For the honest ladies out there to answer.
2006-11-26 02:25:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to intrude (I'm a guy) but I think you need to be more specific about what sort of women you have in mind. I have a bit of experience with women, and I can tell you they each look for different things. Young women tend to be more idealistic (speak about things like "honest, caring, sensitive, handsome, ...") while some more mature women are looking for stability ("commitment, financial stability, supportive, ..."). Only one answer mentions "money" but I think it's naive to not stress that. Most women are looking for a successful, confident guy, who will be able to take care of them (I have never met a woman who didn't love a nice gift). I almost forgot "smart/capable" - woman seem to really like that too.
2006-11-28 04:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Geo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the top 6 things I look for before I even get to the first date:
1. Is he attractive to me? (you may be attractive, but beauty is to be defined by me, not you)
2. Is he easy to get along with? (good conversation, non-argumentative, not a jerk)
3. Sense of humor? (I dislike people who cant take a joke or pick on people in a joking manner that is rude.)
4. Does he seem 'sexy'? (sexiness is a big attraction there)
5. Is his attitude/personality to my liking? (this is where pickiness comes in)
6. Does he have goals? A job? Is he a hard working, honest human being? (I dont want to be with a bum)
I know it sounds like a strict list, so there are usually a range of exceptions depending on the mixture. Hope this helps.
2006-11-26 02:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they don't even KNOW the most important quality until they find it. But i would say, for me, i like honesty and sense of humor. But there are really a lot more. When i met my boyfriend, Right away i knew he was the perfect man for me because he was kind of shy, he was fun, he was cute, honest, he loves animals, but he was Not a vegetarian.
But every womens most important quality is different.
2006-11-26 02:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important quality that a woman looks for in a man is empathy. If a man has empathy, then he is of good character and all of the other desirable attributes (i.e., honesty, humor, intelligence, warmth, etc.) will be evident as well.
2006-11-26 02:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like men that listen, that we have some sort of chemistry (you can tell right off the bat if there is chemistry), like interests (doesn't have to be everything but have to have something in common), I always like to look at a guys eyes. You can tell a lot sometimes. We also like attention - not constant stalker attention. Send her an email or a text letting her know you're thinking about her or having a bad day but you're missing her blah blah. We like little things like that so we know that we're on your mind even when we're not together. help??
2006-11-26 02:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by T C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women date guys who make them feel good.
now, some women feel good with good looking guys, or with bad a s s type... others like the guy is so polite and gentle that it makes them feel good.
personally i like guys who have at least one nice feature about them (physicaly) and who have something interesting (complex, mysterious, very smart, serious)
i dont go for the funny-go-happy-cheerful-oh-joy type ... so forget about the funny... it will only attract people who wanna be friends.. or seeking something casual.. u can be funny after u flirt or something...or drop a joke to catch her attention but not be a clown all the time..so turn off!
2006-11-26 02:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he caring, well mannered, does he practice courtesy.
Is he capable of conversation and leading a conversation if the lady is nervous. Is he intent on having a good time with her and not centered on how she looks on his arm.
More than anything IS HE HONEST>
2006-11-26 02:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by yeller 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I look for in a man is a good sense of humor. I love to laugh and if a man can make me laugh, it is a big turn on.
2006-11-26 02:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by hey culligan man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll jump the gun and answer (though I'm not a lady) - I believe for a long term relationship, women look for trust and faith in their men.
2006-11-26 02:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it depends on the type of women she is and in my opinion she looks for a woman's man, to whom she can trust and share
her sorrows and happiness, to impress women we should think like women,but as it goes women are reffered as chamelions in a man's world because they change the very second and become
bitches.sorry 'bout that.but it's true.
2006-11-26 02:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by yeahitsme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋