hey guys...well there's this girl that i'm in love with, and she really cares about me too..but she's kinda like a player, she says she wants me to be her 1st and all, but she flirts with a lot of guys and that kinda upsets me sumtimes....what can i do to make her want me more?...should i start ignoring her a bit, and not show much interest in her anymore?...any advice?
2006-11-26 15:19:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok im not a guy but i hope this helps. because she is a player if you start to seem that you are loosing interest she may be a bit like "meh theres others out there" so i think you have to be a bit careful. r u going out with her? if so tell her how you feel towards her flirting with other guys, if shes really into you, she'll understand and respect that. she sounds like shes just a bit afraid of commitment, make sure that u dont smother her or anything and send her running but dont become too distant too. and be different to all the other guys she sees, make sure that u dont become just another face in the crowd.
sori if i doesnt help ya, but GOODLUCK!!
2006-11-26 15:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a saying ' treat em mean, keep em keen'. this doesnt mean goin and bashing her but if she sees u doing ur own thing without her and having fun with others and maybe even flirting with others she may realise that if she doesnt start paying attention to u she may lose u. also, keep in mind gilrs always flirt cos it makes us feel good
2006-11-26 23:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't ignore her she will think you don't care. be yourself. and when talking to her tell her you know i really care for you as you do me as you said above but it hurts me when you flirt with other people i feel crappy when you do it.. just be honest what ever your feeling let her know. She will want you happy and respect you too. she can't tell if you do'nt tell her. and tell her its okay for her to flirt but make it just with you.
2006-11-27 00:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl and i think when a girl starts to flirt with other guys she wants you to get closer to her!!
2006-11-26 23:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by SoCcErXCuTiE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya you should try it. Don't call her for a week. Personally I stay
clear of undesirables.
2006-11-26 23:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do this once a player always a player trust me .
2006-11-26 23:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think you should move on.....there is more fish in the sea !
2006-11-26 23:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by MARY OOH-LA-LA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her jealous.
2006-11-26 23:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do that, just be youself
2006-11-26 23:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋