Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

where are you melvina...lord...ive got plenty of points i keep askin until i find her....

2006-11-26 17:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by jdog44442003 3 in Singles & Dating

She is living with her husband. She says that he has a new girlfriend and will be leaving soon. She wants me to wait for her but I don't think that they are really seperated. She told me that she will leave him in a month if he doesn't leave. Will she leave him?

2006-11-26 17:33:46 · 9 answers · asked by exel 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't like getting side hugs from my girlfriend, it makes me feel like I'm some aquaintence. Am I wrong to think so?

2006-11-26 17:33:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is my life in Readers Digest Version. I'm 32..male..and gay. I live in a small town in Nebraska. I suffer from Generalized Anxiety Disorder and am Bi-Polar (sever depression) hence I have been on disability for two years. I'm trying my best to get back to work and the government wants to take all my medical away. I have over 500 dollars in meds every month. Every attempt I try to improve my life fails. My finances are horrible. I have no social life....like who would want to be involved with me. What do I have to offer...nothing. I know...sounds like a pitty story but hey...getting to the point of blending up all my meds in the blender and lay down and have a nice cocktail and go to sleep for good. About ready to give up. Any suggestions for a lonely/confused end of his rope guy? Jesse

2006-11-26 17:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by islanderguy74 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need ideas on how to go a cheap date..its an entertaining speech so i need dumb, hilarious ideas for dates...such as when your date goes to the washroom, put hairs in their food so you can complain and get the meal for free...things like that!

2006-11-26 17:30:48 · 16 answers · asked by aznoutlaw_7 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend were friend since kinder imk 16 and he like me and i know hes gay but it was ok with me but he like me now

2006-11-26 17:30:47 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

She is 11, we have joint custody with the mom, she yells at her all the time and tells her she should just go live with us, but then won't really let her. My stepdaughter tells us ALL the time that she hates it there, and wants to live with us, but that she doesn't want us to do anything because her mom will get mad at her. When they argue, she tells her mom that we said she can come live with us whenever she wants the mom gets angry and asks why, and my stepdaughter won't tell her all the reasons she tells us, because she knows she will get in trouble by her. So the mom just thinks we are trying to take her for no reason and calls and yells at us all the time and tells us to quit talking sh** about her all the time.I feel like she is mentally damaging her by constantly yelling at her and hanging up on her, what can and should we do about this?

2006-11-26 17:30:37 · 11 answers · asked by squirt 1 in Family

2006-11-26 17:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by Scorpianqueen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for the one i have been secretly in love for a yr.
i was hiding it but now i cannot
so this one day i had to write down my feelings or i feel like i was gonna explode
After that i read it and it seems really good...
you know the feeling when u cry, "that" feeling suffercating pain like?
well everytime i think about her or listen to music i feel that because i think of her....
so i just wrote out what i feel...
i think its good..

But right now she is angery because her friend's bf ditched her and her friend is really really depressed so now she is angery at her friend's bf ..
so i was wondering... if i sent the love poem to her she might just reject it because right now she probably only think love is hurtful??

What are your options?
and btw...
what should i do? wait or take action? Continue to be friends with her because fear of rejection? or take the chance be something more by taking action?

Thx for the help...

2006-11-26 17:29:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i like this one guy...But everytime I bring his name around my friend she tends to ignore me and doesnt say a word..And when me and him were getting along he gave me a nickname "rock buddy" Heh dont ask...Well thats what he did...and..My friend said, "he doesnt want to talk to me hes to busy talking to his Rock buddy!' I dont know what her problem is...I dont know if shes jealous or angry or WHAT!? But we have been friends for like 9 years now!...Shes like my BFFFFFF hehe..Well I dont know what to do...I already asked her If she liked him and She said she didnt..What do you think I should say to her?

2006-11-26 17:29:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know this asian guy coworker and I teased him about asian women being bad drivers, but then he started agreeing with me. He said how it scares him to sit in the car with his aunt and sister and how his sister can't parallel park and they have to get out and switch seats, so he can park her car for her. Are asian women's driving really that bad?

2006-11-26 17:29:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 17:29:05 · 15 answers · asked by josie 2 in Singles & Dating

I sometimes catch myself thinking about my ex g/f. nothing sexual, just kind of missing her company. I've been married for six years. Is this wrong?

2006-11-26 17:28:43 · 19 answers · asked by subhuman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want 2 kno wat u think love is!!! How u know when ur in love and ur overall view on Love... Tell Me Tell Me...

2006-11-26 17:26:39 · 11 answers · asked by smartypantz49 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have tried talking to him about it but he just says he doesnt need it that much. He does not like to talk about that either. Other men find me desirable. It's so hard when I get compliments from other men and not my husband. I tell my husband about the remarks and he doesn't care, he says he is not the jealous type. I want sex. What should I do?

2006-11-26 17:26:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's a foreign girl in my office that looks like a J Lo wannabe and she's pretty hot.
Say, in this case, if any of you guys who works here, would you find yourself date her? and Why? regardless she's single or not.

2006-11-26 17:26:03 · 23 answers · asked by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 in Singles & Dating

it seems as though he has backed up he says he is just trying to make sure of everything he is not sure if he is ready to settle down .

2006-11-26 17:26:00 · 9 answers · asked by lainey 1 in Singles & Dating

What do guys look for in a girl today? Be honest now?
What weights do you you like?
Why type of clothes?
Punk, preppy, goth?
What hair color do you prefere?
I would like to know because either I'm doing something wrong..or guys just don't let me know they like me...help

2006-11-26 17:25:48 · 9 answers · asked by luckychick123452006 1 in Singles & Dating

melvina..answered my question really cool but dont know how to say thanks....i tried but ask.com deleted my question to find her, by mail and everything...so im hopin she is still here and gets this....cause i read her profile she is into tae...which i am to..got some trophies....but if your there melvina....email me...jdog44442003@yahoo.com..........would love to chat at ya...

2006-11-26 17:25:33 · 4 answers · asked by jdog44442003 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been in a relationship with a guy for a little over a month and i have stong feeling for him but i dont think he feels the same he stares at other girls and everything but he tells me that im the only one for him im scared of getting hurt and dont know what to do how do i know if his feeling are true or if hes just playing games

2006-11-26 17:25:10 · 5 answers · asked by Angel H 1 in Singles & Dating

When walking next to your boyfriend, do you sometimes not want to hold hands and just walk next to each other? Does it feel odd if you don't hold hands?

2006-11-26 17:23:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live 4 hrs. away from my parents. Christmas is coming & my Mom has to work on that day, unfortunately. I begged her to ask for a vacation or a day-off on that day but it seemed like she rather work that day then to spend it with her immediate family. I hate the fact that she is a workaholic & her job has always been her number 1 priority.

2006-11-26 17:23:35 · 4 answers · asked by FlyingHi007 3 in Family

A friend of mine confessed he wants to be with me and leave his wife. I recently ended a marriage a couple of months ago. What to do?

2006-11-26 17:23:33 · 23 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married before and am currently planning a wedding to my high school sweetheart. I got my original dress out to show him. Just for fun, it is several yrs old. He loves it and wants me to wear it. I am not sure about it. Partly because my mom picked it out, also I wore it to marry someone else. Lastly, I am older than then and had wanted to get something more sophisticated. I know it would save alot of money. HELP, what should I do?

2006-11-26 17:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by lovesaragon 5 in Weddings

Neither of us are out of the closet, and neither of our families know that we are freinds, if they did they would probably castrate us. We have had sex several times in the boys bathroom (we go into different stalls and then i slide under one and when we are finished i slide back under and leave). What should i do??????

2006-11-26 17:23:07 · 7 answers · asked by michaelomaq 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

sleeping with other people? I would never cheat on her but I find it a huge turn on watch her with others and helping her prepare for her dates.

2006-11-26 17:23:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i feel like he's always one up on me cuz he cheated and got to keep me.....can i ever even things out, i'm getting sick of treating him day in and out.

2006-11-26 17:22:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think men are not programmed for this 'one woman' idea.
The girls both know i'm married and both appear to accept i will never get divorced, we have kids i will never leave them. So i have been totally honest but i'm sure people will think this is wrong, but why?

2006-11-26 17:20:57 · 47 answers · asked by vaivagabundo 5 in Singles & Dating

am i justifying my behavior on what he did?...

2006-11-26 17:20:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they said to me, but what does that mean, wut do i say?

2006-11-26 17:19:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating