what to do to get back the guy your crazy about?

Question

well, we broke up in august, but still hang out on a regular basis, kiss, hug, and do everything else couples do, but he doesnt' want to put a lable on our relationship. we broke up cuz he said he needed time to figure out what he wants. it seems like he wants me only when he does, not when it's convenient for me. i am still totally in love with him and cannot t hink about anything else but him. i help him out any way i can and would do absolutely anything for him.

Answer 1

K just don't wait 13 yrs like I did...LOL Just talk to him & tell him what you want...if it is not the same of what he wants then hun its not worth the wait......You say he says he needs time well give it to him but go out & have fun...Try to do things to keep him off your mind. Sorry I'm not much of a help!

Answer 2

Sounds like he has you wrapped around his little finger- and he may have someone else on the side- w no label- you are allowing him to use you- and are too gah gah!! stop it- maybe you are too clingy- and too willing to do anything for him- let him do and be for you- don't be used or his play toy- read codependant no more- it will help-D

Answer 3

YOU SEEM TO HAVE GIVEN SOUND ADVICE TO TWEEY, REGRADING HER OWN BREAK-UP. I KNOW IT IS EASIER TO GIVE ADVICE THAN TO FOLLOW THROUGH WITH SOUND ADVISE FOR YOUR OWN PROBLEMS, BUT THIS IS THE 2ND RELATED TYPE QUESTION. TRY TO LET IT GO AND TRY TO FOLLOW YOUR OWN ADVICE...KEEP BUSY WITH OTHER TYPE QUESTIONS FOR US ANSWERERS, SPEND TIME WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS! GUESS WHAT!.....SOME "GENTLEMEN" BREAK UP WITH GIRLFRIENDS AT THE HOLIDAY SEASON BECAUSE THEY FEEL PRESSURED ABOUT THE GIFT AND/OR GIFTS. EITHER THEY ARE CHEAP, OR THEY ARE CONFUSED ON WHAT TO PURCHASE AS SO THEY DO NOT WANT TO MAKE A WRONG IMPRESSION (RELATING TO HOW THEY REALLY FEEL FOR YOU!) PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH, PEACE!