Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

We have been married for 5 years now together 12.. 2 kids standard package. We got together when she was young and had yet to experience sex so I was her first. For the longest time she was never really open with sex. Recently I talked her into going to a local sex shop to get some toys. She asked if I would like to get a porn? She says sure so we pick something off the sale shelf.. mullets, old guys... she hated it but liked the idea of watching porn. None the less she was hot. Up comes a scene of this girl taking on two guys I asked if she liked that.. she said "Yes!".. I asked if she wanted to try it.. Got another yes. I am the type of a guy who likes to please.. Sooo....

She was a virgin when we met.. do i let her experience this? Just playing around I told her I changed my mind and she seemed truly disappointed so I know she is for real.

2006-11-26 15:29:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would it be a huge public production or a quiet dinner or walk?

2006-11-26 15:28:55 · 16 answers · asked by b 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am stay at home husband, no kids. just getting tired of drinking and watching jerry springer by myself.

2006-11-26 15:28:52 · 24 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Does this cloth smell like chloroform to you? Please respond in the best way you can. Thannks

2006-11-26 15:28:30 · 13 answers · asked by richardflaggwod 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 15:28:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

sometimes i think that imma stay a virgin forever..!!!.. every time i get close to a guy i get really scared and push him away. .. what can i do to change this

2006-11-26 15:28:18 · 17 answers · asked by coqueta19 2 in Singles & Dating

she surprised me with a faboulous dinner...and i was completely thrown off guard by it...so now i have to find a way to surprise her with something back...because she is always doing alot for me and i feel insuffcient...so what are some ideas for surprises to surprise her??? and it has to be really good...any any ideas would be greatly appreciated

2006-11-26 15:28:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 15:28:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a regular kid but im mexican an i kno im not ugly cause alot girls lke me at school so why the hell do ppl stare at me so much??

2006-11-26 15:27:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i was about to break up with him but he kept sayin he ain't ready and then three days ago he broke up with me because he said that he is gettin tired of this. he told my cousin that he want to be my friend and all but i want to be more than friends. I don't know what to say to him anymore. I don't even think i can call and talk to him without crying. i luv him so much i want to be with him 4eva. but he say that if he ask me would i go back to him. should i call and talk to him? what should i say to him? what if he don't want to talk to me? PLEASE HELP me to get him back

2006-11-26 15:27:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Parties, clubs, church, .......? where?

2006-11-26 15:27:13 · 7 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

Seeing that christmas is soon and I really want to get her something. We were talking on the phone about gifts and I told her I didn't want anything and I hated thinking about what I want for christmas and christmas in general. I kinda do the holiday has always bothered me but I still would like to get her something really special. I'm not sure what though, I love her dearly and when I asked she didn't give me any ideas but said "Think what do girls like" (By that she meant from a guys view I should think Pink and Jewlery) Though Jewlery sounds nice I wouldn't know what to get her or if I should do something. I am almost braindead over the situation and can't come up with a single answer please will somebody give me some advice. We're 16 and we've been dating for 9 months just to give you an idea on where we stand in a relationship.

2006-11-26 15:26:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we"ve been to court twice already im tired of playing around she"s been in jail for the past year I want a divorce and custody of the kids,she a drug user and has been in and out of trouble for forgery you name it

2006-11-26 15:26:25 · 11 answers · asked by turnpage692002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to marry a guy thats is like me,stuff that we have in common,satanist, heavy metal,etc.i like a guy that would love me for me, i would love him back,im a very shy girl,i would never go up to a guy and ask him out!,im in tennessee,i love poetry,i also write it to,i love guitar,i play it to,i love horror movies,i love science,im young!but im going to be 18 in may 9,2007,im funny,i like a good laugh as much as i can tell one,im nice,but very uniqe as well,people say im extremly smart!i just want to find the right guy,and friends that i can relate to.

2006-11-26 15:25:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay the i like erica the next dance i am going to she is going to try to kiss me should i let her or should i kiss her under the misseltoe????

2006-11-26 15:24:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 15:24:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm dating this guy 2 mos. ago and all is well but he won't give me a relationship,he says because his ex was 'crazy' to him. But i really am wanting a relationship how do i tell him without sounding like im being pushy im worried that he'll take it that way:(

2006-11-26 15:24:34 · 11 answers · asked by ~confused~ 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this question has been asked countless times before but if someone truely does love you, is it enough for them to just say it? Is it really love if they don't show it in ways other then verbal? Isn't love more than just a mental thing, but a physical thing as well? What do you do when you know someone loves you, but they don't show it very well? What exatly IS love?

2006-11-26 15:24:12 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

that some guys like to do a girl in the rear? Why?

2006-11-26 15:23:57 · 10 answers · asked by Jen A 1 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of something that won't perish easily like a Hersheys bar or three, and some home made cookies, but I wondering what the nation's collegiate women think of that. What about non-edible stuff? Nothing alcoholic, please.

2006-11-26 15:22:34 · 4 answers · asked by PenguinFan20085 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If she uses your bathroom, comes out 10 minutes later, and it stinks in there like no other?

2006-11-26 15:22:34 · 19 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

I love him alot and he loves me alot, but sometimes i cant stand him! I never want to loose him but then again i kinda do at times, im jsut hopelessly lost!!! Is this just love??

2006-11-26 15:21:46 · 18 answers · asked by i hate me more (^)*_*(^) 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm from philippines and im a 9th grader. my classmates in school are judgemental about my personality. they keep on questioning me that im gay or not? i said no. yes i really am not gay. im a straight guy and i like girls and i enjoy lots of sports. i even have 2 crushes that one of them i want to be my girl friend. but my classmates keeps on repeating that question that im gay.. even in activities my classmates are ignoring me. it seems that they treat me like a ghost. and the guys are keep on insulting me about it!! they try to lick my face, holding on my penis, and destroying my stuff. even my teacher is ignoring me that im not around.. i really hate my life. I dont know if my crush is judgemental or not. maybe she's gonna dump me because she thought im gay. not only my classmates but my uncles and aunties too. they always ignoring me that im a ghost or something... what should i do? and how could I get out from this problem? pls dont answer with be yourself thing. cauz i am!!

2006-11-26 15:21:42 · 12 answers · asked by Remon 3 in Friends

I like a guy in my school. He is same age as me. Must I tell him that I like him??

2006-11-26 15:20:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently I added a question regarding my cousin who's so open minded till we have sex... anyway, on saturday, a girl friend of mine came over to my house to stay due to some of her family problem. My mum and cousin shared the same room while the other, which my sis room, was locked as she went overseas. (She also dun like sharing room with others) So she (my friend) shared the same room with me. However, she and I sleep separately and DID NOT do anything. =D My cousin, who's also consider my gf, without people knowing, was jealous. This morning after my bathing, she was hugging very tight to me and did not want me to leave for work in my room of course. And I had my towels on only. She said she was jealous as she can't sleep with me while my girl friend can. What should I do to please her? Sleep with her? I mean sleeping over night. but my parents can't know of it...

2006-11-26 15:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Without need, expectation, or jealousy. Without needing /himher to make you happy without expecting anything out of him/her and without being jealous, no matter what. Just letting that person go and knowing that he/she is happy and free.

2006-11-26 15:20:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 15:20:33 · 17 answers · asked by ingahauks 2 in Family

there is a girl in my church that i really like. This morning we finally did a little bit of talking. she was getting the kids ready for a program that we are having at church In a little room. i asked her if i could come in and she said yes. She told me that that's her first time seeing me talk. I ALSO NOTICED THAT SHE WAS A LITTLE SHY IN FRONT OF ME. SHE WAS RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME IN THE ROOM. AFTER A WHILE SHE MOVED in the corner next to me where I could'nt see her. when we got out she told me that she liked a car that i have. and started talking about what kinda car she wanna get after she graduates from highschool. while we where at church someone brought her senior pictures and she came to me asking me if she looks pretty in the pictures. The interesting part!! when we where getting ready to leave she asked me for my phone and called her mom to tell her that she has a ride home. She asked me if i could take her home. and i took her home. What can i do next? Do you guys think i...

2006-11-26 15:20:02 · 6 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Singles & Dating

I may be back on the market, after almost 7 1/2 yrs with a boyfriend...and before that was married 8 years... I am now 35 yrs old, and friends/family think I'm cute, and kind... but when you are my age..it gets harder to find a good guy... I'm not a bar fly..and when you are my age you don't go out on the party scene.
Please anyone any ideas of where to network to meet a good hearted guy? I'm not the most thrilled about internet dating services..but a friend recommended..
Any services, or clubs...etc..that I can try??? Please any ideas..

2006-11-26 15:19:51 · 4 answers · asked by SMILEYGIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

hey guys...well there's this girl that i'm in love with, and she really cares about me too..but she's kinda like a player, she says she wants me to be her 1st and all, but she flirts with a lot of guys and that kinda upsets me sumtimes....what can i do to make her want me more?...should i start ignoring her a bit, and not show much interest in her anymore?...any advice?

2006-11-26 15:19:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating