Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

He made move to his state and when I finally got a job over there, he refused to let me use his car to go to work, knowing that I do not have a car of my own yet. For that reason I had to quit my job. He thinks my job is too far and not paying me right yet he refused to help me out financially so that I can pay some bills. I have been living in with him for a month now and I feel like am choking him. Yet, I really like him a lot and was hoping we could work things out. I am planning on moving out of his house soonest. Is that a good idea or should we try and work things out?

2006-11-26 04:34:09 · 6 answers · asked by Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in love with a married man for two years now. I know a relationship will never take place because he's happily married. But, I can't stop thinking about him and we are friends working in the same place. I think he knows because I've always been the good friend (eager at times) all this time.

My problem is that I can't commit or get into other relationships with men because I love this man. I meet nice guys but I don't feel anything...still pining for the one I can't have.

2006-11-26 04:32:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 04:31:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yesterday at a party I just found out that this guy i was interested in has a steady girlfriend and he is very much serious about her. I am just so devastated becuz all through it seemed like he was interested in me...which made me think he was single....u kno how guys act flirty..or all guys this way???...I have just not been myself ...and just dont know how to get over this....I just see him once a day and I dont know what i am going to do to get over this...we work at the same place...avoid him?? plzzz help

2006-11-26 04:31:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP

2006-11-26 04:31:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this boy on the chatline last month. i told him i wanted to be friends and see if that would lead to a relationship. well, i told him i was 16 because he's 19.i'm really 15. june i'll be 19 and march he'll be 20. how do i tell him without making him mad. i didn't mean for it to go on for that long. i tried telling him. but all he said was if i were younger than 16. then we want be talking anymore. we are real close and i don't want to lose him.do u think he'll love me enough to understand and still be my friend? i lost plenty of friends. i don't want to lose him.he's some special. he said when i turn 17 he want to take care of me.i'm really turning 16. oh god. what did i get myself into. i feel like crying. i can't lose him. i don't want to lose another friend. what should i do? i'm crying. helppppppppppp. i need it. jasmin.

2006-11-26 04:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Has anyone had their dream wedding abroad, if so, where are the best places?

2006-11-26 04:29:33 · 4 answers · asked by Callie 3 in Weddings

i like a girl in my class ,she is too talketive and is like a tomboyesh type of a girl i really like her but affraid as i had came to know tht she is a lose charactered girl and is not even trust wortht & she also like talking with guys very freely (even i had observed this one) & had also heard tht she had done s-e-x with many guys. WHAT SHOULD I DO PLZ TELL

2006-11-26 04:29:32 · 15 answers · asked by rishabh 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to know what happened with the 18 year old and 16 year old and 12 year old girl if u know what happened y did the 18 yearold girl stabb the 12 year old please tell me because 2 of those girls were my friends please im scared can u please help me!!!!!???

2006-11-26 04:29:14 · 3 answers · asked by boricua chick 2 in Friends

A drunken baptism- A joke?
A drunk stumbles along a baptismal service on Sunday afternoon down by the river. He proceeds to walk down into the water and stand next to the Preacher.
The minister turns and notices the old drunk and says, "Mister, Are you ready to find Jesus?" The drunk looks back and says, "Yes, Preacher. I sure am."

The minister then dunks the fellow under the water and pulls him right back up. "Have you found Jesus?" the preacher asked.

"No, I didn't!" said the drunk.

The preacher then dunks him under for quite a bit longer, brings him up and says, "Now, brother, have you found Jesus?"

"No, I did not Reverend."

The preacher in disgust holds the man under for at least 30 seconds this time brings him out of the water and says in a harsh tone, "My God, have you found Jesus yet?"

The old drunk wipes his eyes and says to the preacher..."Are you sure this is where he fell in?"

what do u think is it stupid or what who writes somethin like dat

2006-11-26 04:28:42 · 2 answers · asked by rodrigez_mariah 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 04:28:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think I've time to nip down the pub for a few before she comes back

2006-11-26 04:27:57 · 18 answers · asked by pop 4 in Friends

2006-11-26 04:27:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We kiss a lot..He's sooo dreamy should we keep the relation ship going? We don't want to tell anyone bout it but still..should we?

2006-11-26 04:27:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are trying to work on our marriage but his mistress is still living with him. Why won't she leave? He won't kick her out because she doesn't have a job and he's a good man.

He spends all of his free time with me so it's like she doesn't exist in his life. He even spends the night with me sometimes and leaves her all alone. She was even alone for the holidays.

How can my husband and I work it out if she's still there? Why won't she leave? How can she be satisfied living in an apartment with a married man who is hardly ever there?

2006-11-26 04:27:18 · 20 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we raised her until she moved out and went to college. since then she has treated us like dirt. she only comes around when she needs money, a co-signer on a loan, a newer car... we have ALWAYS been there for ALL of her needs.

here's the problem. my husband adopted her when she was 9 months old. her bio-mother is VERY upset that her ex-husband (my husband) and i are expecting our first child in April. the ex-wife (bio-mom of 20 year old disrespectful child) sought out the 20 year old childs bio-father (sperm donor per say). NOW, the girl we've raised is treating us like we don't exist. i'm hurt because i see my husband's pain... and i feel my own pain of course... and i REALLY wanted her to be a part of her soon-to-be-born brother's life. the 20 year old child is VERY selfish. talking to her wouldn't change a thing. i KNOW she will continue to come around when she needs money and things... all of the things her bio-mom and bio"dad?" have never given. TIRED OF BEING USED!

2006-11-26 04:27:16 · 23 answers · asked by JayneDoe 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a guy at work who I think is cute. He often makes an effort to smile and say hi to me. I want to know if he's a virgin--how do i ask? and how to get him to ask me out...Don't say "ask HIM out" because I don't believe in that, thanks!

2006-11-26 04:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by PrincessButtercup 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex hurt me really bad. He changed on me and he just doesn't care to see if im ok.

2006-11-26 04:26:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay is there any relation between chesse puffs and gettig horny?

2006-11-26 04:26:42 · 6 answers · asked by ohhh lalalala 4 in Singles & Dating

and he's 3 times her age wait 15 yrs. and he's twice her age how long till they are the same age ?

2006-11-26 04:25:56 · 13 answers · asked by shellac227 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 04:25:46 · 8 answers · asked by Iris 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've completely fallen for this slightly older guy. Even before I knew him personally I thought he was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen; something told me he was special.

He's actually a good friend of mine now, and I am making (failed) attempts to become more than his friend. This is, I've heard from someone that he doesn't want a girlfriend. I find it so hard to believe someone that age isn't interested in dating at ALL, but I've got to accept that.

Also, I heard from the same person that he's just pretty messed up and probably is unhappy. He doesn't have many friends, and he's very immature and isolated for someone his age.

To complicate things even more, I just can't act normal around him; I always have to be a jokester or let a good buzz get the best of me and I make an *** of myself. So why WOULD he like me anyway?

My question is, what do I do for this guy? I love him, but he doesn't love me back. He needs help. What can I do to help him? SHOULD I?

2006-11-26 04:25:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If i answered this question I would say they fought about 3 or 4 times and I would cry because I was only 5 or 6 years old whenever they fight.

2006-11-26 04:25:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2006-11-26 04:25:26 · 7 answers · asked by Warlock Fiend 4 in Singles & Dating

I am having a baby and me and my boyfriend are both underage I had to move to Arizona to keep the baby for sertain reasons his parents will let him visit me this winter break but he has to get his grades up-failing everything-and pay for half the ticket if he doesn't go through with what he needs to to get down here I believe that is a sighn showing he does not put in enough effort for this and that will have been the second time if he doesn't go through with this sorry to say I give up on him I'll call before I give birth so they can come down but I am done calling and trying for this to work.

2006-11-26 04:25:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have known each other for five years and we've been together for two years. I love him very much and we're both really good for each other. We're planning to move in with each other in about a year and it scares me. I've never lived with anyone else before (I live with my parents) and I don't know what to expect. I know we will fight like every couple does, but what is normal and what isn't? I know it's still a year away but it's on my mind all the time. Does anyone have any answers or suggestions?

2006-11-26 04:24:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you?? Why???
Is your g/f was hit by ur best friend, would you stand up for her or let her fight?? Would you be worried a 17yr old would hurt a 5'1 95lb girl?? Why do you think you have to protect her?? Would you be mad at her for possibly ruining ur friendship or him for hurting her?? His friend was pissed cuz he lost a race to a 16yr old gymnast in a pink porsche. Or so he said. Is it normal for ur b/f to take over and not let you fight. I so wanted to fight, but he said he would and did.

Why do guys feel they have to protect girls?? Is it a kind gesture or way of showing off??

2006-11-26 04:24:36 · 3 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

She would like 30 very short riskay jokes. Any ideas?? Thank you.

2006-11-26 04:23:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just recently broke up with my boyfriend and it is the hardest thing to deal with. Am i the only one that goes through this? How do people stop from picking up the phone every minute because they miss them. He says we are taking a break and hopefully things will work out with us later. WHich means I just wanna go out and have fun with no regrets. WHy do men do this? I know people take breaks from relationships all the time but why is it so hard for me?

2006-11-26 04:23:29 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me about your day. What happened, and how do you feel?

2006-11-26 04:22:39 · 16 answers · asked by davegesprek 1 in Friends