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my mother recently kicked me out at 18 cuz of a mistake i made and i was wondering who has gotten kicked out and i was wondering where did they live and do after that? i lived in shelters until my boyfriends mother let me move in with them.

2006-11-26 18:25:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

18 answers

my parents did not kick me out but i moved out cause i couldn't take it to live in with her anymore and that was when i was 17. i was staying with a friend for a while. got myself a job and then started to pay rent and for many years i've worked hard and well to build myself a career and life that i've never wasted in. i've now achieved all that i wanted to achieve in life.

2006-11-27 06:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by - 5 · 1 0

My mother was such a BlTCH... she hated kids and never wanted any. I heard that directly from her mouth from as far back as I can remember....

I moved out when I was 12, to a friends house. A weekend sleepover lasted about 6 months.

Finally I was forced to move back home.
I moved out again when I was 14 and pretty much lived on the streets for a few months until the cops dragged me back home.

Finally I moved in with an older man (36) whe I was 16. You can guess what his reasons for wanting me there were. He had a one bedroom apartment....

I never went home again except for some very intense visits when I was in my 20s, that lasted all of a couple of hours each time.

I am 48 now and have not spoken to anyone in my family for over 20 years. I heard my mother died about 5 years ago. Have not shed one tear over it yet.

Don't worry honey, things will turn out fine.

2006-11-26 18:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Chris C 5 · 0 0

okay, so i've never had a situation exactly like that but i know many who have. first, be careful of "she kicked me out" sentences because someone could interpret that as neglect/abuse. but please, go get a job. i know this sounds elementary, but not only will it get you financial support it will show your mom that you are working to become a more stable and healthy person, and it will give you more purpose and organization in your life. also, start thinking of what you want to do in life: you're 18, and you might not have it all figured out but you do want to start with some form of direction. if you are in any unhealthy situations and/or relationships (and you know in your heart which those are), i highly suggest getting out of those, because they become 10X worse where you are right now. look to conserve your finances and start getting some good networking in, looking for friends who can help you out (without you just mooching, which is really unhealthy and dysfunctional). create expectations for yourself (from yourself), even if you have to make it a list (preferred, actually), because then you will only be dissapointing yourself if you dont live up to it, not someone you will (eventually) get into an argument with. i'm not sure where you are, but the USA has extensive systems to help people in your situation and much worse, so start learning about those and taking advantage (in a good way) of them. hope this helps.

2006-11-26 18:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by cc41girl88 2 · 0 0

I got out of the house because of a huge family dispute and that i was physically hurt by my own sibling....till there were bruise marks on my whole body. I din know where to go nor i had any money. The only thing that i grabbed was my hp and some tissues. Lucky fr me...my best friend insisted that i stay the night in her house. My mom kept on calling me to come home.
I just couldnt.

2006-11-26 18:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no, but i actually know some people who were kicked out when they were 18. they told me it was really tough the first couple months, but they adjusted.

maybe you should talk to your parents. let them know how you feel... im not sure what you did but i am sure your parents love you and they feel that they don't know how else to be a parent, i guess... sometimes the kids are too tough on the parents and the parents took their kids for granted... but try to remember that a family is the most reliable thing you will ever find...

good luck

2006-11-26 18:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0 0

I never got kicked out but my dad has told me several times that if i ran away he could give a **** less about me and he wouldnt come looking for me. If i did get kicked out tho, id live with my best friends or some relatives...and get a job

2006-11-27 05:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

lemme tell you..when i was 15 i got kicked out of my house. i went n lived with my boy till i was 17. i got jumped by 6 kids n went to the hospital and thas y i went back home. its a very hard thing but all it usually needs is a good talk..sit down and talk w/ no tv food ipod psp or anythin..

2006-11-26 18:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by iM SoO fLyY 1 · 0 0

not me personally but my boyfriend got kicked out bc he told his dad that he did not want his gf to smoke weed in the house and the got in an agrument and he said to get out he was 18 at the time. HE moved in with my brohter he roomed mated with him for a long time. That was six years ago now and we are now married. and are doing pretty well. HE patched things up with his dad and they get along pretty well too.

2006-11-26 18:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0 0

nicely i became pregnant 13 years in the past at the same time as i became 14. And telling my mom became particularly confusing. I in simple terms sat down on her mattress and suggested, "mom, i'm sorry for what i'm about to assert, yet i'm pregnant." My mom turned right into a drug addict so when I informed her she in simple terms left the homestead and almost died from a heroin OD because the files of route dissatisfied her. I went to confirm her on the well being facility 2 days later and she or he informed me that she did not care about me anymore and that i have been given myself into it and had to stay with my mistake. And that became the awesome time I had an easily communication inclusive of her. My boyfriend(now husband) and his family contributors took me in and helped strengthen my daughters. i'm in simple terms satisfied that i became able to muster up adequate braveness to face my mom and tell her that. nicely desire I helped:)

2016-11-27 00:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by apps 3 · 0 0

Ya, at one point I did, I moved in to my friends house for a while, there mom said I could stay there as long as I needed, but as soon as I graduate, I'd have to start paying rent. It was cool though. I'm 18 to so ya...e-mail me @ humpady_dumpady1@yahoo.com and I'll talk some more.

2006-11-26 18:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by steven marton 2 · 0 0

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