My "best friend"A. turned out to be a back staber!At first everything was ok and we always had the best of time!We would talk for hours on the phone,had the same tastes,etc;i felt there was a strong connection between us!I knew she was the kind of person that gosips but i didn't know how much.Like any 2girlsfriends we would talk about all sorts of things and people-but i saw it all as a joke!Turns out that the joke was on me cuz i'm 1of the people she gosips about alot!And as if that weren't enough she's always spreding lies about me to people i know and people i don't!She is always exagerating the truth and turning it into a huge lie so that she appeares to be the inocent godess!Not to mention sometimes when she feels like it she treat me like hell!I tried to distance myself from but she is the one that insistes on being friends and she always saying "oh,ur my best friend!I love u" and then 5min laters when i'm not there she talks about me and lies!What do i do?Why does she do this?
2006-11-26 02:29:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
confront her then beat her up
2006-11-26 02:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, to hear your going threw this... For your frist question... You, should tell her how you feel and tell her you know what she is saying about you. You have to confront her... Cause, when you confront her it's going to make her feel guilty inside knowing that you are catching on to her little games. Start making new friend's... Then, she will realize that her act's are making your friendship farther apart, and it's going to make her mad that your going on to other friends. Don't let her get to you. Just smile and say "the joke is on you" The reason she is doing it is because, she know's it is getting to you, and she can get away with it. When she tells you she is your bestfriend and she loves you and you except her apology, she is knowing thinking "oh she will always forgive me so Im going to keep it going"! Just start to make new friends and she will realize what a mistake she is doing to loose a good friend like you.....
Best of luck to you!!!
2006-11-26 02:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by Cherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i to have someone that i thought was my friend and coworker. she and i would talk on instant messenger almost all of the time. she would say things about people and then go back to work saying that i was saying the things that she was saying. i look at it this way, i don't care what these people think of me.i don't owe these people a thing.i don't have to lay my head down with these people at night. so what do i care. but i also know that i have a ace up my sleeve if i ever decide to get back at her or if it comes to be losing my job. as i said these things were said on instant messenger and all i have to do is print it all out and it shows who said what.so, if you do talk to her on instant messenger and you have a printer and want to prove that she is a liar well, print it out.but now that you know that this is an option and you do talk on instant messenger you better be careful as to what you are saying.
2006-11-26 02:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know those kind of ppl myself. They r Trouble with capital "T" and they have a huge pschological problem. The best thing is to confront her, tell her what u think abt her attitude and blot her out of ur life. There's enough trouble in life without unwanted ppl creating more trouble.
2006-11-26 02:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by garfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is being herself and you are being stupid!!! I would tell her to get lost,you don't have to talk to her ,ya know,lets see you can walk away, hang up the phone etc. BUT you should have known if she will talk about someone to you she will talk about you to someone else,anybody knows that.You ask 'what do I do" well first tell her that if all friends were like her you wouldn't need any,and no you are not her friend because your friends has more morals than she has,but you will remember her in your prayers because GOD forgives!
2006-11-26 03:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Janie Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun let her sugar-coated words disguise her hypocrisy..
She sticks to you simply to get the info supplying to her dosage of gossips.. To kick her ***, confront her in front of others. ask her why she is saying untrue things about you. This will force her to explain herself and present the real her.
PS: find a new fren.
2006-11-26 02:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had alot of trouble reading this, could you please put spaces between your sentences???
anyway, i just had to get that out of the way. i think you should decide if she's worth your time, and if she isn't just ignore her and her rumors. eventually she'll get bored with you because you don't respond to them anymore. it might be hard to get through it all, she could really try to pull you down. the only advice i can give you if that happens is get yourself some REAL friends who will stick by you through it all, even if she starts coming after them.
2006-11-26 02:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she just likes stirring up trouble. Maybe she does it to get attention. Find a new friend and stay away from her.
2006-11-26 02:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes your true friend she wouldnt have anything bad at all to say about you at all. sounds like you need to check your friend's list again she doesnt sound like the type of friend i would want
2006-11-26 02:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not worth it bc if she is goiung to do thta to u she needs an attitude check well tell hher to get lost
2006-11-26 02:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by KaThErInE XoX KiTt XoX KaTt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋