it seems as though he has backed up he says he is just trying to make sure of everything he is not sure if he is ready to settle down .
2006-11-26 17:26:00 · 9 answers · asked by lainey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you shouldn't be concerned. In a relationship both people are going to need their space once in a while. It is wise not to rush into things you might regret later. It will blow over. Good luck, God Bless.
2006-11-26 17:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by DepthsOfMyEyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's things on your mind that you haven't discussed; if this comes from a strange place; if he's lied in the past, walk.
I was in a relationship that became squirrly...little snides, jokes that weren't funny. Maybe he was trying to break up by doing these things. He wanted 2 months to work some things out. After THAT LONG, I'm still waiting, agonizing over the squirrly issues we hadn't even discussed.
After 2 months, I called. He was very offensive and direct, as if I'd invaded his privacy. WOW. If you trust him, if you can handle it, then giving another person space such as a couple of days is reasonable. My guy turned out to be a player who strung me along, with no good reason (for no good purpose) whatsoever. If you're satisfied the the logic (and I was) then...give it a go; you can't change his ideas, but you need to protect your own outlook. Do you WANT to wait around to see what he's going to tell you? Ultimatums don't work, either,
2006-11-27 01:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Yenelli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there ,at least he is being honest with you ,wanting some space and that also gives you the chance for some space and giving you a chance to check youre feelings and make sure that you are ok with this relationship ,i wouldnt panic or worry if something is meant to work it will no matter what and by giving this guy space it shows him that you trust him and that means that he must also trust you which is really important in any relationship .........i hope you both are really happy together and take care of each other xx
2006-11-27 01:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat doesnt even sound gud,the guy seems lyk he wants out.but then why is he being a chicken bout it.
do you love this guy,if so,i think u should start working on getting over him.he doesnt care bout u,he is just being selfish & thinking bout his own feelings only,doesnt he realise these also affects you.or he is cheatin on you,dats why he wants the space so he can get to see the new babe without actually feeling guilty or having to see both of you in a day.if so he is a greedy man and u nid to live him,u will find some1 who appreciates you,cares bout your feelings too and loves u even more and ready to settle down with you.
2006-11-27 01:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by loveguru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Needing some space...it could go either way, i guess. But needing space isn't necessarily bad. Everyone needs it before making a big decision.
if things were moving too fast for him, he may feel the need to back up...(maybe things need to go slower).
But when he returns, at least you know his love is there.
2006-11-27 01:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by xwho123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! when my xboyfriend told me he needed space he didnt call me for a week and i found out he got some girl pregnant and she was already 3 months! but good luck. i think tht if he really wanted to settle down with you he wouldnt be needing some space.
2006-11-27 01:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by marina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-27 01:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes you should be concerned
2006-11-27 01:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.....comitophobe....checking to see if there is anything better out there for him.
2006-11-27 01:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋