I love him alot and he loves me alot, but sometimes i cant stand him! I never want to loose him but then again i kinda do at times, im jsut hopelessly lost!!! Is this just love??
2006-11-26 15:21:46 · 18 answers · asked by i hate me more (^)*_*(^) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you actually hate him or just how he is acting or what he is did at that moment. You can love someone with all your heart and hate what they are going. Believe me that is normal. Take a couple minutes and think about this. You are the only one who can really tell if this is love or not. Can you see yourself at age 89 with this person. You will find your answers with time. Good is good, but if there are more bad times then good times rethink your choices.
2006-11-26 15:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im going thru the same thing. i love this guy but i cant stand his guts sometimes. well i figured out that this is when the guy is not satisfying us mentally and emotionally. we have our own satisfaction for ourselves but when you are in a relationship, you will need alot of understanding from a man and these days that is hard to find. i wish i had a guy like the one one the titanic. well wishful thinking. sometimes you just want to be by yourself if that is all a guy is going to do. sometimes its just not worth it. but at the same time you do have good times with the bastard and you do want to be alone. i do understand what you mean. i guess that is how affairs begin. people need to be loved. not be used and abused. well just hang in there and if all fails we can love ourselves and god loves us. i think finding a good man is like looking for a needle in a haystack. good luck
2006-11-26 23:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say there is a thin line btwn love and hate. Maybe thats what is going on here. The relationship will sort itself out sooner or later trust that gut.
2006-11-26 23:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal but it happens. Here's the thing if you can't decide between the two feelings then go with the negative one. I say this because eventually it will rule out anyway especially when he does something stupid OR you get tired.
2006-11-26 23:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a relationship built on the wrong basis.
2006-11-26 23:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe u cant hate someone unless u have loved or still do love them. hate and love are two extreme emotions and sometimes go hand in hand. i couldnt be botherd with hate but having said that there have been times when i too have hated my fiance with a passion, but if i didnt love him i wouldnt be bothered with hating him. do u get it?
2006-11-26 23:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When two people are close, they end up annoying each other at the same time. It sounds pretty normal to me.
2006-11-26 23:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like middle school/high school puppy love. You'll look back on this later and think it was silly.
2006-11-26 23:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by James C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r in love its just the things he dose u hate
2006-11-26 23:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure, my man irks me so much sometimes that I would like to kill him. Just make sure you love him more than you hate him.
2006-11-26 23:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋