What do you think?Do you think he shouldnt have let her come over to his place?It's quite unacceptable for me

Question

Ok me and my bf went out for only a month.But we were together for a while 5 years ago.We finally patched back when he broke up with his ex in August.We are crazily in love,at least at this moment.He and his ex went out for like 4 years.It's bothering me because 2 yrs ago I met him again and I wanted to be with him.He rejected coz he had this gf.So I gave up coz I didnt wanna steal him from his gf at that time.His ex doesnt like me coz she thinks I tried to steal him.Now she knows that we are together but she still doesnt like me.My bf said she hasnt got over him.We are living in different countries now.Last Friday my bf got really sick and he went to see the doctor.Last night we talked and I found that his ex drove him there and lent him money and,more importantly,she came over to his place.I started to have this headache and heartache...he explained that she accompanied him to buy groceries and sent him home and wanted to make sure hes alright.So she stayed for just a while...

Answer 1

for some reason i think they are still seeing eachother or they are still really close friends. if they didnt end on a sour note, its possible they still like to be friends. i would feel worried too and thats natural. i wouldnt want him allowing her to come over but what can you do when you dont live in the same country?