There's a guy at work who I think is cute. He often makes an effort to smile and say hi to me. I want to know if he's a virgin--how do i ask? and how to get him to ask me out...Don't say "ask HIM out" because I don't believe in that, thanks!
2006-11-26 04:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by PrincessButtercup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you have to find out if he is seeing anyone, so you do that by asking him about the weekend, then you say to him, "did you take your g/f out this weekend? You have to assume he is with someone, therefore he will repspond by answering truthfully and he will tell you either yes or no I don't have a g/f....then you let him know that you didn't do much this weekend, and tell him that theres a movie that your dying to see, but that you have no one to go with because your mom cancelled on you last time, and if he is interested he will offer to go to the movies with you. ....now about the virginity, ask him what was the greatest year of his life, more than likely he will respond by reminiscing about his younger wild days. Then you ask why was that year so great, ask if he had found love that year, then ask what was his longest relationship and if it was over 6 months then he is definitely not a virgin.
2006-11-26 04:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by narcsenforcelaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, first, dont ask if hes a virgin at work. wait till you get to know him. and if you want him to ask, you may be in for a bit of a wait, because hes shy, he might not ask. just make sure you give him all the signs, you know, tell him you like him, and all that stuff. then he might ask.
2006-11-26 12:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by acampion2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him signs if you want him to ask you out. As for his virginity, most guys wont admit it even if they were virgins. I think you have to ask about his longest relationship and make assumptions.
2006-11-26 12:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should ask him out
My friend asked a guy out and he said yes
He says he was waiting on her to do the first move because he was too shy and he didn't think he was at her level
It's been a year and they are still together
Try it, you have nothing to lose
2006-11-26 12:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by sMiLeY #10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it matter if hes a virgin or not? spend some time with him while working or on your breaks, sure it takes some time but you'll wait if you want to go out with him. after ask him to hang out after work, be friends with him, ask him stuff, then maybe you'll find out and he'll enjoy your company and ask you out
2006-11-26 12:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to know if he's a virgin? thats very private and personal.
2006-11-26 12:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by MsJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you believe in that? women have a right just as much as men. dont if you dont want to.. but i ope u enjoy a life of being alone.
2006-11-26 12:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your submissive and passive............buck up and just ask him you may never really know for sure if he is a virgin or not... Good Luck!
2006-11-26 12:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him start talk more the peolple who know him and in time you be with him at party ., and where your at a party ask him ...
2006-11-26 12:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by Monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋