I dont think it has to take two nice wages to live these days..Where is the breed of men i am searching for.None of you have hardly given me any hope..All you come back with is how pathetic a woman like me is.. All you have done is motivated me to take a pill to sedate myself..How pathetic have some of your answers been..I did not think i was a loser..
2006-11-26 03:44:15 · 11 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah,sweetheart you a are a pathetic,self hating sort of a human being.start loving people around you n someone'll definitely fall for you.
2006-11-26 04:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by glamdoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked at the answers to your previous question and apart from a couple who are just mean hearted morons, they were mostly sensible, honest, well-meaning answers. Seriously, if you feel you're not smart enough - get an education. If you didn't finish school then go to an adult re-entry secondary college and finish. If you finished but haven't studied further then work out what interests you and do it! Everyone is intelligent in some way - you may not be 'book-smart' but perhaps you are good at communication or making people feel better, or maybe you're artistic... I don't know but there must be something you're interested in! And as for finding a man to look after you and your kids, I think ANYONE would find that difficult no matter how 'smart' they are. These days it takes a lot more money to support a family and most families have both parents working - men are not so keen these days to give up all their hard-earned money for the family when the woman could be working too - ESPECIALLY when it's not even his kids. I suggest you work on finding a kind, loving man who adores you and your kids and THEN work out who's supporting who. If your relationship is based on love in the first place he will be much more likely to be ok with supporting you financially because he will know you are there for love, not his money. I hope everything works out for you but you may just have to bite the bullet and get a job for yourself - that's the way the world works, I'm afraid : )
2006-11-26 18:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry about your problem, but it kinda takes a weak minded person to let someone elses words force them into the need to be sedated.
If you are a good smart woman, you dont NEED a man in your life.
2006-11-26 11:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you like yourself ?
Don`t get discouraged ?
Find out about yourself and go on that trip to find yourself, you
may be surprised, It is hard work- but it is worth it.
And finally you will surprise others and they will like you .
If it does not work , try to get help from professionals.
Writing a diary may help - and don´t forget to cultivate a
hobby whehre you can express yourself and never forget
to laugh - also about youself. All the best.
2006-11-26 11:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by rgarlik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH...thats deep. Not wanting to be rude, but maybe Yahoo Answers is not where you should be considering there are a lot of mean people out there who will say things to make you feel bad/worse. Maybe you should see professional help or have a chat with a good girlfriend. good luck.
2006-11-26 11:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by frha75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense meant, but from the wording of your last few questions, you dont seem to take guys very seriously, do you really think thats all were here for? We aint cash machines, and we sure as hell arnt doormats, i think its only fair to expect a guy to take care of his partner and offspring, but you have to input into the relationship as well.
its not up to the guy to bring everything to the table, we live in expensive times, and equal oppourtunity times at that. But its not just the monetary aspect.
You speak about trying to find a man to take care of you, do you plan on taking care of him too?. my question to ask you, is what do you plan on bringing into your future relationships? Please dont take this as an insult, because i dont mean it that way, it just seems your being very old fashioned, and yes, selfish too. But unfortunately this type of thinking still exists in our world.
2006-11-26 12:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what your qust...was but just move to a new town if the men there think they are better than you ..just remember you are your own person love you for you an then they will see they where wrong never give up it takes time
2006-11-26 11:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for everyone. You're not a loser. You just need some self confidence.
2006-11-26 11:46:17 · answer #8 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just want to sit on your big butt and let the guy support you. Who needs a lazy good for nothing
2006-11-26 11:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
By WHO'S opinion are you not smart enough???
2006-11-26 11:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋