i said no at first and he was like think about it and i said would think about it.... but this is making me uncomfortable... what can i say to let him know i am not ready for that just yet?
2006-11-26 04:04:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him the truth, that you're not ready to do it yet. If he keeps persisting, then he's not worth it. Never agree to something you feel isn't right.
2006-11-26 04:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by xander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, be way careful with the exes and buddies element, shop him close whilst he's around his ex. he's enjoying protecting.. maybe he has something to cover? And with the video games, tell him to stop enjoying for a minute, or which you will no longer talk something till he walks remote from the pastime and additionally you have his finished interest. I had a dating based around a video pastime, and the verbal replace between us became undesirable, purely because of the fact we consistently had our noses planted in front of a video demonstrate. there is not any longer something incorrect with suggesting a harm from one yet another, and it we could him recognize which you're somewhat upset approximately how issues panned out. optimistically then he'd be prepared to artwork with you to patch issues up and make issues extra useful between you 2. i'm hoping this helps you, good success.
2016-10-17 13:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you really care about him and that you may want to have sex at some point, but you are just not ready yet. If he starts saying that he wants it now or something like that tell him too bad. Be strong and be cool. If he does some immature jerk guy thing like us guys tend to do, then he is too immature to be with you.
2006-11-26 04:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by daniel g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say exactly what you just said to us. You thought about it and aren't ready yet. Say "Just give me some more time...I'm not ready." he will understand. If he doesn't, you don't want to sleep with him anyway..
2006-11-26 04:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him exactly what you just told us, that you are not ready. If he can't respect that and be with you without involving sex, he doesn't deserve you. Never let a guy pressure you into having sex until you are ready. Don't let him con you into it either. He may even tell you he loves you and wants to marry you, he is a guy and is driven by hormones.
2006-11-26 04:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not ready to have sex, tell him that. If he truly cares about you he will respect that and be patient with you. How he reacts will so you what kind of boyfriend you have. Either he truly cares about you, which means he's a keeper. Or he cares about sex before you, which means he's not a keeper. Good luck.
2006-11-26 05:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart you answer your question. Just tell him that plain and simple that you are not ready for that yet. I didn't check everyone elses answer but I believe I'm just preaching to the choir
2006-11-26 04:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You be honest with him, and tell him, right now, I have things that I want to accomplish, and that is not in my plans right now, I hope that you can accept this, because I like you! I like the idea, that you are thinking on these lines, I wish more young ladies, thought like you. Accomplish your goals, and set them high, and aim for them, now if he can't except your decision, then he is not the one for you!
2006-11-26 04:10:30 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Tell him that you're not ready to take that step yet and if he can't understand that then maybe you need to find someone else who is willing to wait.
2006-11-26 04:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by small one 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that pressuring you about sex is exhibiting uncaring behavior and that you would prefer your first time to be with someone who cares. Tell him you are not ready and you will be the one to let him know when you are!
2006-11-26 04:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋