Please tell me if this is jealousy, to me it's more like anger or frustration. A guy (A)has never met another guy (B). Both of them know a woman. A starts to say negative things about B after hearing a few things about B. A even gets angry because he can't make this woman believe in his negative comments on B. Please tell me what you think of this case. Is this jealousy or merely anger? What are the common signs of jealousy? Normally I'm not very good at reading emotional signs. Your help is greatly appreciated.
2006-11-26 14:52:21 · 7 answers · asked by claire d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heres the definition of Jealousy:
Jealous resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success or advantage, etc., or against another's success or advantage itself.
In my point of view, it looks like person A is jealous, mainly because he is trying to convince the women on another person's negative things. Normally a non-jealous person wouldn't do that. They would.. basically, not care.
I don't think i made sense...but i hope it helped!
2006-11-26 14:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Shortii. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends greatly on what these comments were, and what the nature of your (I'm assuming you're the woman in the scenario) relationship is with these guys.
Personally I don't believe in using the term "jealousy". It's a generic term for a whole lot of negative emotions that we experience when our insecurities get in the way. I find that it is counterproductive to just pitch those feelings into the "Jealousy Bin". We should do the opposite, actually. Dump out your jealousy bin on the floor and start sorting out what those feelings are. Give each feeling you find a name and figure out where it came from. Whose fault is it, really? Who is responsible for changing it? The best place to start is with one's self. Change what you can about yourself to become the person you know you should be. Once you know yourself inside and out and come to terms with exactly who you are, you will find it much easier to deal with the rest of the world - which you have a lesser ability to change.
2006-11-27 12:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is jealousy and if he is like that after onlylearning a few things than get out.
He will only get worse as he learns more about Mr B. and how close youtwo really are.
Some men can not get it into their heads that you can have great friends of the oppisite sex
2006-11-26 14:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by G L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy! Plain and clear! Jealous people will go to any length to try and prove they are in the right. Angry people usually will just have a giant outburst of the way they feel and won't keep milking it.
2006-11-26 15:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Janine E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say frustration. Jealousy, I think you would know....
He or she would make remarks, try to keep you away from
other people...and sometimes, people are jealous of you, me...
Because they do not have what we have.
If you had a real jealous boyfriend or girlfriend, they would more than likely make your life miserable.....can you just imagine getting married to someone like that.
Wishing you and you a Happy Holiday!!
2006-11-26 15:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after readin the first 3 lines, i can tell u its male ego n jealousy.
2006-11-26 14:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are just frustrated.if she doesnt belive you,ur frustrated.try ur best
2006-11-26 14:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by tinker94bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋