Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

okay my boyfriend and me just broke up three days ago. but before we broke up he told his friend that he really luv me and that he really want to be with me. then he said that he don't want to break up. But his xgurlfriend called my phone and tried to click on me but i wasn't goin and i clicked back. but after that he called and he said that he is getting tried of this and he said that i called her but i didn't. then he was talkin about how much he don't want ot break up. he asked me if we break up will i go back with him do u think i should call him and talk to him. i don't know what to stay to him what should i say please help!!!! i really do luv him

2006-11-26 15:04:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are some clear signs that a girl would do to show she is interested or like you

2006-11-26 15:03:50 · 5 answers · asked by chinkie 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been best freinds with this kid for 8 years now and last year he got a gf and they have been dating ever since.. it started out cool, with all of us hanging out together having fun. and about a month ago they had sex and now she is a complete ***** to me and is his little puppet, she went from having her own views to following him, and he is just a total cynical *** to me, ike i am lesser of a person bc i havent had sex yet.. why????

2006-11-26 15:03:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK well today was the worst day ever.My gf tells me its over on a message today.Then i try to call her she hang up.So then i have my sister call.Shes on the phone and my well ex gf now is saying all these things that i ahve never done or heard before i then find out that my best freind of 8 years is telling her all this.I could not belive it for the life of me.I then tell her i want nothing to do with her my best freind.And im am sobbing then i find out that one of my other freinds for 6 years wants to kick my *** because someone tells her that i said she was a slut and so on which i never did.But the main thing is that i want to be with this girl forever i want to live with her have a life together i need her back some of the things that were going around were that i cheated on her and called this other girl all the time telling i love her and crying to her saying i want to be with her tose arent true.I need help bad help me get her back how do i.i want her back ill do anything

2006-11-26 15:03:35 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley N 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 15:03:19 · 17 answers · asked by char p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so theres this girl i like and i just got to the point where we're talking on the phone alot... but it's always kinda quiet, and i'm really shy and can't think of stuff to talk about on the spot. HELP!!!

2006-11-26 15:03:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay if my friends locked me outside with nothing on except for atowel, jeweled thong and a purple laced bra.would you help me or bring me to your place..................
(i think my friends r going to do this to me i'm still confused!?)

2006-11-26 15:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by dani 2 in Singles & Dating

my bestfriend and i have been friends for over 6 years and now we are 18 and its time to move out only thing is when we were 17 she had a baby!! i love my god son to death but i dont wanna move in with my bestfriend now that she has a baby becuz its to much responsiblity!! am i wrong?? i just wanna enjoy life and live on the edge and with a baby we can hang out or kick it if a baby is involved!!!

2006-11-26 15:01:31 · 6 answers · asked by prece88 1 in Friends

Well, what i mean is...

For me (and some people i know), when i turned 18, i really wanted to be that "independent" who was capable of doing anything and didn't need anybody's help..

Now that I'm getting older, i realize that when i was 18, i didn't know ANYTHING...i'm 20 years old and i still feel like i don't know alot but i still crave for that independence and control...I heard it's not until 21 is when you really START to understand things...you don't get the gist of everything completely but it's the beginning of some clarifying

What do you think?

2006-11-26 15:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this particular female colleague... She's married with a child but still a veru sexy lady... Always on Saturday afternoon, she will come to the 2nd floor of where my office is and locked the door to the 2nd floor and change her clothes infront of me. My window panel is those in black whereby inside can see out, but outside can't see in. Anyway, she will just stripped infront of it... (She doesn't know I'm in there, and my door is always close) Or did she realised I was in, n did it purposely? What should I do? She was damn sexy and I can't help looking at her... but she was married...

2006-11-26 15:01:16 · 2 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my wife have been living seperately for more then one and a half year because of cruelty and violence on her part. Recently, she gave her approval for applying for divorce under mutual consent but when i got the petition prepared from the advocate, she refused to sign it saying that I could go through any legal procedure to get divorce but she would not sign the papers voluntarily. I have a few doubts:
1. Can I apply for legal seperation?
2. After the one year period of legal seperation, how would I be able to prove that we had not cohabited (had intercourse) during the seperation period, so that I can apply for divorce on this ground?
3. I am in love with another woman whom i wish to remarry after divorce with my present wife. The problem is; I have undergone vasectomy and am incapable of having a child by normal means. Not that the woman I intend to marry now has any qualms about it; she loves me enough to understand this. The question is; can I still remarry under indian law?

2006-11-26 15:01:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy on a blind date and while we were talking his cell phone goes off and he says, "Hang on a minute" and proceeds to answer the call and starts talking to his friend about sports while I sat there. So I simply got up and left. This is the first time I've ever walked out on a date, and I hated to do it, but I was so insulted! It seemed very disrespectful. If he wasn't interested in me, that's fine, but I think you can at least treat the other person with kindness and respect. Do you think I did the right thing?

2006-11-26 14:59:54 · 17 answers · asked by sadinLA 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 14:59:38 · 12 answers · asked by TinyAngel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

However, she uses me as the doll. Every Sunday she invites her girlfriends around to watch her dress me up in different women's outfits. Is this normal behavour? I really love her and don't want to leave her, is this just something I have to accept to be with her?

2006-11-26 14:59:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband recently went on a internet search for one of his old girlfriends. He told me about it but when I asked why he was doing that he seemed to get quite defensive. She lives in another state and is married, but I find it kind of odd for him to all of a sudden have this desire to reconnect with someone that has been out of his life for over 30 years. Am I just being jealous?

2006-11-26 14:59:24 · 18 answers · asked by Jade Dragon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if i like someone and i never really talked to them

2006-11-26 14:59:17 · 1 answers · asked by hossainatiya 2 in Singles & Dating

What do guys like about girls?
Do you think glasses are cute or no.
Short or Tall?
Dumb or Smart?
Please help me!

2006-11-26 14:59:12 · 8 answers · asked by miriya101 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to get a special gift for my husband and daughter. It needs to be something that they can do together. they are so close, but now that my daughter has gotten a boyfriend, she is always at his house. My husband misses her very much. I would like to get a gift certificate to some activity they can do together for a day, or so. I wonder if there were other 17 year old young ladies that love to spend quality time with their fathers and what they like to do.
Thank you for your help.

2006-11-26 14:57:19 · 16 answers · asked by sandilo 2 in Family

i just broke up with my live-in boyfriend of 5 years. i think i made the right decision, but i get really jealous thinking about the fact that soon he'll be dating other girls. i get so jealous and angry when i think about this that sometimes i consider getting back together with him just to keep him away from other girls. how can i feel better about this? i'd love to hear from other people who ended long-term, serious relationships. is this feeling a sign that i made the wrong choice?

2006-11-26 14:56:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need to know!

2006-11-26 14:56:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a (almost) five year old lil' girl. Her father and I split up when she was three. If it wasn't for her I wouldn't mind if he fell off the face of the earth in any matter concerning me but my girl loves her daddy and I don't have any inclination to deprive her of him. I don't talk badly about him in front of her. I maintain a civilized, polite attitude when all 3 of us are together. I even invited him to go with us to her 1st time at Disneyland on my b-day. He has given me every reason and more to dislike, distrust & lose any respect I ever had for him. There are no custody "bindings" in place, yet. I told him I had a concern about not knowing where he lives (therefore where my daughter lives when she's w/ him) except that it's quite close. If there were some kind of accident I wouldn't know how to get there. He replied it's not an issue. WHAT?!?! Am I the only person (because I am extremely biased on this issue) that thinks this is outrageous?

2006-11-26 14:55:21 · 10 answers · asked by frustration 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know that men look at other woman and I also know that women definitely look at other men but there is a distinct difference between a quick glance and a flat out disrespectful, lustful, head to toe, more than 3 second stare. I’ve been dating someone special for about 10 months now. I’ve noticed him on several occasions looking at other women in my presence but the most recent episode while leaving the movie theatre struck me to pose this question. Is staring at the opposite sex in the company of your date, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancé, husband or wife disrespectful or should it simply be ignored? In the past, it really didn’t bother me because I’m successful, I’m confident; I believe that I am an attractive 29 yr old African-American female and I am a model for crying out loud. I understand that pretty woman capture his attention from time to time and that was me about 10 months ago. I hope and pray that I am still “The One” but needless to say, we ended a nice night out at the movies with an argument and we haven’t spoken in more than 24 hours now. His roaming eyes even caught the attention of my brother and his girlfriend who accompanied us at the movies. I was embarrassed, I felt ugly (temporarily), and ended up very angry. So I ask again, is staring at the opposite sex in the company of your date, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancé, husband or wife disrespectful or should it simply be ignored?

2006-11-26 14:55:13 · 17 answers · asked by 1DivineSistuh 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 14:54:48 · 10 answers · asked by Bill H 3 in Singles & Dating

i already talked to him and told him that it hurts my feelings,but he just yells,I DONT CARE!!!,and i ask him wats wrong and he says nothing wrong, i know he doesnt like me nothing more then a friend because he likes a certain girl,and i really dont know,please help again

2006-11-26 14:54:20 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

Do you think if there wasn't such an emphasis on masculinity and femininity, there wouldn't be homosexuality"?
Or such a stress on gender roles their would be gay?
Or boys mocking the effemint boys?

2006-11-26 14:53:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some new lingo

2006-11-26 14:53:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please tell me if this is jealousy, to me it's more like anger or frustration. A guy (A)has never met another guy (B). Both of them know a woman. A starts to say negative things about B after hearing a few things about B. A even gets angry because he can't make this woman believe in his negative comments on B. Please tell me what you think of this case. Is this jealousy or merely anger? What are the common signs of jealousy? Normally I'm not very good at reading emotional signs. Your help is greatly appreciated.

2006-11-26 14:52:21 · 7 answers · asked by claire d 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a married man. We are best friends. As feelings were growing,i though that he will get divorced. but he has not. i finally confront him and he told him i was pushing him away and he confessed that he wasnot proud about the fact that he has not been truthful to himself about his emotions and feelings,but that he has been scared of dealing with it. what should i do if i am deeply in love with him? i am sure he is not the kind of guy who is a player and he has said he loves me.

2006-11-26 14:52:21 · 40 answers · asked by confuse06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hat should i get for my b/f when he comes to see me??

2006-11-26 14:52:07 · 8 answers · asked by stephanie v 2 in Singles & Dating

my two best freinds (a guy and a girl) lol have been together for almost a year and a half now and they started to have sex, hes being such an asshole and acting so differently to me like im some piece of trash? why? btw were all about 17 18 years old

2006-11-26 14:52:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships