My sister and her boyfriend have been dating for over a year and she claims they are happy together. Yet whenever she talks to me or anyone else in my family all we hear is the negatives about him. I think my family would like him more if we heard the positives but I have yet to hear one. Anywho sometime in this year relationship sister was thinking about leaving him. She was all prepared to leave and everything. She had even found a better guy. Her boyfriend got wind of this and proposed to her. With her small brain she said Yes and now there are engaged. She lives with me and used to live with her boyfriend and his parents. He practically lives with me too. He is always over and spends the night. I pay 350(my half the rent) a month to get away from my parents telling me to do this and that. But then I have him in there telling me to do this and that. It is my apt and he dont pay for ****. She is 23, He is 29 and I am 19. I love my sister and sadly am kicking out. She has no job.....
2006-11-26 03:53:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and will not leave him. Rent is due on the 1st of dec and my mom is paying it. She is moving back in with her boyfriend and his parents. What should I do? I feel like I am in there relationship but I want to help her get out.
2006-11-26 03:54:14 · update #1
Wow! You need to try knocking some sense into her. She may love him but if all she has is negatives then he's not the one for her. If you can't get her to understand than let her be, she can learn the hard way. And if her boyfriend doesn't pay for anything, tell him he should or he's not welcome, you don't care if he's with your sister.
2006-11-26 03:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister sounds like a real bimbo, but you sound like you have brains. You are smart to kick them out. You would be better off however if you just stayed out of her love life and let her make her own mistakes. If you interfere then no matter what happens she will blame you for her unhappiness. Just let it go and live your own life.
2006-11-26 11:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. It's almost a lost cause. Ultimately you can not change her. Maybe there's a way you two could get joint counseling. It might help her get some clarity on what needs to be done (dumping him and taking responsibility for her life).
2006-11-26 11:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by solaralley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. First of all, however much u love your sister you need to make it clear to her that it is not fair to u what she is doing.
2006-11-26 11:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋