it sounds so sick. at first, it was a thought that horrified me. it scared me because i though about him dwelling on it for life, and i though about how eas it could be happening here. it also reminded me how close he comes with death.
but i've started to think about it alot. i think about him coming home to me, after a day on the killing fields, soaked with blood, and taking me. i fantasize i am an iraqi woman, and he has made me a widow, and now he has come to take what was once the wife of the man he has killed. in my dream, i'm torn between love and hate. in reality, i just want him home.
am i going crazy or what?
2006-11-26 15:32:19 · 23 answers · asked by carol h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you're not going crazy. i think that you just miss your husband, and honestly, instead of him getting killed, you would rather him kill the other people and come home to you. thats not being crazy, thats more fearing for your husband's life and missing him........
2006-11-26 15:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Fantasies are just fantasies and you have too much time on your hands, so why wouldnt your brain make up more interesting stories to compensate WITH as much testosterone he-man involvment as possible?
The truth is hard for you...and WAITING is boring and mostly sexless...so it would be odd if you didnt fantasise a fair bit. People dont talk about it because they dont want gross people out. Im sure no-one "I know" would like to hear about my fantasies either...so keep the Mills & Boon stuff to yourself...or write a novel about it and cash in (if you have a flair for writing).
2006-11-26 15:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a spouse of a husband that served our u . s . a ., i'm very disillusioned that this modification right into a query. to easily positioned it, HELL NO. First, your husband is scuffling with for each freedom you have as a citizen of u . s .. He faces threat seen and unseen. you're able to concept or sympathy what he's dealing with. no longer purely, is he below attack bodily, yet in addition mentally. My husband now has PTSD. I even think of which you pondering cheating is HEARTLESS! curiously, your marriage vows did no longer mean very plenty to you or did they? it is not approximately no rely if he reveals out. it particularly is approximately doing what's impressive. you are the only man or woman that would stay with you. would God save our infantrymen!
2016-10-04 10:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd be very very concerned about a fantasy like that - it crosses so many lines in regard to ethics and compassion (or a lack thereof) that I would be worried at my ability to de-humanise war. Sounds as though you're lonely and frustrated.... I'm not a sex counsellor so'll I leave it there, but maybe you should investigate the 'autonomous' side of gratification...
2006-11-26 15:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kble 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lonely people often go a little crazy.
After he comes back and satisfies your needs you'll probably stop having crazy fantasies.
BTW maybe you should start writing romance novels and make a few bucks off of them.
2006-11-26 15:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband may have his own issues to deal with when he comes home due to the stress and trauma of war. I somehow doubt he will enjoy hearing of your disturbing yet sickening sexual fantasies.
I think the worm has twisted for you.......You may consider seeking professional help now.
2006-11-26 16:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is definately not normal, do you think your husband enjoys having to be put in a place where he has to shot or be shot?? Get some help asap you are not right!!
2006-11-26 15:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweetkisz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it doesn't sound that odd to me.
You are thinking of your husband in a very 'alpha' male way, a violent, victorious warrior who has defeated his rivals, and then takes what he wants (you).
Don't lose sleep over it.
2006-11-28 07:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Carol!
You cannot think like this. Do not imagine things. Just know he is keeping all of us safe and that is important
2006-11-26 15:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the sickest things I have ever read.
And I've read a lot just on this site. Please go see a doctor as you may be suffering from depression or something. I'm not playing. That is really not a rational or healthy thought.
2006-11-26 15:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋