Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

What is it I can do for people when they ask me what I want for christmas, it really bothers me to tell them anything I want. It's not that I hate christmas it's just I always feel so horrible during the season because everyone seems to give gifts and recieve gifts and people give me gifts too but I just feel like I have nothing to give back and as if I don't deserve their gift. Now I'm not sure exactly what I'm asking for from you guys may just a kind word but I just know I'm being bothered by the holidays once more and can't figure out why. I want to get people things but I never feel like I could get what they want and when people get me things I enjoy it that they thought of me and I get mad because I hate having to accept a gift that I just dont deserve. Please just somebody give me something to work with, for the people in my life to make them happy.

2006-11-26 15:41:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

SHOULD I MARRY HER?plz help

2006-11-26 15:41:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl in my family is ALWAYS picking on me whenever i'm around her. she doesn't talk to me, she ignores me, and acts like i don't matter or exist or that i'm not important. this used to not bother me at all, but for the past few years it's really taken its toll on me. i've gained weight, become bulimic, started smoking and drinking heavily, and i've lost half the vision in my right eye from stress! what do i do? she will not leave me alone no matter what, and whenever i try to ignore her, it doesn't matter, she picks on me anyway---in fact, even more! i do not want to die, but i don't want to live my life this way anymore, either. i just want things back to the way they used to be, when she didn't matter in my life. most of the time i have trouble sleeping, too. when i wake up she's on my mind, and when i go to bed she's on my mind. i've tried eveything

2006-11-26 15:40:21 · 12 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Family

to know if you wouldn't mind doing it if he made a move?

2006-11-26 15:40:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how you will know if the boy is in love to you?
even he has a shy type boy.

2006-11-26 15:39:43 · 3 answers · asked by -Fix_mEh-iM_brOkEn- 1 in Singles & Dating

why is that so .. i mean i'm not into these concept.. i just wear eyeliner coz it simply looks better on me ..

i get the emo n goth comment all the time and it annoyes me to no end.. :(

2006-11-26 15:39:17 · 19 answers · asked by Nat B 1 in Singles & Dating

Any love song that just really means something to you? why?

2006-11-26 15:39:02 · 14 answers · asked by noname446 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-26 15:38:23 · 12 answers · asked by PWQ 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a great guy: handsome, smart, has his own house, etc. He says he loves me and is the 'luckiest guy in the world to have found me.' BUT, he's starting to take me for granted a lot lately.

First, I was not feeling well and he said he was going to come over and see if I needed anything and to make sure I was ok. He went out with his friends instead and got stinking drunk and mad at me later in the evening when I refused to come to his place because I was sick.

Second, he always asks me to come over and spend time with him and when I do I end up watching TV alone or eating alone upstairs because he's playing video games on his computer downstairs.

Third, he refuses to come to my place (double-bed and clean dishes) because he doesn't 'like' it, so I always end up going to his place which is a literal bachelor pad (dirty dishes and a single bed to boot).

He makes promises all the time but never follows through (promising dinner and then going out with friends instead).

2006-11-26 15:38:05 · 14 answers · asked by Meg 1 in Singles & Dating

So how do I break the news to my t r a m p s that I have become emotionally attachted to one of you lovely ladies here on Y answers? Oh and do you think I sould tell my wife?

2006-11-26 15:37:35 · 5 answers · asked by The Tramp Collector 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my boyfriend had some problems before but we made up and we were doing good and then today at church he ignored me he didn't even say anything he didn't sit by me or anything. All he did was gave me a kiss and hug goodbye but my lil sister said something to him and i think that made him mad should i call him and see what was wrong with him or just give him sometime to cool down.

2006-11-26 15:37:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guiz like implants or natural boobs.

2006-11-26 15:36:50 · 17 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy online, so I don't want to go somewhere too private.
And since it's a first date, it should be fairly short, should we just do coffee or something?

2006-11-26 15:36:20 · 5 answers · asked by roxy 4 in Singles & Dating

he had no family there her parents were killed for superstition believes,and now she should stay with her husband's family but that family plan to do a genital mutilation for her to protect her from prostitution during her separation with her husband. please i need advice.

2006-11-26 15:35:54 · 3 answers · asked by miss b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The phrase ' broken heart ' . . . In the past when someone I'd cared for hurt me deeply, why did my heart literally hurt. Felt like heart was being squeezed and heart literally hurt. I know the heart is muscle and when a muscle is tensed the sensation of the muscle might actually hurt. But, why when hurtful love emotions are felt that the head (brain) does'nt hurt or the stomach ? Is there something to the heart itself hurting when love hurts? And, have you experienced this...the heart literally hurting from emotional love hurt? Erriee.

2006-11-26 15:35:24 · 8 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have used KY and Astroglide in the past but would like to try something new. Any ideas are appreciated; rude remarks are not. Thanks!

2006-11-26 15:34:34 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, if a woman is size "A" cup, do you prefer her natural or enhanced? Also, state your age if you don't mind.

2006-11-26 15:34:28 · 14 answers · asked by Saundra L 2 in Singles & Dating

i just wrote about guys that are very feminine being friends. thanks so much to all the girls that wrote back. that was so sweet. would luv it if i could chat with any girls. i have so many questions you could help me with.... about so many girly things. thanks so very much :)

2006-11-26 15:33:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't, though I do beleive in "lust at first sight"

2006-11-26 15:33:19 · 14 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

match.com yahoo. eharmony cupid don't seem to work and i see the same profiles for over 6 years

2006-11-26 15:33:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy at my work i really like..im confused because there are signs that he likes me too but im not sure if the signs are what i think they are... here are the signs...

* He knew my name when i never told him
* He asked 4 my mobile number
* He always smiles and says hello to me
* He invited me to his 21st party even though we werent close and wouldnt let me go home
* texts me in the sweetest ways
* calls me sweetie/cutie
* says his been thinking about me
* when i asked him out on the weekend he said he couldnt because he had work, but asked me to accompany him at his friends bday party dat friday night after work
* texted me letting me know his going on a holiday..

theres many more, im confused because im not sure if he likes me, my friend talks to him about me, he told me he doesnt feel comfortable talking to my friend about me because he finds it more affective if he told it to me himself =)
plz help..i dont know if he likes me...should i make the first move?

2006-11-26 15:32:48 · 12 answers · asked by sWeeTcHe11 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering, how do you fell about it, and like have you faced a lot of sturggiles with this in your life?

2006-11-26 15:32:30 · 19 answers · asked by Aaron 3 in Family

it sounds so sick. at first, it was a thought that horrified me. it scared me because i though about him dwelling on it for life, and i though about how eas it could be happening here. it also reminded me how close he comes with death.

but i've started to think about it alot. i think about him coming home to me, after a day on the killing fields, soaked with blood, and taking me. i fantasize i am an iraqi woman, and he has made me a widow, and now he has come to take what was once the wife of the man he has killed. in my dream, i'm torn between love and hate. in reality, i just want him home.

am i going crazy or what?

2006-11-26 15:32:19 · 23 answers · asked by carol h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 15:32:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or get it while the gettin's good? And PLEASE, I'm 30 years old, I don't need any mission statement on unwanted pregnancy and/or STDs. Spare me the lecture. This question is purely a spiritual and emotional one.

2006-11-26 15:31:58 · 18 answers · asked by TheOneVersion3.0 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 15:31:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my boyfriend for awhile now and we say i love you back and forth but i havent really told him how much he means to me. At first when we started dating i figured that it was going to be a two week relationship like all of my other relationships were. But time went on and we are still together. I never used to be able to look him in the eye, but now i look him in the eyes and i just get this feeling that i cant explain. Everyone around me has always been guy obsessed going over board, telling a guy they just started dating that "You mean everything to me and I love you so much" so i have learned from them to never get ahead of yourself. I want to tell my boyfriend how he makes me feel inside and that he means a great deal to me, i just dont want to be like other people, i dont want to let my guard down even if i finally fell in love with someone, i think i m scared. I dont kno wat to do. Should i tell him how i feel deep inside or wait longer? Thanks for any advice.

2006-11-26 15:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by tubbychubbypp 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright there is this guy I really like but I don't know how to tell him. He is one of the most popular guys in school, and I am not all that popular. I'm not really that good of friends with him, so I'm terrified thinking about telling him. What do I do?

2006-11-26 15:29:44 · 9 answers · asked by freakishrockstar 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 15:29:42 · 9 answers · asked by Ang'l 1 in Singles & Dating

I love doctors.

I can breath again, I just got my inhaler, Albutherol.
at 6am I could not breath and had to be rushed to the hospital.
Once there I was given some sort of inhalant. Took ex-rays. Made mom cry.

it's because of a cold. I should have listend to my heart, it was beating pretty hard and I was forcing air into my lungs. Took dayquil, stuff doenst work on lung infections.

but Im fine now, Im back at the dorm and I taking my health seriously. In so scared, I live on the 4th floor and nearly had a black out coming up the stairs...we have no elevator.

two kids died already this year. A freshman and a senior. You dont know what its like getting that email..Student death.

I was afraid that was gonna be me.

thank you Jesus. Im alive. As $hitty as life is , Im alive. I may moan and groan, but just like you I want my chance at life. I must have 9 lives. and Ive never been hospitalized beyond birth. Amazing.

thanks for reading....
what do you think?

2006-11-26 15:29:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships