I'm dating this guy 2 mos. ago and all is well but he won't give me a relationship,he says because his ex was 'crazy' to him. But i really am wanting a relationship how do i tell him without sounding like im being pushy im worried that he'll take it that way:(
2006-11-26 15:24:34 · 11 answers · asked by ~confused~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lot of people would say if you've been dating for 2 months you have a relationship, so maybe you need to define what in your mind a "relationship" is exactly.
2006-11-26 15:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Relationships take anything you got and then some you have to devote yourself to that person totally and be anything to one other and help each other out and be a good team together and have similar likes and interest as well as be able to get along throught anything life deal you and make sure children have the best life of all without violence or arguments alot and no blaming or insults for failure or short comings in life and sometimes people do need space from each other to find out where they stand. Truth and honesty are the only way a relationship will work and nothing else will do. Money is a big factor in everything there is in the relationshipd nowadays thought it sucks it's the way it is and those without alot of times have no girlfriend or steady in there life and if they don't succeed then they never will.
2006-11-26 23:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by technowizard2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are from mars and women are from venus!!! Women and men don't think anything alike and if you try, it will usually make things worse. Two months is just a beginning. Give it some time and find out what he meant by "crazy to him". He might be the one with the serious problems. If so, they will only get worse unless he is willing to open up to you and talk about his feelings. Keep in mind, though, men hate to talk about "feelings". They think it makes them weak and "unmanly". If he really likes you, he will come around..just be patient.
2006-11-26 23:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by foxfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship isn't something you can ask for and get. It is something you and another person develope often without realizing it. It takes two willing participants to have one. Just wanting it doesn't secure it. It takes time, stay friendly, date when you can, don't push and eventually it will become a relationship or it will fade. That is just the way they happen.
2006-11-26 23:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Robert P 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he don't want a relationship then there is nothing u can say to change that, he has done made up his mind, he may be trying to play u so watch it. i would just date around until u find some1 that u like and that likes u also and wants to start a relationship, quit wasting your time on one guy if he's not interested, and besides that if he really likes u then when u start dating around then he may become more interested in starting a relationship for fear he may lose u.
2006-11-26 23:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ gina ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he has a crazy ex-girlfriend, then right now he is scared. In this situation, you need to give him more time. You need to prove that you are not crazy like his ex-girlfriend. I found this cool article called "how to let a guy know you are girlfriend material". Check it out, try these steps [t worked for me] and if it still doesnt work, you need to quit and meet some other guys.
http://wehow.ehow.com/how_2004113_get-guy-know-are-girlfriend-material.html
2006-11-29 16:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by want2knowsoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...... tell him there's a guy at your work who like's you, then ask him what he want's to do..... If he's vauge, want's to play mind game's, or just want's to stuff you around, tell him to make his mind up, or your'e gonna have to start considering this other guy! If he let's this continue to long,.... check out some dating site's, and replace him with someone better!...
2006-11-26 23:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want a relationship you can't make him.
If you want more then he's offering go find someone else.
2006-11-26 23:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honesty, a real man would respect your honest and take as such, how you real
2006-11-26 23:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they arent just be yourself. in my opion?
2006-11-26 23:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋