And I find myself torn between two paths here, one alone and one with her. But I am waiting for HER to choose. And while I'm waiting here, I find myself thinking of things I want to say to her, ways to really express myself, and it hits me that I want to tell her how much I love her and want to be with her. BUT in the same breath, I want to tell her she's being a selfish *****, that her indecision is breeding contempt and resentment in me for her, and that she ought to think twice before she assumes any guy as nice, as caring, as into her as I am is going to come around and WAIT for her to make up her ******* mind, she really is CRAZY! Should I feel bad for even thinking like that? B/c I honestly feel better just writing that down.
2006-11-26 18:32:50 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and no you shouldnt feel bad...thats probably just what you needed to do was get your feelings out.. I have been in this same situation but on the same side as your gf...My advice to you is give her time, but don't put your life on hold either. My boyfriend gave me time and it just made me realize how much i really wanted to be with him and have him in my life. We are back together now and madly in love. If she loves you and you are right for eachother you will find you ways back to eachother.
2006-11-26 18:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by thereis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hon dont feel bad
it seems like u ve been on hold for ever, and no one should wait for ever for an answer, if she;s putting u on hold like that may be she's having other offers from other guys too and they are on hold too
point here is if you have given her enough time like a month or two max. and she still didnt decide and u see no reason for her not to be able to decide then no. let her go without saying anything hateful
she will be back looking for the good guy that u r and beleieve she will regret it
many women do that to garantee a date when they need it. it's like leaving the door ajar.
you seem nice and i think you deserve mutual love from some one who appreciates you because remember if she doesnt care about u hurting now she wont later
people dont change like that
sorry and good luck
2006-11-27 02:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by evildoodleeer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have something you want to say to her then your doing yourself a dishonor by not doing so. Your blaming her for something you control. Maybe she is just waiting for you to say the very thing you've been holding back.
2006-11-27 02:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Special Edition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not feel bad I would talk with her about it.
2006-11-27 02:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋