I always feel like there's something wrong with me because I can only have sex with people I love. How can I change that, if at all? I don't know if I want to, but I feel like I'm in the minority. If my husband said he loved me but was having sex with others, I'd be heartbroken.
2006-11-26 03:58:08 · 5 answers · asked by charleston chew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing wrong with you. Actually, if the world were more like you, there might be less drama. I don't think you should change that. You seem to have a moralistic outlook on things, and when it comes to sex and love. If you are married, then you will have no problem staying faithful...which is a good thing. You take the words "making love" literally...so don't change because the rest of the world doesn't value it. :)
2006-11-26 04:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to change. You may be in the minority but you have morals. That's whats lacking in today's society. I would also be heartbroken if my husband had sex with another that's normal. Stay the way you are, having sex without love isn't you and to change yourself would not be for the good and I think you would regret it.
2006-11-26 12:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by paulamcneil1223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I have been married for almost 7 years now and my husband does not atrtract me sexually anymore...although I do love him. i think that there is a time when the relationsjhip it just cools down and u crave for the excitment of a new lover. Or it is maybe that U like to "use" others for sex without compromise. Either way, you do what best fits you. Just be carefull not to hurt your husband.
2006-11-26 12:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is great news. You should not want to change it. Sex should only be shared by two people that are in love, not something that is done as an alternative to going to the movies. You are great example of how a women should treat her body!!!
2006-11-26 20:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's noble why would you want to do that. Don't change that!
I admire you for that. If you husband did that to you then he's not worth it. You deserve someone better. There's nothing wrong with you. But why are you thinking about this?
2006-11-26 12:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋