I am having a baby and me and my boyfriend are both underage I had to move to Arizona to keep the baby for sertain reasons his parents will let him visit me this winter break but he has to get his grades up-failing everything-and pay for half the ticket if he doesn't go through with what he needs to to get down here I believe that is a sighn showing he does not put in enough effort for this and that will have been the second time if he doesn't go through with this sorry to say I give up on him I'll call before I give birth so they can come down but I am done calling and trying for this to work.
2006-11-26 04:25:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yeah it's hard when you need someone to be there for you especially since they are SUPPOSSED to be there for you and they end up flaking out at the last minute every time. Well, give him this one last chance and then if it doesn't happen you'll know. But I would actually have a few words to say to his parents about this. He has to get his grades up and pay half the ticket to see the mother of his future child and their future grandchild? This is BS! They are probably trying to help him grow up so he'll be ready for this when the baby comes but if they'd step back and think it through they'd see how misguided they were. Hon, I'm so sorry. Do the best you can and those who don't get with the program need to go until they're ready to do their part. And you know what? If he does flake out and his parents do become hard to deal with....you can take him to court underage or not and get child support. Haha! If he can't pay it they'll have to at least until he is of legal age. And uh, I'd like to hear them tell a judge that you'll get the child support if he keeps his grades up and he pays for half. You are being mistreated. Don't put up with it. I'll be thinking of you and hoping the best for you and your baby!
2006-11-26 04:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Genevieve 1 · 15⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND LIKE A SMART YOUNG LADY!! JUST REMEMBER HE'S ONLY A BOY, AND HIS FOLKS AREN'T GOING TO PUSH HIM TO DO THE RIGHT THING!! SO HANG TOUGH, TAKE CARE OF YOUR BABY, AND SCREW HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-26 13:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 13⤊ 0⤋