Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

I am 26 but I feel like I've not enjoyed my youth. I've never been well liked or respected, esp. by other young people. Unpopular in high school and college. Never had a boyfriend. Never been married. Not curvaceous.
It's really hard to be happy because I see other young women looking good, going out with their boyfriends or getting married, hanging out with their friends, and having fun.
Is there something wrong with me? How can I stop feeling like a nobody? What's the point of life anyway if I'm so unhappy and nobody likes me?

2006-11-26 18:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by misscleo779 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to go and get married to my fiance, and we'd rather just go to the JP and have a simple civil ceremony. i need to know what i need to do so, if anything. i mean, do i just got there... wherever there is and pay em and have em do it? or what? do they provide the marriage license or do i have to do that somewhere else? im not sure, and a little confused and dont have anyone to ask.

2006-11-26 18:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by Sabrina Nicole 1 in Weddings

I started dating my best friend about 3 years ago. Our relationship grew into much more that just being friends. Over the course of the last couple of years, he kept asking me to marry him. I wasn't ready and just wanted to continue dating.

This week, he basically quit answering his phone when I call, not writing back when I email him (with the exception of asking if he was mad, which he replied "no") and just not responding to me.

I've heard that "falling off the face of the earth" is one way to break up with someone, but I'm baffled about this. Am I being dumped? What do I do if he won't answer my calls, emails or other?

2006-11-26 18:36:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, we broke up in august, but still hang out on a regular basis, kiss, hug, and do everything else couples do, but he doesnt' want to put a lable on our relationship. we broke up cuz he said he needed time to figure out what he wants. it seems like he wants me only when he does, not when it's convenient for me. i am still totally in love with him and cannot t hink about anything else but him. i help him out any way i can and would do absolutely anything for him.

2006-11-26 18:36:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

nowadays you us women can make the first move but should you keep going and treating him sweet or just lay a little low let it take care of itself when do you steo off once you told him

2006-11-26 18:35:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently, my mom passed away of Pneumonia at Singapore General Hospital and as I'm the only son, I feel extremely sad and disappointed. She's 59 years old and I am 23. My 64-year old father too cannot believe what just have happened and have not come to face the reality yet. I have not been eating much since then. Our small 2-room rental flat is in a mess since only my mother do the household chores. We know nuts about household chores! Please, users of Yahoo Answers, what can I do to overcome this extreme grief? Is there any way of healing the pain of my lost mother? Like a free counseling session or financial/cleaning assistance?? Thank you!

2006-11-26 18:33:23 · 10 answers · asked by Mckyboyz 2 in Family

I know dry spells are normal but my boyfriend recently went 3 WEEKS without touching me ONCE!!!

This isn't the first time. He went 2 weeks a few months ago.
I've brought this point up to him and asked him what is his problem and he says it's because I'm a B_i_t_c_h to him so much, he doesn't want to have sex at all.

I'm not so sure I believe that excuse and besides, I'm rarely ever a *****, I just stand up for myself!

He once told me the exact same thing about his ex wife - (and she cheated on him!) He said at that point they were barely having sex anymore because she'd pissed him off so many times.

He's not good at providing me with intimacy and I've complained about that before and sometimes he'll call me by his ex wife's name to irritate me, because apparently - she used to have the same complaints.

What is the deal??
PS - he's 37.

2006-11-26 18:33:10 · 7 answers · asked by Brownie 1 in Singles & Dating

And I find myself torn between two paths here, one alone and one with her. But I am waiting for HER to choose. And while I'm waiting here, I find myself thinking of things I want to say to her, ways to really express myself, and it hits me that I want to tell her how much I love her and want to be with her. BUT in the same breath, I want to tell her she's being a selfish *****, that her indecision is breeding contempt and resentment in me for her, and that she ought to think twice before she assumes any guy as nice, as caring, as into her as I am is going to come around and WAIT for her to make up her ******* mind, she really is CRAZY! Should I feel bad for even thinking like that? B/c I honestly feel better just writing that down.

2006-11-26 18:32:50 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering on a date, should I wear a sexy top to accentuate my chest or miniskirt to show off my legs?

2006-11-26 18:32:47 · 28 answers · asked by Blondie4u 1 in Singles & Dating

How and why.

2006-11-26 18:32:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can you tell if he likes me just cuzz he asked me out again maybe he is trying to hit the skins

2006-11-26 18:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do girls like shy boys , since they are very much attracted to shy guys , the question is why ?

2006-11-26 18:31:56 · 23 answers · asked by RITESH 1 in Friends

This girl i go to lunches with all the time, keeps saying, im going to end up with this really hot girl...would girls say this cause they think youre attractive and maybe that they want you?......and also keeps asking me what type of girl im after....im so confused, i dont want to back her down cause i really like her, but too scared to say just yet.
Back to question...is that a hint she may like me. She also touches me alot, sits on my seat with me aswell.One thing though, she is quite flirty with guys, and has heaps of guy mates, so i dont know whether she does this to all her guy mates or not?.......what do do?

2006-11-26 18:30:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and i have this new neighboor who is 17, when i was in the ventellation system i saw him masturbating to gay porn so i know he is gay. How can i aproach him in the way that i can have a relationship. He has blond hair huge green eyes with a six pack and he is definetly a hunk. I would really like to sleep with him!

2006-11-26 18:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if u were married for a yr n then got pregnant for ur husband whilst u came to know that he wasnt the guy the rite guy and he hardly bothers to take careof u n ilterates u very badly n u live in ur mothers house he doesnt come to see u neither the boys parents r bothered .what would u do?apart from thinking to separate from him coz of the childs future.
Give me practical answers plsss.

2006-11-26 18:28:16 · 16 answers · asked by Be kind! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i experianced violence from my partner several times in the 7 years we were together! we no longer live together as i reported it to the police! we have a child together so i still have to see him but he still plays mind games and does every thing he can to hurt me! he leaves me struggling for money by not paying his half of morgage ect!! its getting me down and cant really talk to my family about it! should i use womens aid? not sure what to do and feel i need some sort of help now as its affecting me and i dont want it to affect my child

2006-11-26 18:27:24 · 21 answers · asked by lillypops 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I find that women that look "mature" I tend to find more attractive then another teenager.

2006-11-26 18:25:45 · 18 answers · asked by Numb Nutts 1 in Singles & Dating

my mother recently kicked me out at 18 cuz of a mistake i made and i was wondering who has gotten kicked out and i was wondering where did they live and do after that? i lived in shelters until my boyfriends mother let me move in with them.

2006-11-26 18:25:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She and I have been friends for 2 years, overcome many issues, and spend alot of time together. Recently she has been saying and doing some thing that make me think she wants to be more than friends. I'd be willing to give it a shot if that is how she really feels. What is the best way to ask so she would feel as comfortable as possible being open yet it wouldn't make things too awkward? Should I question what she means by some of these things and then say "how do you really feel about us?" or is there a better way?? Thanks.

2006-11-26 18:25:28 · 7 answers · asked by tipple 1 in Singles & Dating

I started dating this guy 5 weeks ago. From the beginning it's like he fell in love. He always called, took me on super expensive dates, told everyone how much he liked me, wanted to introduce me to his family, invited me on vacation with his friends. Anyways, I thought it was going a bit fast. So, his birthday was this week and he wanted me to meet all his friends and all his family. I politely declined because I didn't want to intrude since we weren't boyfriend or girlfriend. I also, mistakingly mentioned on our last date that there was another guy that was calling me. Well, this weekend he cancelled our date. He called me tonight and it got a little bit weird and I told him "This is awkward" and laughed and he asked me what was, and then he said, I think we should slow things down. I think I rushed into this and pushed you into things, I think we should slow things down. I am heartbroken. He said he would call me soon. What happened? I'm hurt. Was I basically dumped?

2006-11-26 18:25:11 · 4 answers · asked by Katy S 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl that hangs out with me and my friends and she wont leave us alone. we've decided to leave her but dont know how and let me tell you she is crazy. she started carving the word Johnathan in one leg and AFI in the other with a razor. she also always wants to talk to us about how she screws guys 20 years older than her and we've reported her a bunch of times but the adults never do anything we really need help getting rid of her. please give us suggestions so we wont have to deal with her anymore.

2006-11-26 18:24:59 · 3 answers · asked by buxtonboi1 4 in Friends

A while back this girl that I am good friends with talked to me abot us being just friends. I brought the topic up, and we were both cool with that. Now, she wants to hug me, and she told some little girls that asked her that I was her boyfriend. She even told me this, and asked me if it was a funny joke. I do not understand anymore. Why did she do this??

2006-11-26 18:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was in the heat of the moment when i said hey to my by cuz he was looking the other way. i wanted him to see my facial expression and to look in my eyes while i was you know. well when i said hey he started laughing and i was serious. i asked him why he laughed and he said it was the way i said it. well it kind of hurt my feelings. what do you think?

2006-11-26 18:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

The first date went well but afterwords I got a little over eager and made myself completely available to this guy and gave him a number of ways to contact me and now he has gone from proposing a second date to saying he will call and not calling. I have never been the one to call him, but we see other at common places throughout the week and I linger a few minutes to see him before I continue with my schedule. I have a busy life but it's mostly activities that are flexible and can be put off for an hour or two whenever I want, so even though I can be available I guess I shouldn't be so open about it. With vacation this week, I have not seen him in person since he didn't call when he said he would so I am sort of anxious about this upcoming week when I may see him. Anyhow, it is completely over or can I do something to redeem myself?

2006-11-26 18:23:44 · 3 answers · asked by Lyf 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 18:18:48 · 22 answers · asked by josie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a boyfriend of 2 and a half years.. i slept with another guy. i love my boyfriend to death and i really really dont want to tell my boyfriend what happened because it was only one night and i know that i wont do it again .. my only problem is my conscience is killing me soo bad i cant stop thinking about what a bad girlfriend i am. what can i do to forget about what i did.

2006-11-26 18:18:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see my friend is "love" struck. he met this girl jenna on saturday when we went clubbing. and earlier today i heard them saying "i love you" to eachother? what is up with that? he says he cares about her and she says he is her man and he treats her like nobody else. what is going on, they only know eachother for less than 48 hours and they love eachother already? and he is already saying things like " im going out with my girl". i thought it would just be a one night stand but they are already saying those love things? is that love at first site or is that just some drunken idiotic thing? i don't understand they talk about eachother like they know eachother for years. it is starting to freak me out.

2006-11-26 18:17:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a week ago i found out that my husband was cheating on me, i decided to give him a second chance because i love him and i don't want him away from me or our kids. but , i don't know if i made the right decision because i feel that he is not 100% honest with me and that he might be thinking about this other women all the time.. i told him that he could go when ever he felt like it, cuz i don't want to keep him here if he doesn't love me no more..he wont leave and he tells me that he loves me but he doesn't show me that...am i doing the right thing or what should i do??.

2006-11-26 18:17:56 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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So how can i become fav to girls?... (some ppl in other post suggest i put up a wall isolating myself because of fear)

2006-11-26 18:17:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm a loner in high school. Classes practically are all that keep me busy. During lunch though, it is unfortunately 50 minutes long. I have nothing to do during lunch but to eat, read a book, and do homework. I've been spending lunch sitting on the floor doing work. I feel really embarassed sort of. What should I do for lunch? I find it really awkward to just go up to someone and ask, "Hey, can I sit with you?". Someone please help.

2006-11-26 18:17:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends