He made move to his state and when I finally got a job over there, he refused to let me use his car to go to work, knowing that I do not have a car of my own yet. For that reason I had to quit my job. He thinks my job is too far and not paying me right yet he refused to help me out financially so that I can pay some bills. I have been living in with him for a month now and I feel like am choking him. Yet, I really like him a lot and was hoping we could work things out. I am planning on moving out of his house soonest. Is that a good idea or should we try and work things out?
2006-11-26 04:34:09 · 6 answers · asked by Baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move out!!! Can't you see this guy is no good to you? He doesn't help you so how can you like him? There are plenty of fish in the sea and you'll eventually find yours. For now...move out, and just keep searching for your man. This is definately not the one!
2006-11-26 04:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by ╦╩╔╩╦ O.J. ╔╩╦╠═ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have a problem on your hands, Since you didnt state your guys ages, your probably both young, First of all its your responibility to pay for your own bills not his so really he has no obligation to pay them or even help you with them. Second you should have had your own transportation to work and not depend on him to take you or even let you use his car.To me reading your question it sounds like you really just need to take responibility for yourself and maybe just go back home to where you lived at,sorry to be so harsh but thats how it sounds to me,As for working it out with him i would just have to say i dont think he is the right guy for you he is controlling and you really need to learn more about being independent and what it takes for a couple to live together. I have been there an done that,besides when you live with someone and are not married you dont get married down the road so it sounds like you guys where just going to be boyfriend and girlfriend forever
2006-11-26 04:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by Big Steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these problems could have been prevented if you two would have talked before you moved in. But this sounds like a control issue. Men with control issues only get worse. Get out (yesterday!) and be glad you know the TRUE him!..move on and find someone fair and loving. Just WAIT to move in with them!
2006-11-26 04:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the sounds of it it seems like this guy wanted to "trap" you and wants you under his almighty control. If it's this soon in the relationship and he's treating you this badly then I'd get out of there before it got any worse. You'll just make yourself miserable. If he cared about you he would do everything he could to help you out. He'd be working things out with you so that you'd be happy... seems like he's the only one happy because he is getting his way.
2006-11-26 04:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by rayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work what out? This isn't a relationship, in a relationship you work together as a couple. You should contact your family, tell them that you made a HUGE mistake and need to come home! Get away from this a$$hole now!
2006-11-26 04:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with u just move out
2006-11-26 04:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋