Im only 13 and MY mom hates my aunt!! sure my mom has always been the sucesfull one in life you know the homerauma 10,000 sq foot house the 14 acor woods the pace arrow RV, and well then theres my aunt with triplets lives in the middle of texaa in her rv park like thing with so many animals she cant take care of them all! her house is just well a giant mess full of mcdonalds toys! my aunt is really jelous. plus on top of that she is just plain embaressing! she is very loud and she only thinks of herself she is dirty and fat and she lets her triplets run wild! last weekend next to our lot there was a house having an open house next to it and they were planting grass and she parked right on thr grass ON THERE YARD and she wrecked up the grass! they called the police and my mom was so embaressed that she almost started crying!!! i really love my cousins and i want to go see them today! how can i persuade my mom to come to let me see them!!!
2006-11-26 03:34:57 · 5 answers · asked by Meonater 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is complicated! Your mom may not really hate your aunt, but you are probably right that she is very embarrassed by her. You mom may also have a little fear -- it's pretty close to the bone when a first-degree relative is on the skids like that. There are a couple of things you might say to your mom: "Mom, I know it's embarrassing that Aunt so-and-so always seems to have so many problems. But it's not my cousins' fault, and I still want to have a relationship with them." The other thing you might say is that you know it's uncomfortable for your mom to see your aunt and witness her behavior, but you could tell your mom that it really makes you appreciate all you have, and how hard your mom has worked to provide a good life for you. Then say that you'd still like to see your cousins, because after all, they didn't create the situation. See what your mom says. Good luck, and keep being compassionate!
2006-11-26 03:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by meatpiemum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not imagine there is not something you may rather do. Your anut in regulation is the only protecting the grudge. Your mom tried to talk it out and considering your aunt refuses to talk then there is not a lot all people can do. the proper ingredient to do is stay out of it and enable it paintings itself out. She is the only which didn't favor to ask people to a celebration, so what comes round is going round.
2016-11-26 22:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that your mom is the one being selfish, not your aunt. If your mom really cared for your aunt then she wouldn't flash around all the good and expensive things that she has all in your aunts face.
2006-11-26 03:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur mom is being selfish. and she shouldnt be ashamed of her sister. just becasue shes not as rich dosent mean shes not sucessful. Ur aunt seems to do what ever she wants so maybe your mother is jeoulous of her freedom.
2006-11-26 03:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by sockemme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it just their problem not yours. They are adult enough to solve their problems. There will be many reasons behind those you will not understand, so keep continue with your life as well as other children and be happy with your life. It's better for you.
2006-11-26 05:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋