I am 26 but I feel like I've not enjoyed my youth. I've never been well liked or respected, esp. by other young people. Unpopular in high school and college. Never had a boyfriend. Never been married. Not curvaceous.
It's really hard to be happy because I see other young women looking good, going out with their boyfriends or getting married, hanging out with their friends, and having fun.
Is there something wrong with me? How can I stop feeling like a nobody? What's the point of life anyway if I'm so unhappy and nobody likes me?
2006-11-26 18:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by misscleo779 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please take a good look at youself in the mirror and asked some serious questions about yourself e.g.
1) do you make your self presentable to others
2) do you dress properly and decently
3) do you keep your hair groom neatly
4) do you smell alright
5) do you have a ready smile
6) do you talk to people openly
7) do you meet people often
8) do you go out and attend functions
If you have all that, then be patient and you will meet someone.
But if the above is lacking in you, it is time to make changes and fast.
Good Luck
2006-11-26 18:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello misscleo779,
Have you tried going to a beauty parlor? Try getting a make-over; the works. Don't you have any girlfriends? Ask them what's going on with you. I'm sure that they have an opinion on what you should do with yourself.
Also, you probably need to get out more. We can't see you at your computer misscleo. Step back away from it, put on something sexy, head to the local dance, and be seen by guys.
Most bars are nothing but sausage fests; guys everywhere. Go to a bar, and you are already without any competition. When you talk to the guys, look at them right in the eye and keep smiling. Best of luck to you. Happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-11-27 02:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you. you dont have to go through the same things ur friends are going through.. i feel that i wasted my youth at alot of time i am 25. but here is an email that my friend sent me and i think you might like it
Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree.
The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground, that aren't as good, but easy.
So the apples at the top think that there is something wrong with them, when in reality, they are amazing.
That is why we just have to be a little patient and the right boy, the one who takes a chance to find the good, right apple, will come someday...
Send this to all the girls who you know are at the top of the tree.
2006-11-27 02:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by evildoodleeer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't about keeping score.
It's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which girl or guy likes you.
It's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you.
Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are.
Life just isn't about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt.
It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness, and compassion. It's about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love.
Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have.
Most of all, it's about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life's about. JUST DO IT!
2006-11-27 02:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by hundredaire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody in life creates they're own happiness, you'll never be happy until you accept yourself the way you are and learn to love yourself and enjoy your own company, when you can do that others will appreciate you also!
Dont be too critical of yourself either, we all have flaws and we all have good characteristics as well!
Try and better yourself where you can and just accept your flaws that you have no control over!
2006-11-27 02:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step to getting people to like you is liking yourself and realizing that there is nothing wrong with you. The way you carry yourself speaks to other people. It determines whether you are approachable or likable. Make an effort to think positively about yourself. Walk with your shoulders square and your eyes ahead of you. When somebody walks past you meet their eyes, and smile. Have confidence in yourself and other people will see that about you. Believe me it works. Good luck, God Bless.
2006-11-27 02:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by DepthsOfMyEyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop dwelling and get on with it - you have to give respect to get respect and sometimes you have to take the lead - reach out and find a new friend maybe talk to the other wall flower in the corner - whatever you do don't whine to anyone that you meet about your unfortunate life from the get go cuz who wants to say they befriended a loser? ps YOU'RE not a loser
2006-11-27 03:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like u obviously u have a heart it,s breaking now but i have glue ,if u need it , you are never really alone someone somewhere is watching over, and i have to get back to that before i,m missed.
2006-11-27 02:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋