sometimes i think that imma stay a virgin forever..!!!.. every time i get close to a guy i get really scared and push him away. .. what can i do to change this
2006-11-26 15:28:18 · 17 answers · asked by coqueta19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you, 16? 17? 18?
Stop worrying! Don't be so obsessed with having sex. When the time is right, you'll have sex. Don't lose your virginity because you feel pressured by society. You're going to regret it later on.
2006-11-26 15:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stress Less!!!
There are obviously underlying issues here.
Go see someone. Talk to your doctor, mother, bestfriend, anyone. Try to figure out what the real reason is.
But maybe your just not ready to bonk someone. So what?? Save it. Wait for Mr.Right - - not Mr.Right Now.
Good on you for not giving in and doing it.
And if your getting pressure at school or something by people who have done it - call them sluts.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-26 15:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Moz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meh, this is going to sound cheesy, but the best thing you can give the man you love is your virginity. I'd wait till you're married, and sex will be 100 times better!
2006-11-26 15:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Genesis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. It'll happen when it's supposed to. There's a reason you haven't gotten there yet. Have patience and you'll know when it's right.
2006-11-26 15:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by H2Oskier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study psychology, and learn communications skills.
Patience. Don't rush things. You'll be glad you were careful and patient.
2006-11-26 15:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 19 and still a virgin...if the guy truly loves you then they will wait for when you are ready...dont just do it because you dont want to be a virgin anymore...youll regret it..wait until it is with someone you truly love and that truly loves you back.
2006-11-26 15:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you scared of . .. once you get sex you won't stop . i mean you need to have sex with the person you love cherish love and most of all TRUST ! SO NO YOUR NOT GOING TO BE A VIRGIN FOREVER WAIT FOR THE ONE AND ONLY MAN !!!!!!!!!! (NOT MANY OUT THEIR)
2006-11-26 15:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with the flow babe. im still a virgin too. wen i was with boyfriend i put a lot of pressure on myself. im **** scared to do anything with anyone. im scared that i'll never pluck up the courage to sleep with my boyfriend either. mind u we're broken up now and its not a worry for me but i noe the next one will be the same thing. go with the flow. try to step back and see wat ur doing wen u start to push ur boy away. stuff like this takes time. and if his not understand his not worth ur time. coz ur better than that. boys will be boys. but if this boy really loves u or he really likes u or wat ever. if he understands then he'll wait for wen u are ready babe.
2006-11-26 15:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by pOppY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still really young, wait until u feel comfortable with a guy, evidently the ones u have been with u haven't felt comfortable enough with, one dayu are going to meet a guy that u feel like u have known all of your life and that u will feel totally comfortable with and when it does happen u won't have any regrets with who it happened with first. don't just pick a guy and try to force yourself because then u will regret losing it to him. so just be patient and let it come naturally
2006-11-26 15:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ gina ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is rough. I felt the same way, but in time it happens. Hang in there. Try to relax and just be friendly.
2006-11-26 15:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋