Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

The guy I'm dating right now is 5 years older than me and had much more experience. For example, i'm still a virgin and he's definetly not. He knows I want to wait (not till marriage necessarily- just until I'm ready) and he always tells me he would never pressure me and he'll wait, ect...

but then sometimes when we're getting into it and I stop him, he gets really quite and just doesn't say anything. It seems like he's thinking so I ask him what he's thinking about and it's always nothing.

I don't know how to decipher his quiteness. I need to see this from the male prespective- Is he as okay with this as he says he is? how would you guys feel if you're used to sex but the girl won't go that far? And what is he thinking at those times of quiteness? You don't have to answer all of these necessarily, but thanks for reading :-)

2006-11-26 15:19:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay everyone knows that a girl is very nervous when having sex 4 the 1st time.and lets just say you want ( this time) to be a little interesting. what would you have your gf wear when doing it ?

2006-11-26 15:18:58 · 9 answers · asked by dani 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 15:18:49 · 18 answers · asked by ingahauks 2 in Family

How do you know if a guy is really worth your time.

2006-11-26 15:18:36 · 11 answers · asked by Nena 2 in Singles & Dating

OK before you make any opoinions about this please hear me out.

I love my husband...we have been together for 14 years and married for 7. In the past we have had the on again off again relationship but for the past 3 years we have been solid.

I love him I really do...but he is more like the little brother that I never had. He is honestly my best friend.

But he is LOUSY in bed. Sometimes it's so bad that I just tell him to stop. I won't cheat...we have a little boy and I couldn't ruin his family because I am not happy. That's wrong...

Anyone else with this probem...any advice?

2006-11-26 15:17:47 · 22 answers · asked by Susan S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't understand why i'm like this.. i meet a guy and i think way too much.. if we make a cute couple what will my friends think. . what will my family think.. and i havent even met the guy.. i try not to think about these things.. but somehow i always do

2006-11-26 15:17:06 · 5 answers · asked by coqueta19 2 in Singles & Dating

I'd really like to hear. And no one will think you're shallow, and if they do, who cares?

2006-11-26 15:16:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont understand ...I would like a guy to approach me but it seems like all they do is stare at me. My friends say guys look at me all the time, but how come none will actually approach me. Im not ugly and im pretty outgoing is it that they are intimidated ?

2006-11-26 15:16:13 · 7 answers · asked by jan11322003 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so this guy that really flirts with my a lot but im not sure. hes always stealing my pencil and asking me things. i dunno but this guy thats his friend asked me who i liked and he started guessing and he guessed the right dude and i said ummm and then hes like well he only dates 8th graders when me and him our 7th and so now i dont no what 2 do??? should i believe him and just moveon?

2006-11-26 15:15:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is very kind and he loves me very much. I appreciate him. But in recent days, I fall in love with a man on a dating sites, he is a nice courteous person and have a wonderful sence of humor. I am in a dilemma situation. Btw, I came across this man on www.millionairematch.com/i/romance.

2006-11-26 15:15:38 · 17 answers · asked by chloe s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-26 15:15:26 · 23 answers · asked by 2cool4fools 1 in Family

My ex left me for another girl.

When that girl went out of town, my ex and I ended up having sex again. My ex keeps telling me "I miss you" and "I want you back" but won't do anything about it.

I finally let my ex's new girlfriend know that we had sex.

Now my ex has threatened suicide unless I kill myself.

What the **** am I supposed to do???

2006-11-26 15:14:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i guess my next step is this do i wait until the holiday is over or do i tell hime to go now.i know that hell use our6nyear old age leveragebut really i just want to move on.hes become so grumpy antisocial and isnt doing much more than feeling sorry for himself.he stated that he wouldnt contest the divorce,but i dont know if i can believe that,how does the process begin where to start and how long does it take to be over?we have a home that would have to be sold i couldnt do it for long on s.s.d.and who knows if hell ever get a job so what ever profit if made from the house will have to subsidize my monthy income.I just cant stomach the betrayel or broken promises anymore and need a little advice on where to go from here.i amfed up with the way he yells at our6 year old who is frightned by these explosion that happen at even shower time,not physicall,just im gonna it kind of pisses me off,i know every child has to learn boundries and im working very hard on it.

2006-11-26 15:14:12 · 3 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girl friend who has this serious problem recently. She was the only child of the family and both her parents love her alot. Her parents are also very loving towards each other. Just last Saturday, her mum had went overseas due to business trip and she was left alone with her father. While she was bathing, her father peeps at her through the opening gap of the door (It was locked though). Her father even unlocked her bedroom door while she was changing and sleeping. But his excuse was just getting something in the room. (He did take something in there though). She was so scared and dared not return home since then. She came over to my house to stay. Anyway, she dared not tell her mum when she's back on Sunday as she scare they might quarrel, or worst still, divorce because of this. Whats' the advice needed in order not to let her father did this again, and not ruin her family relationship too

2006-11-26 15:14:09 · 16 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

this as a christmas present? Its a gift for my girlfriend =P
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2006-11-26 15:13:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like colone or something more........... something else.
If so what brands are best?

2006-11-26 15:13:02 · 34 answers · asked by Bob Chaves 2 in Singles & Dating

When was the last time you cried?

What was it about?

2006-11-26 15:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever gotten it so much that you johnson was sore and raw in spots? And before you cry S T D all my girls are clean my doctor has given my a thumbs up on that. He said that I just am getting it too much.

2006-11-26 15:11:50 · 14 answers · asked by The Tramp Collector 2 in Singles & Dating

was just wondering what girls think of guys that are very feminine. maybe as boyfriends or just as friends. yea, i'm like very very feminine and was just wondering what girls might say. thanks so very much :)

2006-11-26 15:10:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"I'm her b!tch"?

2006-11-26 15:10:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So often, when men are asked questions, their reply is, 'I don't care, 'It's doesn't matter, 'You decide.' Sometimes they can seems so indecisive, when all we want is one real answer. Does this mean that they really don't care, or is it just a way of not having to make a decision about something?

2006-11-26 15:10:18 · 17 answers · asked by Rose D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 14 and have been dating my b/f for almost a year (he's 15). I just found out that he's been having a secret thing with one of my best friends. It wasn't anything physical more of a big flirtation where they were sending each other sexy e-mails and IM's and even notes and talking about what would happen if him and I ever broke up (he went out with her before he went out with me, but they were like 13 and 14 and it only lasted four months). I feel SO betrayed and now I find out it's not the first time he's done something like this. I don't know what to do. I love him and he swears he still loves me and doesn't want to lose me, but now I can't trust him. Worst thing I gave him part of me that I won't get back and I don't understand how he could do this to me.

2006-11-26 15:10:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and the boy have been going out for 1 1/2 years and we have told each other that we love each other and all that and during our realasonship we never had sex. but it was a good realasonship and we broke up a few times but i couldnt be with out him for long than a week and i felt so bad by going out wiht somebody else so we ended up going back out and i thought he felt the same way about me and it seemed like our realasonship was going down there drain so i said i would have sex with him think that it would make every thing better but it and it worse and we broke up and its been 3 months and i still cant get over him and we ever we are around his friends he treats me like i am a stranger but when we are are alone he is so sweet abd loving i dont understand and i try So Hard to get over him but i cant and he talks to other girls but if he finds out i am talking to another boy he gets pissed off and i dont understand why he is like that and i just need some advice about wht to do?!?!

2006-11-26 15:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by ocn2bfw 1 in Singles & Dating

What's too soon, what's a good length of time?

2006-11-26 15:09:00 · 16 answers · asked by Chavahleah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-26 15:08:17 · 7 answers · asked by LB James 3 in Singles & Dating

i went to my bf's house to pick up our daughter well his brothers gf pulls in infront of me she gets out and gos in and i go in right behind her bye the time i get in the house she is talking to his mom so i dont say hi to her or nothing well my bf asked me why i did not say hi to her i told him that if he wanted me ta say hi to her ta do it for me and then i told him that she was talking to his mom and i wasnt gonna interrupt he said he just thoguht that it was rude and this is not the first time this has happened was i rude or what and she did say something to him back in the summer about me not saing hi to her whats with this and she is insecure

2006-11-26 15:07:47 · 2 answers · asked by Jeannie T 3 in Singles & Dating

One of the guys at my work ALWAYS touches my right ear everytime I see him. Either on the top or inside. What does that mean? OR is he just weird like that

2006-11-26 15:06:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is a girl in my church that i really like. This morning we finally did a little bit of talking. she was getting the kids ready for a program that we are having at church In a little room. i asked her if i could come in and she said yes. She told me that that's her first time seeing me talk. I ALSO NOTICED THAT SHE WAS A LITTLE SHY IN FRONT OF ME. SHE WAS RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME IN THE ROOM. AFTER A WHILE SHE MOVED in the corner next to me where I could'nt see her. when we got out she told me that she liked a car that i have. and started talking about what kinda car she wanna get after she graduates from highschool. while we where at church someone brought her senior pictures and she came to me asking me if she looks pretty in the pictures. The interesting part!! when we where getting ready to leave she asked me for my phone and called her mom to tell her that she has a ride home. She asked me if i could take her home. and i took her home. What can i do next? Do you guys think i...

2006-11-26 15:05:52 · 15 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Singles & Dating

I have one family member who enjoys scaring their own children, And mine. what makes people scare little kids? what do i do?

2006-11-26 15:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by freddie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do u think it's the best way for an introvert like me to meet girls? If not where is the most appropriate place?

2006-11-26 15:04:41 · 9 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating