okay i was about to break up with him but he kept sayin he ain't ready and then three days ago he broke up with me because he said that he is gettin tired of this. he told my cousin that he want to be my friend and all but i want to be more than friends. I don't know what to say to him anymore. I don't even think i can call and talk to him without crying. i luv him so much i want to be with him 4eva. but he say that if he ask me would i go back to him. should i call and talk to him? what should i say to him? what if he don't want to talk to me? PLEASE HELP me to get him back
2006-11-26 15:27:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were about to break up with HIM...so he saved you the hassle. Stop acting like a confused little baby and get over it. Dont call him...read the book "he's just not that into you" so that next time you'll know the signs.
But REALLY....you were going to break up anyway so isnt it just your ego...NOT that you were that into him either? 4eva is a very long time and you sound like a kid...give yourself time to grow up and stop messing yourself, and everyone else, around.
2006-11-26 15:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-05-08 13:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you he's tired of the negative patterns that you both are consistently reengaging in. Listen to him . Do not start crying thinking it's going to make things better. It won't it will have the opposite effect. You need to let go. I suggest you do a time out and do alot of self reflection on how needy your behavior towards your relationship with him sounds. Relationships should compliment each other. Your constant crying is a telling sign that you have self work to do. why would he want to take care of a crying baby all day, all night, or for the rest of his life? I really think you need to talk with an experienced person in relationship issues. you sound young. I, can tell you from experience you can't win a mans heart the best you can do is capture his attention and if you love him hope that he wants to hold on.to .your, heart. when that happens you'll be in for the ride of your life. Life's lessons often times causes tears. Don't be afraid...tears are the body's way of cleansing itself. The lessons you will learn as you work through this will get you to the next level of growth & understanding. I wish you strength & courage ---you can do it girl!
2006-11-26 15:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From a guys point of view, tell him to come to your place and suck & f@ck all night long. From a womans point of view, nagging is not the best way to go about it.
2006-11-26 15:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by kyle e 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋