play yourself by going out with him again.
2006-11-26 12:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by terence w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him.
2006-11-26 12:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by FlyChicc420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋